Sparkles003:


hahahahahah
why don't you take the lead as per the originator

It's out of my context. Those who are active along the lines of the purpose of this thread are best suited to kick things off. Likely because the suggestion came from myminder, you and some others will not want to contribute...

Keep on keeping on...

Zubinike my apology in advance for what m about to do.
you have never said hi to me on this thread where i guess you
noticed me first but choose to pm me,
to wat purpose do i owe your precious pm

Hahaha! I wish I can intelectually devour dat with you now,and then come and analytically dissect it. Abg mak I rest jare,hope ur day went well?

missbronze:
Udysweet nkem, how dy my love?

I just finished preparing draw soup with semo.


Abeg, come make we intellectually devour am.


And, yes, OUR MINDS.

@udysweet and missbronze,what are you ladies intellectually devouring?

Sparkles003:
Zubinike my apology in advance for what m about to do.
you have never said hi to me on this thread where i guess you
noticed me first but choose to pm me,
to wat purpose do i owe your precious pm

I don't know Zubinike and neither am I seeking his favour.

I do not think putting him on blast in the open is right. If he has gone against your best practices, then, you could have

1. Told him off in private

2. Ignored him and then come to the public thread to inform everybody not to pm you except certain conditions are met. Everybody will now be guided properly going forward. You did not have to call him out publicly to get across your displeasure to him.

I am not also trying to attack you in any form. If guys start getting cold feet to connect in private then, the main purpose of this thread will be defeated in my opinion.

Remain blessed nonetheless.

And then there's dis old saying"overtaking is allowed"you can take the lead by giving us ur own info. And of what importance will my divulging such info be? So the fact that I'm active on this thread,means I have to be one of those to take the lead? See its my mind am saying,I just think you're deliberately stirring up troubled water,mbok! I'm just seriously thinking you're a male version of Melish(heck you could even be Melish sef)apologies to her tho,lol(no be say I wan find trouble o!
Just be urself,let the thread flow naturally and flow along with it. And one last thing,drive traffic to that your thread,cos I need to see it on FP. I believe in you somuch that you can do that. Me I'm not that intellectualy inclined enough to be able to post there o but I'll try in my own little way to read and decipher what's its about before making my own input.
Gracias!

MYMINDER:


It's out of my context. Those who are active along the lines of the purpose of this thread are best suited to kick things off. Likely because the suggestion came from myminder, you and some others will not want to contribute...

Keep on keeping on...

Melsan:
@udysweet and missbronze,what are you ladies intellectually devouring?

hehehehehe.


we are intellectually devouring our minds ooooo.

udysweet:
Hahaha! I wish I can intelectually devour dat with you now,and then come and analytically dissect it. Abg mak I rest jare,hope ur day went well?

My day went well. Guess yours was great too?

missbronze:
hehehehehe.


we are intellectually devouring our minds ooooo.

udysweet:
And then there's dis old saying"overtaking is allowed"you can take the lead by giving us ur own info. And of what importance will my divulging such info be? So the fact that I'm active on this thread,means I have to be one of those to take the lead? See its my mind am saying,I just think you're deliberately stirring up troubled water,mbok! I'm just seriously thinking you're a male version of Melish(heck you could even be Melish sef)apologies to her tho,lol(no be say I wan find trouble o!
Just be urself,let the thread flow naturally and flow along with it. And one last thing,drive traffic to that your thread,cos I need to see it on FP. I believe in you somuch that you can do that. Me I'm not that intellectualy inclined enough to be able to post there o but I'll try in my own little way to read and decipher what's its about before making my own input.
Gracias!

About that thread; it's not that deep...

Your answering the profile questions is advisory in nature. You dont have to do anything; you can choose to do something. You can accept or decline. I believe you have chosen the latter which is fine by me.

If you read my earliest posts on this thread, you will know why I do not deem it nevessary to provide my info. I am not going to regurgitate.

If you need to keep telling yourself myminder is here to cause trouble so that you can use that to fuel your animosity towards me when you comment, then, do what you believe you have to do.

I have told you I am not and I won't comment going forward about your assertion.

You can gang up all you want. I am not going to twitch.

You are free to keep speaking your MIND. We all have one.

Sparkles003:
Zubinike my apology in advance for what m about to do.
you have never said hi to me on this thread where i guess you
noticed me first but choose to pm me,
to wat purpose do i owe your precious pm

Babes, you no try here.

for crying out loud, is ordinary pm, the least you could have done is to reply back, and ask him this question in private.


This public announcement is uncalled for.


Hope your day was great.

Closed

MYMINDER:


I never said you were not OK; no need to go there. I am not building a thread; I am contributing to one. Maybe when you make these two adjustments then you may have a softer stance when you look at the bigger picture

I doubt whether you will see msbronze comment to me as dismissive because it came from someone likely on your good side. If you put my moniker attached to the same words, you may have already dived in to have a go at me. Human beings, nothing changes...

My point is this standoff has very little to do with the content of my contribution thus far and a lot more to with a negative view of the content provider and whatever he stands for or doesn't stand for.

