I couldn't spend my money on you because you refused to give me sex and its hurting me. No guy can accept what I ve endured with u. You re a virgin and your boyfriend tells you this. What would you do?

MissMalia:
I couldn't spend my money on you because you refused to give me sex and its hurting me. No guy can accept what I ve endured with u. You re a virgin and your boyfriend tells you this. What would you do?

Sorry, did your boyfriend tell you this?

Its a horrible thing to say,then again.........

1)How long enough did you know him before saying"yes"?

2)Was he aware that that you were a virgin when you said"yes"?

3)Did you made it crystal clear there won't be sex until only God know's when?

Answer these then we can take it from there.

Take a hike ,only give out your virginity because you have decided to ,dont be pressured ,dont be coerced ,dont fall for ridicule and better still keep it till that cool nite after you've won white to symbolize your purity

themilanway:
Its a horrible thing to say,then again.........

1)How long enough did you know him before saying"yes"?

2)Was he aware that that you were a virgin when you said"yes"?

3)Did you made it crystal clear there won't be sex until only God know's when?

Answer these then we can take it from there.

1. 4 months. 2 He knew she was a virgin. 3. She made it clear that there won't be sex.

I guess most of the guys out there can't love without s**

Most guys out there belive love is sex and there's no love without sex.




Can u believe one guy once told me '' anyss I love you so much pls Give me a chance. Just let me make love to you to prove how much I love you"

The dude is crazy for the shii.. Maybe you should just give him a bj and let him go

Wow! I'm a guy and i can understand where he is coming from.. It ain't easy... That's why i advice my friends not to go into relationships until they are ready for marriage in say 6 months. Cuz emotions start running deep and you both wanna consumate sum'n and then, after consummation, both of you have misplaced affections.

Your bf doesn't have his priorities about sex and love right. If you wanna be safe, better break up, cuz when a man's konji is on the loose... Its a running bulldog


If keeping your virginity is very important to you, tell him that if he loves you, he'll respect your everything, including your decisions


Babe, i tell you, if you sleep with him, his eyes will be opened, and all that craze he has for you will vanish like subliming phosphorus, and he'll come back only for that... Cuz once debe, always debe

Don't give him a bj.. I was joking bout that.


I think you are the one that opened a new account or something...


Hold on to what you cherish babe.. You are a product of your decisions.


And if you decide to sleep with him, you are an adult.. You should be ready for whatever consequences might follow and don't blame anything on anyone

Cheerio!

Well that guy must b a chancer.... will no luck or commonsense....

love n sex are definitely two different.....I am sure all Nairalanders know this....

Just sex can be good n more of satisfying temporary desire....I guess...

Love + Sex can take u the levels of bonding, trust, affection its less of desire and more of feelings...


Love+sex+weed is the edge of fantasy....... :-))

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Anyss:
Most guys out there belive love is sex and there's no love without sex.




Can u believe one guy once told me '' anyss I love you so much pls Give me a chance. Just let me make love to you to prove how much I love you"

nairaslim:
Well that guy must b a chancer.... will no luck or commonsense....

love n sex are definitely two different.....I am sure all Nairalanders know this....

Just sex can be good n more of satisfying temporary desire....I guess...

Love + Sex can take u the levels of bonding, trust, affection its less of desire and more of feelings...


Love+sex+weed is the edge of fantasy....... :-))

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Looolz. Love+sex+weed. Jeez. Wetin I no go hear. Choi!!!!!!!!!!

I'm sure this question is for ladies

Anyss:
Most guys out there belive love is sex and there's no love without sex.




Can u believe one guy once told me '' anyss I love you so much pls Give me a chance. Just let me make love to you to prove how much I love you"

lol, i'll bet you just made that up..

First, A virgin that wishes to keep her virginity till wedding night isn't supposed to have bf unless she would be ready for marriage in a year's time.
Second, if you are not ready for marriage and u have a bf, best thing is to avoid any form of romance, in fact, no kissing.
But, who would accept such these days?
Third, you could become a tertiary virgin in order to satisfy him. Check my profile for the full gist about that.
Fourth, There is no guarantee that u guys would later marry. Spending his hard earned money on you would be something he would live to regret if breakup happens.
Conclusion , if you wanna remain a virgin , don't ever ask him for Money. If he gives, fine, if he doesn't , he has reasons not to. You want to keep your virginity for your future husband, allow him to keep his money for his future wife too.

