BuddhaPalm:


Well, you will certainly have a very hard time convincing people if you claim to have been raped, repeatedly, by the same group, over a long period.

A period in which you returned to your rapists, of your own volition, countless times.

Hmmmmmm

There is this psychological phenomenon called 'craving after your tormentor' found among some rape victims. Also, we have instances where victims fall in love with, and may want to protect, their raper. However, the emotional state post-rape doesn't reduce the enormity of the crime.

NigeriaReports:
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1. The Post is Posted By Oluwaseun Osewa Popularly Known as Seun the Owner of Nairaland
2. Seun Can Never Lie to Please you
3. The Post is the life Histroy or Story of my Fellow blogger Sugabelly ....

My Own Suggestions.

I DOn't see the Reason why a rapist should be contesting for a Gorvernorship post of a state @KOGISTATE....

Dear Sugabelly if you don't have money to sue the animals to court , Claim you damages and enjoy you life dear , i will support you with enough cash , ... if u need a lawyer .. i will give you one ... my brother is a lawyer and am proud to say that .... MEN MUST LEARN HOW TO RESPECT WOMEN .... FROM Mary Vivian Chinaze ---- owner Vivian Gist

Man please I'll need ur help sir, can it be private if u don't mind sir

If blogger are lies then apc warrior ate all :- d change was a scam

That Ema dude head large o.Lol *runs back to check the word she used to describe it*

To think that they are all married men now with fine wives. Sugabelly im not here to judge u o but we leave ourselves open to prey most times. I feel for you for the price you had to pay. I just hope and pray that even if at the end of the day, nothing happens the whole world has heard ur story and you will find peace. You seem like a strong woman! Stand tall!!

God will punish the Audus! This is wicked!

E too long to read abeg.

They just useless this girl apuna...

She doesn't have a 'private part' anymore... it belongs to Kogi Igalas *Holds vomit*

You dey mind her..foolish girl..

DeejayTafari:
And this is coming from a girl, Big Idiot, When you tell us your rape story, Absolutely nobody will believe you.

youmour:
Damn and she's soo pretty and talented..sigh,with the comments going on here I can count the number of rapist we have on NL,I wish I could be her friend for real and help her through this trying period and maybe marry her some day so she could erase that nasty experience from her mind forever.

HIV, HERPES, HB+ and gonococcuss' is your friend

Nice one....Lots of adults in a child's body with fish brain on here...

Lyoncrescent:



I want to assume you are still looking for Admission. Jamb form would soon be out.

This is one of the saddest things ive read! All of u judging her should know you couldnt have done anything else if you were in her shoes. So only 18 people have been convicted of rape in Nigeria? Lord pls deliver the downtrodden and those who cannot fight for themselves. There's so much injustice in this country. I was discussing about rape with my sis the other day and I told her that knowing that Nigeria hardly ever gives justice to rape victims, I will take my personal justice against a rapist. God forbid it, but if any fool should try this with me, I make sure you are killed, before attempting to kill myself. Rape damages someone psychologically, mentally and socially forever. I know that these idiotic boys will never face charges in this country, but I am really happy that they are being disgraced in the open. They have destroyed their names forever and its high time western countries take note of them also, so they are not allowed to travel, hold positions or transact any bisinesses abroad. Even a prostitute does not deserve rape. I pray these men will face a really bitter and horrific karma as a result of their actions. AMEN

tjark1:
E too long to read abeg.

They just useless this girl apuna...

She doesn't have a 'private part' anymore... it belongs to Kogi Igalas *Holds vomit*

you sound very retarted! Do u realize this is a serious matter?? Silly little kid

You are a lady too so u better be careful things u spew !,you ought to show empathy even if the story were cooked.if your sister or friend was the case here would you still go this way??i for a man is so so sad this happened(though yet to be investigated)and just mad but to hear an amiable lady like you say this!!is so amazingly horruble pls.all those found culpable in this matter shouldnt live !

pretydiva:
Can't dis sugarbelly of a girl stfu 4 once

kayemjay:


Yes Bro. I totally kick against rape or sexual manipulation of any sort. Mustapha was older. She was young, inexperienced and ready to experiment. He should not have taken advantage of her gullibility. He was very very very wrong! And should be punished.

BUT

She tasted the maltreatment once, twice, thrice. And she still continued, even professing love and willing him to love her more? Okay, let's chalk that up to being seventeen.

