ok let me go straight to the point.
She's in her final year, a very beautiful girl and am in my 300L,she had to change department due to some certain issues in her 200 level, so she had to do some courses she didn't do while she was in her initial department in her final year.
Was very surprised when she met me one day to help put her through on one course, I had to schedule a class with her for a whole day, after the class she asked for my number but my phone was down, so she asked for my Instagram user name so she could follow me. I had no alternative than to oblige after all I was doing what I did with a clear mind, this was a girl I've never had a conversation with since my fresh man year.

Fast forwarded to the exam day, I kept on praying she won't decide to sit near me cause she might be bossy, luckily for me she came in late and had to sit behind, after the exams I was dodging from her cause I thought she'll be pissed I didn't keep a space for her as she asked me to. I was surprised when she came running towards me, her arms spread out signalling a hug. I looked back to see if am actually the one she was running to, before I could turn back she covered me in a warm tight embrace, and the next thing I heard was darling you're a sweetheart, followed with a peck. I was so tensed, probably she noticed and gave me space to wallow in my surprise, it was after she left that I noticed the girl I was walking with left me too, maybe she just couldn't take it.

After the exam day I wasn't expecting her to be much close because this is a babe that every complete guy will crush on, but after a week I crashed into her in school ,the first thing she said was,"shey you don't want to give me your number", I told her that's not entirely true that we've not seen for a while and I gave her my number. A part of me was anxious of her call, but I was 90% sure she wouldn't want to waste airtime on me. After roughly a month of giving her my number, she said hi on watsapp, I was so happy, out of my anticipation I've started thinking of this girl a lot. We started talking, tho I was the silent type I just felt like talking all day with her, we sounded so compatible, I was falling hard. One of the day's she asked me to join her to the salon, I was dumbfounded, I really wanted to, but I swore never to escorts a girl that is not married to me to make her hair after my friend told me how his extravagant girlfriend made him path ways with #10,000 for her hair do. Guy man no wan fall hands so he had to do it, me too no wan enter Thesame issue.

Some weeks ago she fell sick, I met her in a shopping mall and she complained I wasn't asking after her or even cared to look for her, I appollogized trying as much as possible to convince her I was thinking about her all through. From that evening I kept on calling her on phone to ask after her health and this actually got us really close.
One of the day's she said something to me and I told her she's sweeping me off my feet, and she said she'll be there to catch me when I fall, her reply sent a lot of messages to me.

Recently I realized I can't stay a minute without thinking about her, last week I was telling a friend about her and he gave me a shocker, he told me the girl was taken and not only is she taken but his boyfriend is one of the bad boys in school. I've never felt the way I feel for this girl a long time, for a long time I've quit quite a number relationships because my girlfriend at the time complains am not being there for her, I've never felt love for a girl since someone I cared about hurt me real bad, I've been single for close to a year because I don't want to hurt someone else and couldn't even feel anything for anyone . How come this one I feel something for could spell a lot of troubles for me.

Out of boredom, I made a sketch of her and sent her yesterday, she couldn't hold her emotions, I guess she didn't know when she told me she's falling for me. Am certain this girl is in love with me, but the problem is his boyfriend, I don't know if what I heard is true tho, but am the type that focuses on my students and try hard to stay out of troubles, she'll be graduating after this semester and the thought of her leaving is killing me.

Guys I need your advice pls, what should I do





Here's the sketch of her I sent her, I might take it down soon, who knows she might be on NL

Mermaids:
Too much for me to read but would advice base on topic.

Quicky fall out of love you are falling in.

Sorry it's lengthy, but I tried as much to make it interesting. Pls try reading it so you could be resolute in your advice pls

MzPecs:
Too long.
I'll need a summary of this!

Nne try and read it nau, biko. Your advice is needed

nwanne o ga abukwa 'kush' , jukwa ese. adirokwa asi ndo.

My advice for you is YOU WANNA DIE? abi babes don finish for your school. Crush ko Craw Craw ni. #Endtimelove

Mermaids:
you even drew her with pen

Hiya, op is really falling in love
You should let me know when the guy comes to panel beat you.
Ndo

This geh sef, na ur advice be dat shey?
Well am not the soft type, I've not found out if they're still dating tho, but u know some of these guys might feel threatened even by mere holding their girlfriends hand. I just want to know if I should terminate contact with the girl. Tho I know it'll hurt her and me too

death warrant

You've been told who owns her, yet u still contemplating on what to do. Do u wanna die young? Is she the only one in your sch ? Forget about the girl asap.

hahaha, buddy, grab a parachute... you are in for a rough dive...

tunnamania11:
You've been told who owns her, yet u still contemplating on what to do. Do u wanna die young? Is she the only one in your sch ? Forget about the girl asap.

