Which one is tougher to deal with: Remaining a spinster or bachelor for life OR getting married without experiencing the joy of parenthood I. E. The couple cannot have children.

The one assumption here is that you already know you cannot have children if you do get married.

Will you prefer not to be married if you cannot have children in the marriage or you will still rather be married even if you cannot be a biological parent?

Where do you stand in this tough dilemma?

Marriage is supposed to serve two purposes: unification and procreation. Since the former is still satisfied, I will go with marriage.

Thoughts?

MYMINDER:
Which one is tougher to deal with: Remaining a spinster or bachelor for life OR getting married without experiencing the joy of parenthood I. E. The couple cannot have children.

The one assumption here is that you already know you cannot have children if you do get married.

Will you prefer not to be married if you cannot have children in the marriage or you will still rather be married even if you cannot be a biological parent?

Where do you stand in this tough dilemma?

Marriage is supposed to serve two purposes: unification and procreation. Since the former is still satisfied, I will go with marriage.

Thoughts?

Hmm. Tough topic huh?
Let's look at it this way, kids are amazing gifts from God, no gainsaying that. But marriage isn't all about making kids. When God created Adam, He realized he was bored, lonely, encumbered (there was no help-meet for him), So God decided to make a woman out of him.

That biblical reference is a pointer to the fact that, marriage is first and most importantly about companionship.

After that, comes chilldbirthing and every what-have-you.

In the case you cited.
The challenged should open up to his or her partner from the get go. God will bless him or her for being honest. Afterall two are better than one.
Only God can say one can or cannot bear children and He won't even say that cos He's God (His thoughts towards us are good, not of evil. To give us a future and an expected end)
It's all about faith.

That being said,
If both parties consent to spending their lifetime together, then 'pas grand chose'!

MYMINDER:
Which one is tougher to deal with: Remaining a spinster or bachelor for life OR getting married without experiencing the joy of parenthood I. E. The couple cannot have children.

The one assumption here is that you already know you cannot have children if you do get married.

Will you prefer not to be married if you cannot have children in the marriage or you will still rather be married even if you cannot be a biological parent?

Where do you stand in this tough dilemma?

Marriage is supposed to serve two purposes: unification and procreation. Since the former is still satisfied, I will go with marriage.

Thoughts?

well! thank God for medical break through, one can easily do (forgot the name) tube baby abi? or rather adopt a child and that wont hinder he/she from marrying.

deeyor:


Thanks

deeyor....pls textme on 07034703258

Happy new month to Every one... wish you all the best of the month... may you achieve all your heart desires before the year ends.. cc: udysweet

Happy new month to beautiful and handsome peeps

good evenin pals. hope we all had a 1daful day. I really miss the thread.

quickly: my Apologies goes out to sparkles003,4give my tactics, never thought the pm will stir up a case out here, I blive pm were quicker ways in knowing 1 anoda. am very sorry.
wen I saw d name sparkles I know there would be a spark behind it. ndoh n'ne.

special tanx to Myminder for watching a bro's back, and missbronze tanx,

people's opinion must be respected.

and to all the newbies in here, special welcome to u all, we will get to know one anoda soon and I hope the purpose fr hanging out with the thread will surely be a success.

who missed me?

Happy December my pipul! Hustle wan wounjure una guy for here o...u knw say na 'season' we dey so

@halexito, lovely post bro...dats one clever system analyst! How u been?

@zubinike nwanne, glad to see u back bro! I follow miss u o...kee nke mee last?

@siamia, ur still da best dearie... I wish u a very special december to remember!

@everyone else...udysweet, missbronze, ddshow, toks2008, melsan, nouvelle, klassic, bluepearls, myminder, milychocs, sisisioge, vivaciousvivi, abeg no vex if I no remember ur moniker... May God bless u all and enlarge ur coasts dis season!! Have a wonderful, blissful, colourful, and prosperous new month, IJN!!

MYMINDER:
Which one is tougher to deal with: Remaining a spinster or bachelor for life OR getting married without experiencing the joy of parenthood I. E. The couple cannot have children.

The one assumption here is that you already know you cannot have children if you do get married.

Will you prefer not to be married if you cannot have children in the marriage or you will still rather be married even if you cannot be a biological parent?

Where do you stand in this tough dilemma?

Marriage is supposed to serve two purposes: unification and procreation. Since the former is still satisfied, I will go with marriage.

Thoughts?

I'll go with marriage too. No amount of girlfriends and concubines can successfully substitute the role of a godly wife in a man's life.
To me marriage is much more than a union...its a covenant! A sacred bonding of two kindred souls, forged in the eternal flames of genuine love, and consecrated before the altar of the one true God. What an awesome, epoch making, lifetime experience! Can't wait to begin dat journey soon...

Bisjosh:
Happy new month to beautiful and handsome peeps

Wish u d same sweerie ...howfa na, been a while I've seen u here, hope ur good?

magneto:

Wish u d same sweerie ...howfa na, been a while I've seen u here, hope ur good?

Yes I am and u?

Been busy jare

tollyB:
Happy new month to Every one... wish you all the best of the month... may you achieve all your heart desires before the year ends.. cc: udysweet

Amen! Same to u too my dear...remain blessed!

Bisjosh:



Yes I am and u?