WHAT IS THE REASON SHE DECIDES TO BRING THIS UP PUBLICLY AT THIS TIME? HIS DAD JUST DIED!

Is it fair to him, his wife, his family? At this time of grief? She is really craving attention and if anyone cares to read her blog posts from 2007, you will understand.

Yeah, same here, she obviously saw something in Mustapha that makes her stayed glued to him. I've seen many cases like this, especially when the parent of the guy is very important or the guy himself is a celebrity of sort and they ended up being financially compensated, though I believed she was raped but not the way she portrayed it.

Am already shading tears whilst I read dis cos I have similar experience with a family friend@the tender age of 12 he even got me pregnant on my first mense threatened me with my life if I ever show or tell any1 dt him sleeping wit me out of my consent wen I got pregnant he came to my family dt he want to marry me@12+ 3days to my 13th birthday I have a son for him my parents made me move in wit him as a wife without proper marriage cos everybody believed is wot I want. Staying with him for 10yrs have 3kids with him while he did not provide for me nor the children I have to do odd jobs to complete my education yet we r not properly married cos my family want to cover the shame and scandal. This man is not even rich or influencal like the audu's it was 10yrs of hell with a man 17yrs older than me. I left 6yrs ago@ d age of 22 wit 3kids to care for alone yet some pple tell me that I was enjoying it it was 10yrs of hell cos if I didn't go to live wit him my rapist would have being my dad cos he has started making advances of me b4 his friend almost destroy my life. This things happen everyday,in different form, fashion, and pattern and nobody say anything about them. My rapist/ teenage husband has tried marriage 3times and it all failed.God will never show any rapist rest and mercy. May the Good lord strength u and all other victims of child rape esp in Nigeria wia women are seen as object of s e..x rather dn fellow human. All her story are true cos I have being dia b4 I knw wot is like to be raped severally for yrs by pple dt are suppose to be a gaurdian to u is something I don't wish my worst enemy cos I have 3kids for my worst enemy that almost destroyed my life. Say no to rape! Say no to stigmatization of victims/women! Say noooooo to barbarians !!!

And to think someone actually married those beasts! This is appalling.


If you have opened your mouth to utter one silly comment calling Sugabelly an attention seeker for coming out with her story, I hope you pray real hard for yourself that neither you nor someone you care about is ever raped, or almost raped.
I'd love to swear for you folks but... I'll leave your matter for God.

pretydiva:
Can't dis sugarbelly of a girl stfu 4 once

I guess you ve not been raped before.

Just shut it cos you don't know what it means to carry scar for the rest of your years

JJJC:
Yeah, same here, she obviously saw something in Mustapha that makes her stayed glued to him. I've seen many cases like this, especially when the parent of the guy is very important or the guy himself is a celebrity of sort and they ended up being financially compensated, though I believed she was raped but not the way she portrayed it.

Really? Is there a different way to portray rape? Please enlighten me.

pretydiva:
Can't dis sugarbelly of a girl stfu 4 once

you are really a retarted woman! Anuohia.. I hope u are raped and humiliated,sinxe it's obvious u like it. Ihere me'gbuo gi

ExInferis:
This thing reads like the sexual fantasy of a depraved girl.

She probably had an affair with Mohammed, and got jilted. Thus she mixes up truth and fantasy in one delusional spasm of jealousy and rage.

The way she uses the word fucck without the psychological revulsion of a victim against that dirty word betrays her lies.

She wanted fame and fortune by associating with kids of the powerful. The man used her and dumped her. She's getting her own back by attempting to rubbish the young man's politics.

Nothing to see here.

Just your average "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" opportunism.

Try n read d story n picture ur sister/daughter in her shoes. idiot!

damton:
Hmm.

This is serious.If this is true, she should have come out way before elections or a while after the election is concluded.
Crying foul now discredits the whole story and makes her look like cheap attention seeker.

Anyway, it's not more than what some of these boys can do.
We've had worse rape and molestation stories.It just highlights the decadence in our society and most importantly among our youths.

At a point you begin to wonder why these boys never thought of prostitue, if they really wants to have rough sex, when there are prostitutes out there that would gladly oblige to their cravings.

By the way, why wish death on the father for the sins of the sons in the first place.

i just hope this version is not cooked up just for political or character defamation.