OK sir.

Monalisa185:
hahaha, buddy, grab a parachute... you are in for a rough dive...

It's been a while, you took a break?
Are u saying I should stay off her too?

I don't know what to tell you, my rules regarding life may be different from yours. But I sure know that if you want to graduate school after spending 4 frustrating years, It'd be best you leave that girl alone. No girl is worth getting your brains blown out for, at the campus level at least. And I can't be certain, but i honestly think you're in the friend/guy who-helped-me-pass-my-exams-so-I-should-be-grateful zone.

faith551:



OK sir.

Don't tell her the reason you are leaving her, she might not even know who her so called Bf is.

tunnamania11:

Don't tell her the reason you are leaving her, she might not even know who her so called Bf is.

I'll try, it's going to be difficult. But I'll try

Mehn! If you know wetin dy good for you. You go leave that girl. Whatever you feel. Swallow am, shÎt am out, flush am for the toilet!


Bros! I don tell you my own o. After two years for poly, I had to run away because of one cultist chasing me up and down, just because of girl! I for don graduate since. I go start all over for university! I dy look on the bright side say atleast from poly I go uni. So, bros. Abeg! Learn from my lesson leave that girl. Go find another love, make you no go hear stories that touch! I don talk finish!

SirLewis:
I don't know what to tell you, my rules regarding life may be different from yours. But I sure know that if you want to graduate school after spending 4 frustrating years, It'd be best you leave that girl alone. No girl is worth getting your brains blown out for, at the campus level at least. And I can't be certain, but i honestly think you're in the friend/guy who-helped-me-pass-my-exams-so-I-should-be-grateful zone.

Am 100% sure am not in a friend zone. I wanted to walk after helping her, but she kept coming after me. Lately too she's been wanting to come to my place.
Thanks for the advice tho. I'll definitely let her be.

faith551:



I'll try, it's going to be difficult. But I'll try

May God help you.

faith551:


It's been a while, you took a break?
Are u saying I should stay off her too?

yeah right, been a while...nah, been around tho..

why would you want to fall in love with someone you know fully well is in a relationship?
*let's not even talk about the person she's involved with*

obiorathesubtle:
Mehn! If you know wetin dy good for you. You go leave that girl. Whatever you feel. Swallow am, shÎt am out, flush am for the toilet!


Bros! I don tell you my own o. After two years for poly, I had to run away because of one cultist chasing me up and down, just because of girl! I for don graduate since. I go start all over for university! I dy look on the bright side say atleast from poly I go uni. So, bros. Abeg! Learn from my lesson leave that girl. Go find another love, make you no go hear stories that touch! I don talk finish!

Wow!!, sorry bout that bro.
Thanks for the advice

Monalisa185:


yeah right, been a while...nah, been around tho..

why would you want to fall in love with someone you know fully well is in a relationship?

I wasn't aware she was taken before, I wasn't really interested in her in the first place, I just got to like her after we got close.
You've been around and you didn't even care to say hi, not fair

op na normal tin u come de make noise ........


save ur ass and add more padlocks to cat in d box

tunnamania11:
May God help you.

Thanks a million times bro

faith551:



Thanks a million times bro

You welcome

naijaboiy:
Guy you wan die abi?

It's not a joking stuvv o! For your own good and for the good of your future just let her be. I take God beg you.

This girl may really have feelings for you but I tell you that there is not much you can do about it. The problem with this type of issue is that these girls will never tell you they are in a relationship with someone else. They will selfishly lead you on and make you fall,it may even get to the point of having hot sex with her and then later you discover that she has a boyfriend,by then it has become too late because you are now fully involved with her.

Please and please if you don't want wahala let her be abeg and find your own. So many guys have had their brains blown out because of püssy. May you never die on top püssy bro. Say Amen to that.

Hahaha, thanks bro
Amen to that pastor

You even made me remember something now, mum called me very early yesterday morning, and told me she had a bad dream about me, that I should be careful. Maybe that's the reason for the dream. Mehn! am shutting down. Thanks althesame tho

faith551:


I wasn't aware she was taken before, I wasn't really interested in her in the first place, I just got to like her after we got close.
You've been around and you didn't even care to say hi, not fair

buddy, you wouldn't wanna toil dah path..
just let go...you could wait for her to break up tho, lol

awwww!!! so sorry bout dah...hope you good tho?

Monalisa185:


buddy, you wouldn't wanna toil dah path..
just let go...you could wait for her to break up tho, lol

awwww!!! so sorry bout dah...hope you good tho?

LOL, I no even wait again , the guy might accuse me of causing the break up.
We'll, it's nice having you around tho.