Hello NL, pls I need your candid advice on this matter as am about to climb d hardest ladder in my life.
Am a lady of 24yrs, am in my final year in University. I have a fiance we have been together for close to a year now, I won't deny d fact that we are both in love with eachoda, I'v been close to his family and they are in support of our relationship.
My problem is that, this guy in question is hyper protective, as in he doesn't want any body around me especially my male friends. Now he asked me to take an oath with him, believing only that will give him rest of mind that I won't leave him for any reason.
Pls, for any reason doest it make sense to take an oath??
And is there any spiritual or physical consequences for an oath taken?
Pls my fellow brothers and sisters your help is seriously needed.

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Do people still do this oath thing in this 21st century? What if u end up no marrying this Mr lover

Oath ke
Someone is seriously in trouble oo
My advice for u is that, u need to profess the love for him, make him feel secure with you, as taking oath is not in the option at all. So do not take oath or make an empty promise to your partner, rather show him love, satisfy him with everything u can ever think of, but don't dare to take an oath with any man.

Evergreen4:
Do people still do this oath thing in this 21st century? What if u end up no marrying this Mr lover

Tor, I wonder o

Never take oath for any reason.

If the guys loves you, there is no need for him to be securing his future by oath.

The way you build your relationship matters the most.

If something bad happens along your relationship/courtship i.e. death of your partner, you are finish be that.

Sincerity and understanding is utmost the best than taking an oath.


#IRestMyCase

you shouldnt....you'll regret it later in da future if u accept d oath ish

Its a very risky thing...I dont support such

dump him

End time oath






Dont be deceived because even the oath will not stop him from not wanting your male friends around you...... Believe me though you will not believe right now, this guy in question will not only stop your male friends but will later stop some of your loved/far relatives and probably show sign that he doesn't like your family been around all the time that it should be two of you alone, another thing is that he may later be an abuser or violence..... Oh i shake my head, please be wise.....its just a year and there are still many things /characters he has not displayed

don't even try it.............oath is never a guarantee in any relationship rather it destroys it...........the key to a successful relationship is understanding each other.

Dont u dare!
Physical consequence
(1)He will surely resolve into a violent man once u r married cos he will always b over protective n very jealous,
Spiritual consequence
God condems it,period.

Oath bawo? Do you know what would happen in the future? Don't you know after marriage you will start seeing what you don't really know about your partner.

NO NEED FOR THE OATH IF ONLY HE TRULY LOVE U....



IF HE NEEDS SECURITY MAKE HIM TELL CHIEF OF ARMY STAFF TO HELP HIM WITH BATTALIONS OF BOKO HARAM...... MITCHEW.....

Run for ur dear life oh

Troll alert

Oath? Did you just say oath? I TAKE MY GREATGRANDBOSSMAN'S NAME BEG YOU,.... NO TRY AM O!!!!!

@op run for your life!

That's is an end time red flag!

Don't dare it please!

Do you plan to be 'disloyal'? Then take the oath na.
No spiritual or mystical thingy whatsoever.

femimailbox:
@op run for your life!

That's is an end time red flag!

Don't dare it please!

younghartz:
you shouldnt....you'll regret it later in da future if u accept d oath ish

AlomoReloaded:
Oath? Did you just say oath? I TAKE MY GREATGRANDBOSSMAN'S NAME BEG YOU,.... NO TRY AM O!!!!!

@all those discouraging the op, I don't know when Nigerians would outgrow this our hyper superstitious nature. Don't you take oaths on wedding day, or is the church oath accepted simply becos it's done in a church?
This simply underlies our inherently immoral nature, as many still have that sneak feeling that they'd still cheat even when married.

sapiosexual1:




@all those discouraging the op, I don't know when Nigerians would outgrow this our hyper superstitious nature. Don't you take oaths on wedding day, or is the church oath accepted simply becos it's done in a church?
This simply underlies our inherently immoral nature, as many still have that sneak feeling that they'd still cheat even when married.

What is dis one saying? Oya go swear inside shrine say you no go bawl any other gf apart frm ur present gf.....d meat wey dem dey eat inside shrine different from dat wan wey dem dey share inside church.

Premise:
Hello NL, pls I need your candid advice on this matter as am about to climb d hardest ladder in my life.
Am a lady of 24yrs, am in my final year in University. I have a fiance we have been together for close to a year now, I won't deny d fact that we are both in love with eachoda, I'v been close to his family and they are in support of our relationship.
My problem is that, this guy in question is hyper protective, as in he doesn't want any body around me especially my male friends. Now he asked me to take an oath with him, believing only that will give him rest of mind that I won't leave him for any reason.
Pls, for any reason doest it make sense to take an oath??
And is there any spiritual or physical consequences for an oath taken?
Pls my fellow brothers and sisters your help is seriously needed.

OP PLS TRY N WATCH THIS MOVIE THE OATH IS AN OLD SCHOOL NAIJA MOVIE AFTER WHICH YOU IL KNOW IF YOU SHOULD OR NOT...HELL NOOOO

There is fire on the mountain...........run run run