Why should crying foul now discredit the story? Doesn't make any sense. A mere modicum of common sense would tell you that the story is too detailed not to be true. Evidently, the nonchalance with which Nigerian guys treat rape has not left your reasoning.

UjSizzle:

Really? Is there a different way to portray rape? Please enlighten me.

Read this

amacastel:
Am already shading tears whilst I read dis cos I have similar experience with a family friend@the tender age of 12 he even got me pregnant on my first mense threatened me with my life if I ever show or tell any1 dt him sleeping wit me out of my consent wen I got pregnant he came to my family dt he want to marry me@12+ 3days to my 13th birthday I have a son for him my parents made me move in wit him as a wife without proper marriage cos everybody believed is wot I want. Staying with him for 10yrs have 3kids with him while he did not provide for me nor the children I have to do odd jobs to complete my education yet we r not properly married cos my family want to cover the shame and scandal. This man is not even rich or influencal like the audu's it was 10yrs of hell with a man 17yrs older than me. I left 6yrs ago@ d age of 22 wit 3kids to care for alone yet some pple tell me that I was enjoying it it was 10yrs of hell cos if I didn't go to live wit him my rapist would have being my dad cos he has started making advances of me b4 his friend almost destroy my life. This things happen everyday,in different form, fashion, and pattern and nobody say anything about them. My rapist/ teenage husband has tried marriage 3times and it all failed.God will never show any rapist rest and mercy. May the Good lord strength u and all other victims of child rape esp in Nigeria wia women are seen as object of s e..x rather dn fellow human. All her story are true cos I have being dia b4 I knw wot is like to be raped severally for yrs by pple dt are suppose to be a gaurdian to u is something I don't wish my worst enemy cos I have 3kids for my worst enemy that almost destroyed my life. Say no to rape! Say no to stigmatization of victims/women! Say noooooo to barbarians !!!

So sorry about your ordeal dear

amacastel:
Am already shading tears whilst I read dis cos I have similar experience with a family friend@the tender age of 12 he even got me pregnant on my first mense threatened me with my life if I ever show or tell any1 dt him sleeping wit me out of my consent wen I got pregnant he came to my family dt he want to marry me@12+ 3days to my 13th birthday I have a son for him my parents made me move in wit him as a wife without proper marriage cos everybody believed is wot I want. Staying with him for 10yrs have 3kids with him while he did not provide for me nor the children I have to do odd jobs to complete my education yet we r not properly married cos my family want to cover the shame and scandal. This man is not even rich or influencal like the audu's it was 10yrs of hell with a man 17yrs older than me. I left 6yrs ago@ d age of 22 wit 3kids to care for alone yet some pple tell me that I was enjoying it it was 10yrs of hell cos if I didn't go to live wit him my rapist would have being my dad cos he has started making advances of me b4 his friend almost destroy my life. This things happen everyday,in different form, fashion, and pattern and nobody say anything about them. My rapist/ teenage husband has tried marriage 3times and it all failed.God will never show any rapist rest and mercy. May the Good lord strength u and all other victims of child rape esp in Nigeria wia women are seen as object of s e..x rather dn fellow human. All her story are true cos I have being dia b4 I knw wot is like to be raped severally for yrs by pple dt are suppose to be a gaurdian to u is something I don't wish my worst enemy cos I have 3kids for my worst enemy that almost destroyed my life. Say no to rape! Say no to stigmatization of victims/women! Say noooooo to barbarians !!!

my dear I am so sorry for your ordeals. I wish I could just hug u and tell u all will be fine! U are too young to have passed thru all these. I pray God comforts u and may you find happiness. IJN

JJJC:
Yeah, same here, she obviously saw something in Mustapha that makes her stayed glued to him. I've seen many cases like this, especially when the parent of the guy is very important or the guy himself is a celebrity of sort and they ended up being financially compensated, though I believed she was raped but not the way she portrayed it.

Please educate us about the special way one can portray rape. Please do.

JJJC:
Read this

And this is supposed to hold substance? It still doesn't address the emotional trauma he put the poor girl through. There's no question she liked him, as we can imagine. At the same time, there's quite no question he abused her severely.

okwadatigbogal:



you sound very retarted! Do u realize this is a serious matter?? Silly little kid

Na WA o!

