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Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by preetyb(f): 8:25pm On Nov 30, 2015
If a girl loves too much some guys will say its obsession, if she loves for money she is a Gold digger and if she does not love much they complain she does not have their time. What kind of Love do u guys want?
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Princedapace(m): 8:25pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy

This is the type of bae Im looking for...the one that will be madly in love with me...bro, u just lost something good o...quickly go back to her...if you convince her well, she will forgt about blood issue...love and pamper this lady and watch out how beautiful ur life will be on earth...this type of bae hard to see now o...abeg, im looking for bae that will want to die for me...not the ones that are always silent and quiet...
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by justjify(m): 8:27pm On Nov 30, 2015
halfrica:


Mind u m nt that skinny like d girl in d pix
Ook noted miss.
BTW have you started working on yourself?

Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Lordkratus(m): 8:28pm On Nov 30, 2015
izsmike:
my guy u did the right thing.... Maybe she be ogbanje after blood covenant she go con die... Den begin straff u for dream
lmaoo.....I SWEAR THIS MADE MY DAY.guy u be real junkie
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Sanchase: 8:29pm On Nov 30, 2015
Bro give me the babe number make i tidy am for you lol...
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Nov 30, 2015
justjify:

Ook noted miss.
BTW have you started working on yourself?

Stop bugging me u my mutherfuvkin step son!!!!!!
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Lordkratus(m): 8:32pm On Nov 30, 2015
To me bro u did the right thing,firstly u are too young to get urself in that magnitude of commitment and also u dnt know what the future holds,who you'd meet or where you'd be.secondly i'm not all religious but bro there are negative sides to blood convenant that can ruin u pls resist.focus on something creative maybe education.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Benwems(m): 8:36pm On Nov 30, 2015
Please go back to her and apologise. I really wish she was my girl. She is madly in love with you. Such girls are hard to come back. Just reassure her of your love for her and tell her how lucky you are to have her. That you were only scared of the convenant thats why you broke up with her. Tell her you she is the best thing to happen to you in recent times. But dont accept convenant. If you are not till interested in the angel God sent to you. You can give her to me. Just send me her number via pm. Also tell her that a pastor saw a vision that its me thats her life partner. A word is enough for the wise. NB- you are lucky to have her.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by LoveJesus87(m): 8:40pm On Nov 30, 2015
izsmike:
my guy u did the right thing.... Maybe she be ogbanje after blood covenant she go con die... Den begin straff u for dream
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha u be craze man o dis guy grin
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by akindap07(m): 8:40pm On Nov 30, 2015
Bros......I think u were also looking for an excuse to break up with her.....buh dat wasn't enough excuse though
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Lordkratus(m): 8:44pm On Nov 30, 2015
Benwems:
Please go back to her and apologise. I really wish she was my girl. She is madly in love with you. Such girls are hard to come back. Just reassure her of your love for her and tell her how lucky you are to have her. That you were only scared of the convenant thats why you broke up with her. Tell her you she is the best thing to happen to you in recent times. But dont accept convenant. If you are not till interested in the angel God sent to you. You can give her to me. Just send me her number via pm. Also tell her that a pastor saw a vision that its me thats her life partner. A word is enough for the wise. NB- you are lucky to have her.
seriously?guy u no well
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by badonkadonk: 8:44pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy


Truth is bitter buh I am gonna tell u as it is with no sugar coating..

You acted like a kid dat you are.. Nothing to be ashamed about.

So because she tell u say make una do blood covenant and u rightly said No, u thought it right to break up with her just for dat reason..

U were not harsh at all o.. You were demonic!! Yeye dey smell.. Some children sha!!!
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by LogoDWhiz(m): 8:45pm On Nov 30, 2015
The only think I can pinpoint here is that you never loved the girl.

Fine, the girl may be obsessed with you and all those stuffs. But it's who she is.

You can't use the excuse of not covenant to break up with her.

Just be blunt with your stand on No Covenant and make her see reasons. That's all.


