A good man is hard to find whether you agree or not. The definition of a good man varies for each individual but a general definition of a good man encompasses facts like
- nice
- understanding
-money spender
-lover
-detailed planer
-a friend
The list continues.
Ladies, it is good we acknowledge the fact that a guy is good not because he wants to please us but because he is naturally good.
It would be very unwise for a lady to feel she is "too much" simply because a guy is good to her and cares for her.

Now let's address the main issue.
Why do ladies always feel they are the ones who always need taking out?

Why do ladies always think its their right when a guy pays for their hair and stuffs like that?

At what point will ladies realise that guys too want to be pampered?

What stops you as a lady from paying after your date?

I don't think a guy would reject you surprising him with some pairs of shoe.

You don't have to wait till its his birthday to get him a gift or surprise him.
As much as ladies love to be called sweet names the men too like it.
Let him wake up to an epistle of your love for him. Make him as happy as you want to be.

You can't always be the one receiving the compliment every time. Tell him how lucky you are to have him. Let him know how much you love him. Help him feed his ego so you are the only one his inner baby understand.

The things you know make him happy do them happily.
Don't always wait till he says lets go out before you go out. Sometimes be the one to say darling I'm taking you for a treat.

A man's heart will melt not to the hotness of your temper but to the steam of your pampering.

Whenever i see threads like this, i understand one thing, the authors r very sensible. And should deserve the very best.

You have said it all.. A man that is pampered will go to great lengths for you... especially a typical good guy...
Some women nor know say no be everything being fight and argument... Well done OP...

NaijaHulk:
You have said it all.. A man that is pampered will go to great lengths for you... especially a typical good guy...
Some women nor know say no be everything being fight and argument... Well done OP...

The reverse is not the case.

its hard to believe there is still a girl like u in this con3

hope u are practicing what u just preached

Cutehector:
Whenever i see threads like this, i understand one thing, the authors r very sensible. And should deserve the very best.

yea, i agree wit u, bt no marra hw real and natural u appear b4 dem gals, dey'd still wanna magarize u, even wen u come wit no alterior motives.

All diss sermon is for Ladies in other Country
Our ladies over here believes their 'Grail' is the Greatest Gift

Cutehector:
Whenever i see threads like this, i understand one thing, the authors r very sensible. And should deserve the very best.

cutehetor, been a while. Hope u good & tnx 4 d comment

2dice:
All diss sermon is for Ladies in other Country
Our ladies over here believes their 'Grail' is the Greatest Gift

"over here" as in where?

firstking01:

yea, i agree wit u, bt no marra hw real and natural u appear b4 dem gals, dey'd still wanna magarize u, even wen u come wit no alterior motives.

true! A lot of ladies need orientation cos they are influenced by others

rawpadgin:
its hard to believe there is still a girl like u in this con3

hope u are practicing what u just preached

I only preach wat I practice

Mzflexydeeva:
true! A lot of ladies need orientation cos they are influenced by others

yea, dats d word, influence. Am a victim, u decided to show genuine love to a gal, d next tin is, she'd start tellin her frns dat maga don fall.

Mzflexydeeva:
I only preach wat I practice

cool, ur type is rare

Now this!

This is a smart girl, a girl who uses her brain!
I like that! You smart! Keep this up!

Hmmm.. Interesting

Mzflexydeeva:
cutehetor, been a while. Hope u good & tnx 4 d comment

yeah i am... U welcome

firstking01:

yea, i agree wit u, bt no marra hw real and natural u appear b4 dem gals, dey'd still wanna magarize u, even wen u come wit no alterior motives.

u r stll a learner...

Nice post as always. ✔
I like you already.

Mzflexydeeva:
"over here" as in where?

here in Nigeria

Cutehector:
u r stll a learner...

friendzone ain't deathzone bro...it depends on hw u carry urslf with the said gal...hwfar??

Cutehector:
u r stll a learner...

friendzone ain't deathzone bro...it depends on hw u carry urslf with the said gal.

Mzflexydeeva:
A good man is hard to find whether you agree or not. The definition of a good man varies for each individual but a general definition of a good man encompasses facts like
- nice
- understanding
-money spender
-lover
-detailed planer
-a friend
The list continues.
Ladies, it is good we acknowledge the fact that a guy is good not because he wants to please us but because he is naturally good.
It would be very unwise for a lady to feel she is "too much" simply because a guy is good to her and cares for her.

Now let's address the main issue.
Why do ladies always feel they are the ones who always need taking out?

Why do ladies always think its their right when a guy pays for their hair and stuffs like that?

At what point will ladies realise that guys too want to be pampered?

What stops you as a lady from paying after your date?

I don't think a guy would reject you surprising him with some pairs of shoe.

You don't have to wait till its his birthday to get him a gift or surprise him.
As much as ladies love to be called sweet names the men too like it.
Let him wake up to an epistle of your love for him. Make him as happy as you want to be.

You can't always be the one receiving the compliment every time. Tell him how lucky you are to have him. Let him know how much you love him. Help him feed his ego so you are the only one his inner baby understand.

The things you know make him happy do them happily.
Don't always wait till he says lets go out before you go out. Sometimes be the one to say darling I'm taking you for a treat.

A man's heart will melt not to the hotness of your temper but to the steam of your pampering.

Team op

Bt there some men who are naturally wicked who will still nt appreciate a girl after doin all u av stated

Its just d grace to meet a guy who wud appreciate it

halfrica:




Team op

Bt there some men who are naturally wicked who will still nt appreciate a girl after doin all u av stated

Its just d grace to meet a guy who wud appreciate it

that's y I used the word "good man"

2dice:
here in Nigeria

it's alright

iAmCharis:
Nice post as always. ✔
I like you already.

Mzflexydeeva:
that's y I used the word "good man"

Oh yeah my bf is a good man m lucky ryt??

halfrica:


Oh yeah my bf is a good man m lucky ryt??

u sure are

I did start writing one day. I learnt over time. God blessed me with a man who is understanding and patient and is never tired of teaching me. He has taught me & so I share ways girls can better their relationship

Mzflexydeeva:
u sure are

i love the way u think


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