<<<<<<<<<KEY POINT>>>>>>>>>>>>


..............."I can't spend my money on you"

Did she go into the relationship for material gain and does not want to fulfil her own part?
If she was in a relationship and was not expecting any dime from him, then the guy would never say something like that. and if he says it, there are utterances that goes with it " WHAT ----THE ----HELL"

But if she wants to remain a virgin and expect the guy to be his father and shoulder all her Financial problem because she was the only virgin in the world, too bad......

Hmmmmmm

MissMalia:
I couldn't spend my money on you because you refused to give me sex and its hurting me. No guy can accept what I ve endured with u. You re a virgin and your boyfriend tells you this. What would you do?

My friend you can't have your cake and eat it. Leave Boyfriends for those that are ready to give sex!

MissMalia:
1. 4 months. 2 He knew she was a virgin. 3. She made it clear that there won't be sex.

From your answers its obvious that.......

1)You either didn't read/know him well enough

Or

2)He was hoping that you will change your stance on"no sex"the moment he starts to shower you with cash,gifts and attention.

Way out?You need to quit the relationship because that dude won't stop pressuring for sex directly and indirectly till you give in to his demands.

And when he does,the relationship is as good as dead.

My 1/2 kobo.

Cheers.

tunnamania11:
First, A virgin that wishes to keep her virginity till wedding night isn't supposed to have bf unless she would be ready for marriage in a year's time.
Second, if you are not ready for marriage and u have a bf, best thing is to avoid any form of romance, in fact, no kissing.
But, who would accept such these days?
Third, you could become a tertiary virgin in order to satisfy him. Check my profile for the full gist about that.
Fourth, There is no guarantee that u guys would later marry. Spending his hard earned money on you would be something he would live to regret if breakup happens.
Conclusion , if you wanna remain a virgin , don't ever ask him for Money. If he gives, fine, if he doesn't , he has reasons not to. You want to keep your virginity for your future husband, allow him to keep his money for his future wife too.

Tunde advisor ..well done

smexy:
lol, i'll bet you just made that up..

Seriously I dint he was a fellow copper. Although I was older as a copper; batch C While he was batch A



He was very very handsome buh I run from handsome guys they can give one heart attack lols.

MissMalia:
I couldn't spend my money on you because you refused to give me sex and its hurting me. No guy can accept what I ve endured with u. You re a virgin and your boyfriend tells you this. What would you do?

Not cool..

I advice you to break up with him...

Doughyeenbae:

Tunde advisor ..well done

I do it for free. How may I help you?

d girl said "there wont b sex"
now, d guy is saying "dia wont b money"
u eida choose to stay or move on to d next guy

Hey Young Lady walk away from that Nigga...he can keep his money!



My experience

I met her a Virgin, she told me no sex I agreed, we have been together for 5years now and she willingly gave in #NoTooMuchPressure #NoThreat

Anyss:


Seriously I dint he was a fellow copper. Although I was older as a copper; batch C While he was batch A



He was very very handsome buh I run from handsome guys they can give one heart attack lols.

lol ok, i wouldn't fault him though, last time i checked ladies like guys that 'tell it the way it is.' Especially in that regard.

MissMalia:
I couldn't spend my money on you because you refused to give me sex and its hurting me. No guy can accept what I ve endured with u. You re a virgin and your boyfriend tells you this. What would you do?

I've been trying to reach you on air,but your line isn't connecting..Call me let us talk,I need to tell you something..
Missed you!

dnt break ur virginity for a guy dat cnt wait.u hv bin keepin it for, let's say,over 20years,n u want to gv it to a dude dat won't marry u? use caution my dear.

MissMalia:
I couldn't spend my money on you because you refused to give me sex and its hurting me. No guy can accept what I ve endured with u. You re a virgin and your boyfriend tells you this. What would you do?

MissMalia:
1. 4 months. 2 He knew she was a virgin. 3. She made it clear that there won't be sex.

Why is money the topic?

Harbosede02:
I guess most of the guys out there can't love without s**

Yes, its important before we start hearing stories that touch from you girls..... Your twitter handle has been suspended. Please provide a valid means I can communicate with you. Thank you.

MissMalia:
1. 4 months. 2 He knew she was a virgin. 3. She made it clear that there won't be sex.

maybe ure not contributing anytin to d relationship, but u only want him to be d one doing the spending. wen u say no sex to a guy, uve got to be useful in oda aspect of life.