cococandy:

I honestly believe you're high.

Because for 1 you're one making any sense
And 2 I wasn't exchanging any ideas with you to start with. You quoted me to yarn incoherently.
And are still being incoherent.

maduck:
living in one room, and having a maid....."this woman funny sha" is she that lazy..?!

Joy1706:
When I read stuff like this, I don't feel so guilty about cheating on my husband. I mean men are dogs right? I might as well get my freak on so I don't feel so bad when the inevitable happens

Truckpusher:
We aren't blaming anyone here at all - We are simply pointing out to you guys some attributes and societal pressure that actually defines a man's psyche but you'll never learn believing you guys know it all unlike us that have said that women are complex , delicate and difficult to read.

May I also remind you that there are some women that actually pushes their men away just like some are just scumbags to their wives. But again you can't totally ignore the societal pressure surrounding this whie drama as it concerns men. Think again......
If you know where you're coming from , you'll definitely know how to behave and not be deceived by what you're seeing some other folks do.
Women in Africa are still under the total control of the men by law, culture and natural ideologies that has thrived for years. Fight the system and not the men for exercising their rights the way it is.

dre11:





How is it possible for a a family to live in a rented one room apartment and still employ a maid...


That is true.... Sounds unreal




The wife must be lying to make her story sound convincing

Doughyeenbae:

You live in a room and you have a maid..odikwa very alright.

HungerBAD:
No evidence against this man.

He is just helping the maid. The wife better not destroy her marriage.

cococandy:

Really?
What did you change into Oga?
You took the girl as your younger sister who has more value than your wife and kids.

missyadorable:




Oga,no matter what a wife does,no matter how humble homely,hardworking, bla bla bla she is,as long as she got a female not related to her husband by blood,anything is possible! all men sleep with maid,it has nothing to do with wifey's attitude.its nature

Truckpusher:
Yeah , she might be lazy even in bed.

Imagine the maid asking Oga why he's always begging for sex when someone else can give it to him without hitches?

Oga brain go just reset one hand.

Kachisbarbie:
yet she still calls the lady a maid.
Woman that's your co-wife.


This is the first sign. Once a maid starts behaving like this, just create a space for her in the guest room. She would be occupying it "legally" soon.

HungerBAD:
No evidence against this man.

He is just helping the maid. The wife better not destroy her marriage.

Truckpusher:
Their problem is that even the most naive ones among them thinks they know men and as long they've turned him to an indoor cat then they can do whatever they like and their ever loyal indoor cat won't bite - but trust me ; all indoor cats do have a plan all the time .
Some of these women know nothing until nature strikes them hard and harsh .
The owner of Chelsea football club gave his ex wife a billion dollar divorce just to have his way.
Men are goal driven unlike women that are driven by emotions and sentiments.

Valeree:
this reminds me of a similar incident that happened with our neighbor in our street long ago, but in this case the maid went ahead to marry the madam first daughters fiancé.
it was discovered that anytime the fiance comes to look for the woman's daughter the maid answers the door and starts to chat/flirt with him until the young man fell in love with her and lost interest in the other lady.
it was like a joke until the young man asked her to move in with him and the rest was history. the family was so heartbroken... some people get mind shaa.

cococandy:

Really?
What did you change into Oga?
You took the girl as your younger sister who has more value than your wife and kids.

Truckpusher:

Before a man will go after your ordinary maid or house help then there must be total loss of respect for you and that can only happen when you've totally shown him that he's an iidiot for having you - He will simply find solace somewhere else no matter the status of the person involved and of course the same thing applies to men too.

Theyveedo:
End time maid,




End time husband.

ijustdey:

A divorce seeking wife has told a court how her husband rented a flat and moved in with her housemaid.




http://opera.pulse.ng/gist/broken-home-my-husband-rented-a-flat-for-our-maid-divorce-seeking-wife-id4386546.html

Doughyeenbae:
"When I challenged him on why he should rent a flat for the girl while we live in a room"

You live in a room and you have a maid..odikwa very alright.

obiak4:

brain are you pondering what am pondering!!

Valeree:
this reminds me of a similar incident that happened with our neighbor in our street long ago, but in this case the maid went ahead to marry the madam first daughters fiancé.
it was discovered that anytime the fiance comes to look for the woman's daughter the maid answers the door and starts to chat/flirt with him until the young man fell in love with her and lost interest in the other lady.
it was like a joke until the young man asked her to move in with him and the rest was history. the family was so heartbroken... some people get mind shaa.

cococandy:

I honestly believe you're high.

Because for 1 you're one making any sense
And 2 I wasn't exchanging any ideas with you to start with. You quoted me to yarn incoherently.
And are still being incoherent.

Valeree:

A man may not necessarily have to loose respect for his woman before he start to cheat, or the woman showing him that he's an idiot before that happens.
i thought you made it clear in your other posts that men cheat for the mere reason that society allows them to practice polygamy. therefore a good woman can be cheated upon by an irresponsible man and yet the woman will be blamed. and now you post this, aren't your comments a bit contradictory?
meanwhile you keep saying that a woman should do her job well, if she was good in every way and the man keeps misbehaving how more do you want her to do her job well?