If u want to abuse @least spell the word correctly ehn! As old as u r ehn Uncle Ode

The truth is that she enjoyed it initially,but got hands burnt when she tried running away from her shadows.this thing happened recntly na,in fact i was her teacher at Loyola then, those kids drink and smoke heavily,we try to teach them moral but the system wont help matters, their parents too contributed a great deal to this mess.they were never available for the kids, so the kids grew into something else,we most times allow them go home and by the time they are coming back ,they com to school with pornographic materials!u bgin to wonder where is d place of parental nocturing o!na only teacher go do d magic abi?those kids are way too xpose than some of us the staff and the kind of curriculum prracticed there too......no be here o.lots of them sugar belly dey there till date(though i am no more with LOYOLA JESUIT)AND will keep craving for negative exposure in that sch if they aint monitored daily in our INTERNATIONAL SCHOOLS.

ournaijablog:
I just read the whole story and I know no human being can concoct explicit details such as this if it weren't true I feel so sorry for her and to all those saying she enjoyed it fo goodness sake she was 17 and for a woman that's the right age to start crushing and having sexual feelings if that mohamed abi wat is his name sef had been a good man he would ve nurtured those feelings and had a non sexual relationship with her till she was legally aged to her sexual intercourse .

Dear sugabelly God will fight for you because it will take the grace if God for justice to be served see all those monsters now married and will have girl children forgetting that they have psychologically ruined another's life.

Heaven has heard your cries and no one deserves to experience what you did at such age.

MathsChic:

And this is supposed to hold substance? It still doesn't address the emotional trauma he put the poor girl through. There's no question she liked him, as we can imagine. At the same time, there's quite no question he abused her severely.

And this

docadams:


Hmmmmmm

There is this psychological phenomenon called 'craving after your tormentor' found among some rape victims. Also, we have instances where victims fall in love with, and may want to protect, their raper. However, the emotional state post-rape doesn't reduce the enormity of the crime.

Tell them. They clearly don't get it. For Nigerians, if you don't scream rape and kick about the second you have been raped, then you obviously enjoyed it.

amacastel:
Am already shading tears whilst I read dis cos I have similar experience with a family friend@the tender age of 12 he even got me pregnant on my first mense threatened me with my life if I ever show or tell any1 dt him sleeping wit me out of my consent wen I got pregnant he came to my family dt he want to marry me@12+ 3days to my 13th birthday I have a son for him my parents made me move in wit him as a wife without proper marriage cos everybody believed is wot I want. Staying with him for 10yrs have 3kids with him while he did not provide for me nor the children I have to do odd jobs to complete my education yet we r not properly married cos my family want to cover the shame and scandal. This man is not even rich or influencal like the audu's it was 10yrs of hell with a man 17yrs older than me. I left 6yrs ago@ d age of 22 wit 3kids to care for alone yet some pple tell me that I was enjoying it it was 10yrs of hell cos if I didn't go to live wit him my rapist would have being my dad cos he has started making advances of me b4 his friend almost destroy my life. This things happen everyday,in different form, fashion, and pattern and nobody say anything about them. My rapist/ teenage husband has tried marriage 3times and it all failed.God will never show any rapist rest and mercy. May the Good lord strength u and all other victims of child rape esp in Nigeria wia women are seen as object of s e..x rather dn fellow human. All her story are true cos I have being dia b4 I knw wot is like to be raped severally for yrs by pple dt are suppose to be a gaurdian to u is something I don't wish my worst enemy cos I have 3kids for my worst enemy that almost destroyed my life. Say no to rape! Say no to stigmatization of victims/women! Say noooooo to barbarians !!!

So sorry to hear dis, ur story is as bad as sugarbellys. U're a strong g woman, speak out n Let d pain go, contact sugarbelly/Ngo against rape, d world need to hear ur story, we nid to talk more on rape cases, dey always go unreported in dis country cos of d stigma. I have a little daughter n I shudder each time I hear stories like this, ur dad by d way is a beast! Everyone on dis forum blaming/insulting rape victims 4 coming out, dis is my prayer for u: may u/ur daughter/sister b a victim of rape! Den u'll understand, Idiots!

JJJC:
And this

Still doesn't address anything. It does confirm that she liked him and had sex repeatedly with him, at every convenience. But it doesn't justify the abuse he put her through. In a civilized country, he would be forced to prove his innocence and, given the revelations we have, may in fact go to jail for this.