Joy1706:
When I read stuff like this, I don't feel so guilty about cheating on my husband. I mean men are dogs right? I might as well get my freak on so I don't feel so bad when the inevitable happens

I sure hope he's not reading this right now. Smh

Doughyeenbae:

Pinky I am not pondering anything

kkkkkkkkkkkkkk
just dash u 15k

obiak4:

kkkkkkkkkkkkkk
just dash u 15k

Would have been better if it was in my bank accountv

dre11:



Circumstances made that girl to be a maid.....


Am sure she learnt the art of being a good woman from her mother.
She definitely walked her way to the guys heart
Which am sure the woman's daughter couldn't do.

Story 4d gods! D man was obviously thnking wit hs dick.

Valeree:

A man may not necessarily have to loose respect for his woman before he start to cheat, or the woman showing him that he's an idiot before that happens.
i thought you made it clear in your other posts that men cheat for the mere reason that society allows them to practice polygamy. therefore a good woman can be cheated upon by an irresponsible man and yet the woman will be blamed. and now you post this, aren't your comments a bit contradictory?
meanwhile you keep saying that a woman should do her job well, if she was good in every way and the man keeps misbehaving how more do you want her to do her job well?

Some comments I made was simply to make a mockery of the person I quoted.

Doughyeenbae:

Would have been better if it was in my bank accountv

we only give for charity, and not for personal use
blessed be

obiak4:

we only give for charity, and not for personal use
blessed be

You get what you deserved, if you fail to do your core duties as a wife someone else will do it for you. S*x is one of them and the house maid was kind enough to do it on your behalf. Lazy wifes just many before you marry them they would be telling you to get housemaid as one of conditions when they snatch their hubby they complain.

You traveled leaving your husband with a grown up girl. What did you travel to do. I feel the law of karma is taking it course here. She was not faithful on her trip before she returns the rest is now history. More over the maid and the husband sleeps in the same room based on your claims of leaving in one room.

Your story is very pathetic though but more foolish to hear that you allowed a housemaid in a one room apartment. Anyway I think your husband did the right by renting a flat for her so that she can be coming to work from there since you are lazy.

Valeree:
this reminds me of a similar incident that happened with our neighbor in our street long ago, but in this case the maid went ahead to marry the madam first daughters fiancé.
it was discovered that anytime the fiance comes to look for the woman's daughter the maid answers the door and starts to chat/flirt with him until the young man fell in love with her and lost interest in the other lady.
it was like a joke until the young man asked her to move in with him and the rest was history. the family was so heartbroken... some people get mind shaa.

maybe the first lady was playing hard to get initially. . .

Truckpusher:
Some comments I made was simply to make a mockery of the person I quoted.

oh, I see

pretydiva:
The story get k-leg..d couple staying in one room,n yet could afford a maid..where d maid dey sleep ni

thank u l like your observation

nawao u live in a room n u still brought a maid na ur laziness go kill u

Doughyeenbae:
"When I challenged him on why he should rent a flat for the girl while we live in a room"

You live in a room and you have a maid..odikwa very alright.

exactly my thought...

cococandy:
So the woman is the problem.
Not the randy husband?

I don't think I believe this story. Either the poster made it up or the woman lied.

Someone that lives in one room does not need an 18years old house maid.
Someone that is married for 17years should have a 16years or even 10years old child.with u don't anymore house maid.

So don't be too harsh on this imaginary husband. Because this is a story embellished with lits of fiction... Lolzzz

OP the girl you calling a maid knows how to play blues with your husband in bed more than you. You man just found what you lack. The truth is always bitter

indeed. A cheerful giver.

xynerise:
He is just being generous

I believe you biko. If your wife if playing blues outside, hope the same premise applies? You must bear the bitter truth then o. By force by fire.

9jatatafo:
OP the girl you calling a maid knows how to play blues with your husband in bed more than you. You man just found what you lack. The truth is always bitter

things have really gone baad, 17years old marriage crashed into a tree, love have waned out, no more feelings for the wife,woman this woman dosent like you again,he dosent get what he married you for again,he changed for a reason best known to you,and u may be the cause...

dsquare33:
Some women are funny, you have been married for 17 years and your maid is 18 years, she is already a full grown woman, at that time everything is set in the right propoption. Yoruba parlance will say o ti ba laga. Na so Sarah with Abraham problem start, Some women just like courting trouble, why not employ a smaller girl or an older maid or nanny , whom the husband will not find attractive. She said they started dating when she travelled, too bad. Probably she is not the type that has time to take care of her family. Women, never leave your home to the care of a maid no matter how 'ugly' or 'unattractive' the maid is.

sSo are you trying to say that there are no decent men?

bukatyne:


The story is funnily sad.

The man took the maid as a sister kwa?

But again, this story is very igandoish sha...

1. A family lives with one room with three kids and have a maid?

2. Where does the maid sleep?

3. The husband can afford to rent a flat for his second wife yet cannot rent same for 1st wife and kids?

4. They have been married for 17yrs So will assume their kids are grown.... What the heck do they need a maid for? In a one room apartment? Except the maid is really a salesgirl who stays with them?

5. Why doesn't the husband want the divorce?

All "one rooms" are not equal,
neither are all flats equal.
One room could mean one living room, not
that there are no other sub-rooms.

The woman is probably understating their house
to make a point.

INTROVERT:
That girls waist is really something.... terrible

how you take know......... lol

Doughyeenbae:
"When I challenged him on why he should rent a flat for the girl while we live in a room"

You live in a room and you have a maid..odikwa very alright.

some women need serious flogging. how can u keep a maid with u in a one room apartment.
I guess the wife has actually hand over the family to the maid from the onset. too bad

crackhaus:
A typical case of one woman outdoing another woman right in her home...on her own turf.

Let the games begin, and may the best win...
Oops, the best already won...wha' can I say

guy u an oriwu alumni??
ur signature tho!

[quote][/quote]But Sefiu denied his wife's allegations, saying he
only took the girl as his younger sister

Iru ere wo ni aja nba ekun se?

And wives, you have been warned time without number not to bring in girl of that age into your home as maid. Always heed warning.

iriskiki:
I believe you biko. If your wife if playing blues outside, hope the same premise applies? You must bear the bitter truth then o. By force by fire.

Are you one of those that believes in vegetable soup?

Lol...They plenty 4 Lekki sef. Some men even collabo and rent duplex for their shag shack