There are better ways you could have handled this.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by justjify(m): 8:47pm On Nov 30, 2015
halfrica:


Stop bugging me u my mutherfuvkin step son!!!!!!
You really need all the help you can get before its too late. cool
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by akindap07(m): 8:47pm On Nov 30, 2015
What nonsense! Why will she want oath...Give me her number let me talk sense into her head. grin
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by omakay(m): 8:47pm On Nov 30, 2015
cassyrooy:
OP, if you had had s*x with her and reassured her that you're gonna stand next to her, she might've dropped that Convenant notion

Exactly.
Sex and Blood Convenant hold the same weight in a relationship.
Just MAKE LOVE to her and you will see how she will dump the blood convenant topic.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Lordkratus(m): 8:48pm On Nov 30, 2015
badonkadonk:


Truth is bitter buh I am gonna tell u as it is with no sugar coating..

You acted like a kid dat you are.. Nothing to be ashamed about.

So because she tell u say make una do blood covenant and u rightly said No, u thought it right to break up with her just for dat reason..

U were not harsh at all o.. You were demonic!! Yeye dey smell.. Some children sha!!!
mr man u try wella o.when u dun get mature son advice am to enter blood convenant eh.be here ranting when we know u dnt have the guts to do it as well
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by pomsky: 8:51pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy




..[size=14pt]......to be sincere with you, you have NO business being in a relationship. You're too immature and will end up hurting those close to you. Infact, you have NO SENSE AT ALL to handle relationship matters. Young hearts are frail and need a mature hand to lead them. What message have you sent to the young girl now who did EVERYTHING in her power not to offend, bt please you. But you end up treading upon her pearls. I'm tempted to call you "SWINE".
You feel cool you've dated virgins, but broken off with them leaving them "intact" physically, but i bet, not intact emotionally. Mr virgin dater!
I'm not saying do blood covenant, bt pls, do you becos of this break off a relationship with someone you claim to love. I have found out by test that many ladies in genuine love with a man will be willing to enter a covenant to show their commitment and genuineness. Many ladies are like that, especially the innocent ones. I've never done it before, but i have seen it over and over!
Listen young man, don't you go around or near God's virgin daughters again, till your young skull gets mature. You're causing more harm than good! You feel ur too holy/perfect to tolerate their imperfections, abi? These are young girls who will be cherished, loved, and groomed by more matured hands. Just lay off them for others more mature, and stop leaving them thinking there's something wrong with them. HOLYFREDO! angry[/size]
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by busyfishing(m): 8:54pm On Nov 30, 2015
you meet a girl that sincerely loves you and you just break up with her? do u know how long I have wished for a girl to love me like DAT? why are human beings like this? U are been foolish.better make up with her and make her understand why u don't need to do the blood stuff..or u will regret it.I ASSURE YOU
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Nov 30, 2015
franklingud:
Bro take my advice, ignore other ones.























Congratulations, YOU did the right THING. Blood covenant for what? Is she a witch? Don't ever think of picking her call not to talk more of going back to her.






































Cast ur net coz there are many more fishes in the BIG OCEAN bro. wink
Thanks bro but you funny grin
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Lordkratus(m): 8:56pm On Nov 30, 2015
pomsky:




..[size=14pt]......to be sincere with you, you have NO business being in a relationship. You're too immature and will end up hurting those close to you. Infact, you have NO SENSE AT ALL to handle relationship matters. Young hearts are frail and need a mature hand to lead them. What message have you sent to the young girl now who did EVERYTHING in her power not to offend, bt please you. But you end up treading upon her pearls. I'm tempted to call you "SWINE". You feel cool you've dated virgins, but broken off with them leaving them "intact" physically, but i bet, not intact emotionally. Mr virgin dater!
Listen young man, don't you go around or near God's virgin daughters again, till your young skull gets mature. You're causing more harm than good! You feel ur too holy/perfect to tolerate their imperfections, abi? These are young girls who will be cherished, loved, and groomed by more matured hands. Just lay off them for others more mature, and stop leaving them thinking there's something wrong with them. HOLYFREDO! angry[/size]
PERVERT....mr sense
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by abbey621(m): 8:58pm On Nov 30, 2015
At 22 years of age, the last thing you need in your life is an obsessed woman or one seeking a blood covenant. Such a woman lacks religious conviction and is definitely not mature enough to understand the consequences of her actions. You did the right thing by letting her go and anyone who said you should go back does not care about your safety! Now listen up young man! Where are you in your academic pursuits? If you are a graduate, have you started working? If yes, have you saved up a nice amount to be able to take care of 2 or more? If no then slow down and enjoy your life, you don't need a serious relationship till at least 2 to 3 years from now. At 22, I can bet almost anything that you don't know what love is, you certainly don't need any girl putting undue pressure on you; this is how many young people of nowadays get into trouble. Slow down, enjoy your life and make sure you focus more on making something of yourself!