Been busy jare

I can relate my dear...I can't recall d last time I've been so busy as I've been the past two weeks. Gosh! So many dying minute loose ends to tie...no be small tin o

magneto:


I can relate my dear...I can't recall d last time I've been so busy as I've been the past two weeks. Gosh! So many dying minute loose ends to tie...no be small tin o

Lol

How's your Christmas gonna be like?

Bisjosh:



Lol

How's your Christmas gonna be like?

Exciting I hope. I'm only free from work on the public holidays, but I intend to make d most of it.

How about u, wat are ur plans?

magneto:


Exciting I hope. I'm only free from work on the public holidays, but I intend to make d most of it.

How about u, wat are ur plans?

Only free on 25th and 1st also

@tollyB @magneto,thanks for the mention,gracias!
Hello people! Here's wishing you a happy new month.
Have a great night rest

Leo, so let's flip the script on you - what's your birth sign & birth date.

Siamia what's yours?

I'm a leo

siamia:
Well, u know....its a romance/relationship thread. I cud be wrong and wudnt mind being corrected, but what are the odds abt a 30 plus guy being serious with a woman in her early 40s? Hmm??

just saw this, well if the understanding is there and the fire to kindle wat dey both believe in. I will give it a 6/10
or 1.35 odd

petkruz:
I'm a leo

xup petcruz. welcum to the thread. lovely pics on profile. how was your day

zubinike:


xup petcruz. welcum to the thread. lovely pics on profile. how was your day

Thanks, my day was ok

magneto:
Happy December my pipul! Hustle wan wounjure una guy for here o...u knw say na 'season' we dey so

@halexito, lovely post bro...dats one clever system analyst! How u been?

@zubinike nwanne, glad to see u back bro! I follow miss u o...kee nke mee last?

@siamia, ur still da best dearie... I wish u a very special december to remember!

@everyone else...udysweet, missbronze, ddshow, toks2008, melsan, nouvelle, klassic, bluepearls, myminder, milychocs, sisisioge, vivaciousvivi, abeg no vex if I no remember ur moniker... May God bless u all and enlarge ur coasts dis season!! Have a wonderful, blissful, colourful, and prosperous new month, IJN!!

nwanne @magneto, hustle strong bro. he ga gba December na Lagos? how was your day

zubinike:


nwanne @magneto, hustle strong bro. he ga gba December na Lagos? how was your day

Nnaa..... ina anwa mana igbo gi adiro nma like that. I ga akwu ego ole ka mu kuziere gi?

You know this is xmas....a babe gats to make money anyhow...lol

How are you anyways?

How is everyone? Udysweet, magneto, helexito, missbronze, toks ( where in the world have you been).

Been ages i commented here....been busy really. Still thinking of what to do with my xmas. I do need a holiday badly.

MYMINDER:
Which one is tougher to deal with: Remaining a spinster or bachelor for life OR getting married without experiencing the joy of parenthood I. E. The couple cannot have children.

The one assumption here is that you already know you cannot have children if you do get married.

Will you prefer not to be married if you cannot have children in the marriage or you will still rather be married even if you cannot be a biological parent?

Where do you stand in this tough dilemma?

Marriage is supposed to serve two purposes: unification and procreation. Since the former is still satisfied, I will go with marriage.

Thoughts?

there are no extremes as you are presenting them in this case.

parenthood is not biological only.

If you want to be a parent and you cannot have children naturally, you can adopt or try ivf.

sonofananimal:
well! thank God for medical break through, one can easily do (forgot the name) tube baby abi? or rather adopt a child and that wont hinder he/she from marrying.

You really need to change your username. Your posts and your username don't jell

Wow! 97 pages. What have you folks being discussing since?

Ishilove:

You really need to change your username. Your posts and your username don't jell

Wow! 97 pages. What have you folks being discussing since?

initially wanted to use this username to advertise some products just like "Peter and sons, this and sons marketing product" but later change my mind after I have already created this username.


the deed has already been done.

sonofananimal:
initially wanted to use this username to advertise some products just like "Peter and sons, this and sons marketing product" but later change my mind after I have already created this username.


the deed has already been done.

You were going to advertise the sale of puppies?

Ishilove:
You were going to advertise the sale of puppies?

live stock mostly ram, goat and poultry

sonofananimal:


live stock mostly ram, goat and poultry

You still can. I'm interested in poultry

It kinda reminds me of what happened a year ago. I was travelling to Osogbo and the shylock driver driving us had the nerve, the audacity to squeeze 4 rams into the back of the vehicle.

The most amusing part of the whole situation was the owner of the rams, a young man with the most scattered set of teeth I have ever seen in my life, but with excellent command of English, started chatting me up halfway into the journey. I, the rams and the youngman were sandwiched together at the back of the vehicle.

We became fast friends and exchanged numbers by the time we arrived Osogbo, but I refused picking his calls thereafter because of the circumstances under which we met.

I cannot build a romantic relationship with 'agutan' in the background

Ishilove:
You still can. I'm interested in poultry

lol! discount specially for you!
remember! December is at the corner

sonofananimal:


lol! discount specially for you!

remember! December is at the corner

Can you give me a brief breakdown of the discount?

petkruz:

Thanks, my day was ok

Sometimes you just want to make friends with a sweet looking lady lol...Lovely pics i must say