It's just MY MIND

Attack you personally? No! I only responded to your post here. Because I don't agree with SOME of your ideas and methods, does that mean that I'm against you personally?
Prof, we warmly welcome intelligent and enlightening posts here. But if you're one of those guys who always think those who disagree with some their 'intellectual' views are against them personally.
Then I think you should try to keep YOUR MIND to yourself.

MYMINDER:


People perceive what they want to perceive. That's why people react differently to the same stimuli.

I neither seek acceptance nor rejection from males or females on this thread. I say what I believe needs to be said; how people decide to react or perceive my content is 100% outside of my control and I will not lose sleep over it.

I have no agenda whatsoever: udysweet said I am here to make trouble (wrong) or you that is now linking this to showing off. People will always think what they want to think; I am not going to dwell on it. Live and let live.

I have spoken MY MIND as always

Best wishes

Bro the above bolded is not entirely correct. Of cos u can control how u want to be perceived; its not by WHAT ur saying but HOW ur saying it. Using expressions like "low hanging fruit" and "barren expeditions" may be realistic reasoning, but the choice of words is poor. Emotions cannot be ruled out from these kind of interactions, u know. U can't be all efficient and logical about hookups and dating. Ur just gonna rub some ppl off d wrong way and u don't want dat bro, trust me. Ur suggestion is not bad at all, but u could've presented it in a more "acceptable" way...hope u get my drift.

Btw, why don't u put up d link to ur thread so some of us can't comment there as well. One luv bro.

missbronze:
Babes, you no try here.

for crying out loud, is ordinary pm, the least you could have done is to reply back, and ask him this question in private.


This public announcement is uncalled for.


Hope your day was great.

to each his own
you would have choosen what you wrote
i choose mine
thanks for the advice

MYMINDER:


I don't know Zubinike and neither am I seeking his favour.

I do not think putting him on blast in the open is right. If he has gone against your best practices, then, you could have

1. Told him off in private

2. Ignored him and then come to the public thread to inform everybody not to pm you except certain conditions are met. Everybody will now be guided properly going forward. You did not have to call him out publicly to get across your displeasure to him.

I am not also trying to attack you in any form. If guys start getting cold feet to connect in private then, the main purpose of this thread will be defeated in my opinion.

Remain blessed nonetheless.

and how would i have told him off in private?
well now they know.
uhmm.
thanks for saying your mind.

Just for laughs!! I found dis hilarious post on one thread like dat...

In the morning,I went downstairs for breakfast hoping my husband would be pleasant and say, 'Happy Birthday darling,' and possibly have a small present for me.As it turned out, he barely said good morning, let alone 'Happy Birthday'. I thought....well, that's marriage for you, but the kids.... they will remember. My kids came bouncing down stairs to breakfast and didn't say a word. So when I left for the office I felt pretty low and somewhat dejected.As I walked into my office, my handsome boss Rick said, 'Goodmorning, lady, and by the way Happy Birthday!' It felt a little better that at least someone had remembered.I worked until one o'clock, when Rick knocked on my door and said,'It's such a beautiful day outside, and it is your birthday, what do you say we go out to lunch, just you and me.' I said, 'Thanks, Rick, that's the greatest thing I've heard all day. Let's go!'We went to lunch. But we didn't go where we normally would go. He chose instead a quiet bistro with a private table. We had two martinis each and I enjoyed the meal tremendously.On the way back to the office, Rick said, 'It's such a beautiful day...we don't need to go straight back to the office, do we?' I responded, 'I guess not. What do you have in mind?' He said, 'Let's drop by my place, it's just around the corner.'After arriving at his house, Rick turned to me and said, 'If you don't mind, I'm going to step into the bedroom for just a moment.I'll be right back.' 'Ok.' I nervously replied.He went into the bedroom and, after a couple of minutes, he came out carrying a huge birthday cake, followed by my husband , my kids, and dozens of my friends and co-workers, all singing 'Happy Birthday.'And I just sat there....on the couch....stark Unclad. So that's why I'm divorced!

Have a peaceful nite rest y'all!

If me I decide to talk my OWN MIND, this place no go fit contain us o...Lol

But seriously, u guys cracked me up. I was torn between laughing, smh and hissing to some of the posts. The level and disparity in intellect is quite amazing.....while you applaud some on one hand, you wonder if some of us are actually 30+ on the other hand.

Point of note; I'm far from being a leader on this thread. I basically come here to unwind, interact, extend friendship and partake in intelligent conversations.

I will be meeting my crush tomorrow, but there's an issue. She wants us to meet at the Mall, Lekki but I don't do malls...I prefer pubs or bars but she wants neither. We are at crossroads, I may just opt out. We don't always seem to agree since we began communicating. Nothing serious between us, just friendship atm.

How's everyone doing?

omo,u guys dey talk o.especially d guys on dis thread.I can't even read everything, just 2 much.I hope u guys r not gay.real men don't talk.oginni

@ddshow,oya talk naa

ddshow:
If me I decide to talk my OWN MIND, this place no go fit contain us o...Lol

But seriously, u guys cracked me up. I was torn between laughing, smh and hissing to some of the posts. The level and disparity in intellect is quite amazing.....while you applaud some on one hand, you wonder if some of us are actually 30+ on the other hand.

