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My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by crayguy: 10:45am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Hi nairalanders.... I'll try to break short my context of my story. I am a young guy of 22 years old, I am actually dating a girl of 18 years old, I love her real deep and I believe she do loves me too, she's has a bright future and a very nice home manner(beautiful as well),I eventually got her pregnant and she's planning to do abortion which I am not in deep support, considering we both have seek some spiritual findings which makes it clear that the child(male or female) is a great and powerful child, aborting could lead to my girlfriend not able to conceive again otherwise loose her life, she's hell bent on abortion because of her school and shame from meighbours... I was actually thinking of settling her down with business (don't know the best for her)..... please help on idea of a good business I can setup for her in this states, what am I to do ? , I am really frustrated as am still hustling as well. please help.. I am open for "criticise" |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by ibe9ja: 10:45am On Nov 30, 2015 |
End Time spiritualist. Na Ifa or fake prophet? ***** I dedicate this FTC to the Op and his 18 years old girlfriend. I wish u guys a happy family and plenty of good luck that this Child will bring. 109 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by IamLEGEND1: 10:47am On Nov 30, 2015 |
great and powerful child indeed coz e go really do the two of una strong tin. 51 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Cutehector(m): 10:48am On Nov 30, 2015 |
I am fed up! I i need to start going to secondary schools to counsel young girls on dangers of premarital sex! ![]() 161 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Nobody: 10:51am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Mermaids(f): 10:51am On Nov 30, 2015 |
yawa don gas. Alfa don even put salt ![]() 18 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by iceberylin(m): 10:51am On Nov 30, 2015 |
The way young girls get pregnant these days when Gold circle is #50 ![]() 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Nobody: 10:53am On Nov 30, 2015 |
BRO ure a man 4 wanting to make her keep the pregnancy, as 4 her tell her the story of GENEVIEVE and omotola when they both had their first child, that did not stop them from been an acheiver, the child should b a motivation 4 her, after delivery she should go back to school and work hard just to give her child A better life and help d child attain his or her greatness, she should 4get abt what others might say, "she should act like a woman and think like a man. 113 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by tse1v1(m): 10:54am On Nov 30, 2015 |
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Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Nobody: 10:56am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Marry her and she'll keep it ..... 7 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Confessng: 11:00am On Nov 30, 2015 |
I will gladly accompany you Cutehector: 37 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by godofwar666(m): 11:06am On Nov 30, 2015 |
![]() Better go tell her family to arrange byforce marriage 45 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Monalisa185(f): 11:07am On Nov 30, 2015 |
e Don happen!!!! you for seek advice from us before you bleep am oo.. 9 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Cutehector(m): 11:09am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Confessng:i would totally luv dat 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by obiorathesubtle: 11:19am On Nov 30, 2015 |
crayguy:nigga. You don use blanket cover that girl bright future No abort the child. Just leave the girl run. You're welcome. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by crayguy: 11:23am On Nov 30, 2015 |
godofwar666:when sense land in the yard of a nuisance....bro swerve. 3 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by MRBrownJ: 11:24am On Nov 30, 2015 |
crayguy: bro, FIRST AND FOREMOST, in order to stop her from having an abortion, you need to LISTEN and UNDERSTAND her problem. why does she want to abort?! she does so because of her school and shame from the community. so you need to sit down and ask yourself what you can do to solve that. searching for "good businesses", thinking that it will solve the problem, shows us all that you are not listening to what she is saying. FURTHERMORE, having a child is no joke!!! here you are talking of having this baby while you dont even have a JOB or steady income of any sort. how are you going to FEED/CLOTHE/CARE/ACCOMMODATE/EDUCATE that child for 18yrs, when you cant even care for your own self?! LAST BUT NOT LEAST, right now your only option is to ABORT, as both of you certainly aint mature enough (aka emotionally/financially/physically ready) to have a child. here is a clue: you should BOTH finish your education, BOTH get a job, then get married, get a house... and only then should you dream of starting a family. 46 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by kay29000(m): 11:26am On Nov 30, 2015 |
This is a very tough one. If you don't abort the child, you would be leaving her with a stigma for the rest of her life. And it would affect her progress in life for a time. If you do abort the child, you are setting her up for a lot of complications. I don't know the best thing to do in this situation. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by essencestore: 11:26am On Nov 30, 2015 |
.u see threads about safe sex and Condom usage. Una go ignore the threads.. But when u were skin-diving it was sweeting you, your eyes were tinting like Low current...without pulling out. You didn't reason all these then... ![]() 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by OJenterprise: 11:26am On Nov 30, 2015 |
deep |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by coldsummer: 11:27am On Nov 30, 2015 |
2 adults capable of making your own decisions... and i sincerely wish i could say this and sound sincere. NO IT WAS SILLY OF BOTH OF YOU. But i think abortion is a no no. it may be hard and depressing for both of you, but that child deserves a chance at life 7 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by freshness2020: 11:27am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Hmmmm |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by duduade: 11:27am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Cutehector:would have said primary schools but on second thoughts I think speaking into the womb will be better. ... 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by octopusfreaky(f): 11:27am On Nov 30, 2015 |
dont abort itt,,nairalanders please preach sex education everywhere... there are cdsss naaaa,,our young girls need to be taught.. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by IdisuleOurOwn(m): 11:27am On Nov 30, 2015 |
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Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by ELgordo(m): 11:28am On Nov 30, 2015 |
NAIRALAND IS A HEAVEN FOR TROLLS....... LET THE ENDTIME CREW START YAPPING SMH! 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Nobody: 11:28am On Nov 30, 2015 |
congratz. Another young father in the house. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by ayusco85(m): 11:28am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Am sorry dude I can't advice u. Am more of a prevention is better than cure kind of guy. U shld ve used a condom. My only advice, use a condom next time to avoid pregnancy number 2. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Ijaya123: 11:29am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Where are your parents? They will advice both of you better. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by OJenterprise: 11:29am On Nov 30, 2015 |
crayguy:Check my signature. |
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