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Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Nov 30, 2015
free2ryhme:

This post has lies written all over it In fact it is a fat lie
If this is what you feel,then no problem.
But there are no lies in this thread
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by ferhyntorlah(f): 9:00pm On Nov 30, 2015
ModiKen:
Dude, u made d right decision.

What does she need a blood covenant for; if not for ulterior motives.

Sign a blood covenant with a lady and kiss ur life good bye, except God intervenes.

Very apt comment.

holyFRED, you did the RIGHT thing. Don't and I mean DON'T let anybody make you feel bad. If you didn't end it with her, she would continue pestering you that you won't have any choice but to give in to her request and if you did, you would have been in bondage!

As far as I'm concerned, the only covenant that should bind a man and women together is the MARRIAGE COVENANT. Anything else is demonic.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Lordkratus(m): 9:02pm On Nov 30, 2015
abbey621:
At 22 years of age, the last thing you need in your life is an obsessed woman or one seeking a blood covenant. Such a woman lacks religious conviction and is definitely not mature enough to understand the consequences of her actions. You did the right thing by letting her go and anyone who said you should go back does not care about your safety! Now listen up young man! Where are you in your academic pursuits? If you are a graduate, have you started working? If yes, have you saved up a nice amount to be able to take care of 2 or more? If no then slow down and enjoy your life, you don't need a serious relationship till at least 2 to 3 years from now. At 22, I can bet almost anything that you don't know what love is, you certainly don't need any girl putting undue pressure on you; this is how many young people of nowadays get into trouble. Slow down, enjoy your life and make sure you focus more on making something of yourself!
Atleas i believe we still have sain people around,i am shocked at the number of people asking the young man to go back knowing the dangers of a convenant.good advice bro

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Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by pomsky: 9:04pm On Nov 30, 2015
Lordkratus:
PERVERT....mr sense


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......life will tell![/size]
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Lordkratus(m): 9:08pm On Nov 30, 2015
pomsky:


[size=14pt] ......life will tell![/size]
of course.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by flimsy2(m): 9:09pm On Nov 30, 2015
What's up with this "end time" slang coming back to NL .
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by omakay(m): 9:14pm On Nov 30, 2015
This life is kinda funny shaaaa....

This same BLOOD CONVENANT we are all screaming against is what has kept some marriages intact until death.

If there is one thing that will eventually scatter a union, it is INFIDELITY, and BLOOD CONVENANT keeps that in check.

When either party knows that they have no escape route, they will haveno choice than to try and solve their problems which they eventually do.

If na me, i go let the girl know the implication of wetin she wan do. I will give her a lot of time to think about most of the implications which i will voice out.

If she still insists on it and i truly love her...........
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Elle277(f): 9:20pm On Nov 30, 2015
Two immature kids that's what I see...you don't need to make up with her cos you guys are not ready... there is time for everything,when the time comes pick a girl and get married, it pays "my humble opinion!"" straights face and walk outer thread"
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by BlackAlbino6(m): 9:25pm On Nov 30, 2015
ModiKen:


So u saying he shld have gone ahead to have a blood convenant with her?


Mr. IamLEGEND1, I luv your pishure men.
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Blood covenant This is serious. Where are all these girls getting all these things from? And if you ask her very well, she might tell you she is a born again Christian. But still into the wicked occultic behaviour. Bro run for your life nowwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!

Blood covenant is not and will/shall never be a guarrantee of love, neither trust. The girl only wants to tie you down for no reason. What if you carry out the ritual and later discover she is not meant for you, what will you do
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by badonkadonk: 9:26pm On Nov 30, 2015
Lordkratus:
mr man u try wella o.when u dun get mature son advice am to enter blood convenant eh.be here ranting when we know u dnt have the guts to do it as well

It's obvious you can't read.. So keep walking!!!

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