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Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by femi4: 6:23pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
I don't know how you guys do it, I don't even have a friend. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by femi4: 6:35pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
CassaBooBoo:nice boobs |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by femi4: 6:49pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
NegeduGrace:Find another person to confide in. Though he is dating someone else but I can guarantee you that his feelings for you will not die until you guys stopped seeing each other. You ve already hurt his feelings, why hang around him again |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by MrBasketball: 7:39pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Nobody: 10:00pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
surestsam:hv slept in d same room wit him so.... |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by surestsam(m): 10:16pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
coha:dont just sleep in same room with him.. D guy mite b shy... Make d move nd see wat hapuns next...... Dats why i said seduce... |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by VickyRotex(f): 12:02am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 7:49am On Nov 28, 2015 |
MzPecs: This exactly what happned to me too,my bestie got a gf and the girl was so rude at first but later changed and now we are very cool. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 7:51am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Odunharry: To me this should be about maturity, my bestie's gf is close to me and we talk well and get along. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 7:58am On Nov 28, 2015 |
NegeduGrace: I guess he just can't deal with the fact you can't be his babe. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 8:00am On Nov 28, 2015 |
barinaadaa: funny dude |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Odunharry(m): 8:00am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Bbsharon:lol.. why can't he make his Gf his bestie or you make ur bf urs? who is deceiving who? |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 8:03am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Beautifulemi: That's the point. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 8:05am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Ezechinwa: He has a gf. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 8:09am On Nov 28, 2015 |
coha: many dnt just understand that, not everyone is sex freak. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 8:12am On Nov 28, 2015 |
ojuolu: Thanks for sharing, the highest have given my bestie is just a hug. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Bbsharon(f): 8:23am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by femi4: 8:25am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Bbsharon:Its not my fault, I don't know how to keep tab on people |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Nobody: 8:32am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Bbsharon:my dear to many pple dese days,if u are seen wit a guy.he is automatically ur f**k mate.na wa |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Odunharry(m): 8:33am On Nov 28, 2015 |
coha:THe koko be say make ur boo ur bestie |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Nobody: 8:36am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Odunharry:hv hrd sire.....#happy now# |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by atheistandproud(m): 8:36am On Nov 28, 2015 |
abdoolorunwa:true talk, and besides, have any of you noticed that many of these besties do not have serious relationships of their own? 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Odunharry(m): 8:39am On Nov 28, 2015 |
coha:no |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Odunharry(m): 8:39am On Nov 28, 2015 |
atheistandproud:God bless for the observation |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by MzPecs(f): 8:53am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Bbsharon:That's what it is. And some guys here actually thought I faked my story! Thanks for putting this up! |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by atheistandproud(m): 9:16am On Nov 28, 2015 |
If the so-called male bestie has a serious relationship of his own, with all the intrigues, problems, and drama that a serious relationship brings, I don't think he'll have time to be poking into mine. I ain't saying that there aren't real friends, there are but they are extremely rare. Sorry to say but most male besties are green snakes. They are almost never on good terms with the bf, they always like to form protective, they always poke into your relationship, they almost never have relationship of their own that is serious enough, they are good at causing trouble or mudslinging and they are always competing for attention. In fact expect a post on this from me soon. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by postmann: 9:43am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Bbsharon: I believe with the strongest conviction that having an opposite sex as a best friend is not only abnormal but dangerous for obvious reasons. For little kids this can be of little worry, but should be corrected as early as possible before such people grow with such sick behaviours into adulthood or adolescent. -- People having the opposite sex as best friend have poor person-to-person boundaries -- people who have the opposite sex as best friends are emotional cheats at best. Full blown cheats at worst --People who have the opposite sex as best friends have divided loyalty --people who have the opposite sex as best friends find it a challenge to be highly committed in their relationship with their boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/spouse --People who have an opposite sex for a best friend are selfish people who put their needs first in their relationship with their partners --People who have the opposite sex as best friend look beyond their partners for emotional bonding and fulfilment. --people who have the opposite sex as best friend are security risks to their partners ----- they seek advice from and divulge a lot both of their personal lives and families and partners to this best friend. --people who have the opposite sex as best friends are not worthy to have a committed partner. --women/girls who have the opposite sex as best friend are more prone to rape and/sexual assault. This behaviour is not normal. I believe it's a disorder. Nothing personal but if you look at the list above, you'll see many are familiar to you A man's mind works very differently from a girl's mind. A man is 60% more prone to sexual thoughts than a woman and he is very visual in his sexual process. So I speak with unspeakable confidence to say an overwhelmingly vast majority of men who have females as best friends are not completely innocent in thoughts, hopes, and desire in such relationships. They are not completely innocent! Same goes for women but in a much lesser degree. These people, male and female are always a click away of committing adultery or fornication or cheating. There is always something that makes an opposite sex a best friend; something that just make them a step away from being a lover, a sex partner. Most times it is people of the opposite sex whom you once had a crush on, whom you could have dated but either he or she was a friend to one's brother or sister. Or he or she is in a relationship with your friend. Or something else just stopped the process of a full blown love relationship. So the only alternative is best friend or just friends. That's why I said such relationships are rarely honest relationships. And by no means healthy or normal. It's a very deep problem in that very individual. But I won't go further than this. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by Nobody: 9:57am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Odunharry:y |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by MrBasketball: 10:37am On Nov 28, 2015 |
VickyRotex: Loving herself only. Mtchew. Come here and let's be best friends... Don't be stingy with your body. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by VickyRotex(f): 11:34am On Nov 28, 2015 |
MrBasketball: It's my body. So if I ain't stingy with it, who will? |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by MrBasketball: 2:34pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
VickyRotex:Don't be stingy with me. I am here for you to witness the love you want. |
Re: Guys, How Do You Feel When Your Lady Has A Male Bestie? by VickyRotex(f): 2:37pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
MrBasketball: I don't want Love! |
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