Point of note; I'm far from being a leader on this thread. I basically come here to unwind, interact, extend friendship and partake in intelligent conversations.

I will be meeting my crush tomorrow, but there's an issue. She wants us to meet at the Mall, Lekki but I don't do malls...I prefer pubs or bars but she wants neither. We are at crossroads, I may just opt out. We don't always seem to agree since we began communicating. Nothing serious between us, just friendship atm.

How's everyone doing?

Doing great..dont opt out jor,una two must agree ooo

Closed

MYMINDER:
Some People here feed themselves with the fuel they need to validate their outbursts.

I never used the word impose ms bronze used it to validate her outbursts. Don't apply words that I did not use just to enable you give your response a nice takeoff.

Spare me the deceit though it is widely accepted in Nigeria so as to gain acceptance. I remember comments when I first talked about topics to discuss and some said go ahead that it is not a strictly hookup thread. Talk about anything here. Now some women are twisting it to feed their agenda.

I started an intellectual thread. What I WROTE above is 100% in line with this thread about people trying to build relationships. It is not meant for anywhere else. In your haste to get me out of this thread you refuse to see that. Take out the emotion; logic and objectivity is all you need here.

When I mention leaders I mean people who actively participate in the thread and not just OP.

I have made my logical view known. I don't need to seek acceptance before I speak out. I guess that is part of the gripe.

You don't have to like me online to make sense of my content. It seems that some of the women that have spoken thus far have refused to separate both of them.

You peeps are borrowing my slogan. It's all good...

MY MIND

maybe if you try been simple with words and not over focus on intellectual or over logical stuff too much. Just flow with it or try bring out some nice topic.

I understand you! But you are too obsessed with INTELLECTUAL AND LOGICAL.

REMEMBER! the simple form of things can also be so complex in nature while the complex are aften the most simplest

Like your logo! MY MIND

May our sleep be sweet tonite ,good night @all

Melsan:
@ddshow,oya talk naa

I've been talking....i'm appointing you as the head of the '30+ soirée' committee.

You may appoint your Secretary.

lolu20:

omo,u guys dey talk o.especially d guys on dis thread.I can't even read everything, just 2 much.I hope u guys r not gay.real men don't talk.oginni

matrix199:

Read ur post again and tel me if u made sense.

Lol...

MYMINDER:


I don't know Zubinike and neither am I seeking his favour.

I do not think putting him on blast in the open is right. If he has gone against your best practices, then, you could have

1. Told him off in private

2. Ignored him and then come to the public thread to inform everybody not to pm you except certain conditions are met. Everybody will now be guided properly going forward. You did not have to call him out publicly to get across your displeasure to him.

I am not also trying to attack you in any form. If guys start getting cold feet to connect in private then, the main purpose of this thread will be defeated in my opinion.

Remain blessed nonetheless.

now I like you more! You said the truth and if someone go against you one thing one, that person don't really understand what it feels like to be harass publicly by the opposite sex as something you thought as normal.

And this is what makes guys think that all women are thesame.

MY MIND

@uncle ddshow,appoint ke? ...rara oooooo

Sparkles003:

and how would i have told him off in private?
well now they know.
uhmm.
thanks for saying your mind.

thesame email.

gratefulme40:


Making sense as always.
How have you been?
Still,waiting for you to dash me some of tjose free hours

How are you finding the weather? Its been pretty cold since saturday.

My dear, come a‎nd take hours o. Although, a friend of mine is around now so I am a bit occupied. The cold is 'don't mention'. I had to go to an outdoor shop today to order a burley jacket, they didn't have my size in store‎. Na freezing things. How are you doing?

Melsan‎ has been appointed Sec Gen, yayyyy. So ddshow presido, melsan sec gen. More appointments please

Udysweet, how are you doing my dear?
Magneto, I hail
Regards to everyone else.

nouvelle:



My dear, come a‎nd take hours o. Although, a friend of mine is around now so I am a bit occupied. The cold is 'don't mention'. I had to go to an outdoor shop today to order a burley jacket, they didn't have my size in store‎. Na freezing things. How are you doing?

Melsan‎ has been appointed Sec Gen, yayyyy. So ddshow presido, melsan sec gen. More appointments please

Udysweet, how are you doing my dear?
Magneto, I hail
Regards to everyone else.

egbami ooo..who appointed melsan?melsan nor dey for gen sec oo

magneto:
Just for laughs!! I found dis hilarious post on one thread like dat...



Have a peaceful nite rest y'all!

Wish you same

Melsan:
@uncle ddshow,appoint ke? ...rara oooooo

Hian...you are heading the committee, please appoint a secretary.

nouvelle:


Melsan‎ has been appointed Sec Gen, yayyyy. So ddshow presido, melsan sec gen. More appointments please

Melsan heads it actually.