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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by chrissy3(m): 6:25pm On Dec 01, 2015
If you want to abstain from sex then I see no reason why you should be in a relationship cause by accepting to be in a relationship you accept the intimacy which makes him more than a friend.Do you expect you and him to be playing ludo in your alone time? The worst part is if the guy starts sleeping with another girl they would call him all sort of names.If u don't want sex then don't accept his advances and clearly put him as one of your just friends biko.

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by GodblessNig247(m): 6:29pm On Dec 01, 2015
eyeview:

Very sad advice coming from a woman. Vey sad indeed.
But that's the reality. she is just stating the obvious.

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by Nobody: 6:32pm On Dec 01, 2015
pseudonomer:


Hello Mr 40 years old PHD holder, that believed a 23yrs old undergraduate doesn't have a say in relationship talks.

She's actually right, if she doesn't want sex, she should stay away from relationship completely, and embrace the friendship stuff. The same girls will want to cuddle, kiss, smooch, and have some romantic moments in the relationship, they want passion but no sex, is that not equal to suffering the other partner, I even call it being selfish, you turned the guy on and you say no, this is what leads to rape most times. The only no sex relationship I believed that should be allowed should be the one without any form of romance, that is no kissing, smooching, caressing, cuddling and stuffs like that... then I can see you as a friend, and we are fine.

I'm not enforcing a sexual relationship but my point is If you don't a sex-relationship, just stay away from it. There's no crime in just being a friend.

You are wrong there are relationship without sex, though few.Not just sex alone no kissing , or smooching.I know a friend of mine she never involved in such. Now she is engaged.You are just bias cos you a guy .When they mean no sex before marriage it isn't just no sexual inter course it involves a all lot only the matured folks understand this . Non be those teens that will be like " he didn't penetrate me but I help him cum".

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by des4ella(m): 6:36pm On Dec 01, 2015
[quote author=FlirtyKaren post=40566183]He's been trying to get her for years and she still doesn't want to give it up. What are your thoughts?


Relationship no b by force....if she no want sex free her and look for someone that wants it.

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by jonnieoneng: 6:40pm On Dec 01, 2015
Anyss:
In real sense he is the baby here
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin sad shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked cool cool shocked shocked shocked shocked ISSSS THAT SO ....WHAT MAKES HIM TO BE A BABY
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by Nobody: 6:41pm On Dec 01, 2015
Slama09jnr:

She have a point, 1st no da libido of ur partner because once his/her sex drive is more active dan never kipin such relationship would be more difficult.
And to da gals part, if u end up marrying dis guy and wah he expected from ur controversial policy seems not plenty tinx would be involved.
Breakable home
Deception
And finally a ticket to ur parents house.
So all dis have weights on both of em

Don't be bias because you a guy. Even the devil back up his claims with the bible scripture during the temptation if Jesus Christ.If a sister says she doesn't want to engage in pre marital sex respect her opinion.Texting her libido is the excuse y'al have....human beings are so biased but she could also give you reasons why she doesn't want to engage in sex ..the best bet is respect each other opinion.
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by dave4rella(m): 6:50pm On Dec 01, 2015
Here is the logic,agree to her no sex policy,get her madly inlove with u,and watch her beg u for sex,there is noway two matured aduof the opposite sex will be together for some time without having body chemistry,some women say no sex,not because they mean it,but cus they just want to knw how considerate the guy is.
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by ihatebuhari(f): 6:55pm On Dec 01, 2015
swaggprofessor:
girl ur nyash set die but come make I pump am well for u
ur dicck not long enough

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by Franchise21(m): 6:59pm On Dec 01, 2015
englishmart:
for where? Aro dey bring money?
Noted
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by ikp120(m): 7:01pm On Dec 01, 2015
iampartyboy:

What is this one saying? undecided

A party boy cannot understand what am saying! His own is usually "abegi, me care. I just dey hustle and enjoy my life, nobody holy pass".
I was once there!
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by swaggprofessor(m): 7:09pm On Dec 01, 2015
ihatebuhari:
ur dicck not long enough
girl all d dick wey u dey carry no reach am. my dick dey raise bag of cement as gym every morning. 1ce e enta ur puss u go get 6packs

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by yollychika(f): 7:13pm On Dec 01, 2015
Y do guyz cry fowl coz of no sex, she ain't da only woman wit hole... Fvcking move on undecided
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by pseudonomer: 7:15pm On Dec 01, 2015
BiggyB242:


You are wrong there are relationship without sex, though few.Not just sex alone no kissing , or smooching.I know a friend of mine she never involved in such. Now she is engaged.You are just bias cos you a guy .When they mean no sex before marriage it isn't just no sexual inter course it involves a all lot only the matured folks understand this . Non be those teens that will be like " he didn't penetrate me but I help him cum".

A friend of yours that never involved in such... And you making it sound like you are always with her whenever she's alone with her boyfriend...
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by mgbedianya(m): 7:19pm On Dec 01, 2015
englishmart:
no sex relationship for Paul doesn't mean she's having no sex relationship elsewhere...
Most ladies keep deceiving themselves
If by chance the guy endures till they are married, and discovers her p****y is wider than that of a woman who has 15 children, she starts lying about how uncle gambo her maths teacher in ss2 mistakenly flogged her on her p****y instead of her hand.

But aro men say.. Capping capping is meant for those who know how to cap; so too much cappings no fit full basket
Mazi/ Nwamazi ndaa aga imere?
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by ihatebuhari(f): 7:22pm On Dec 01, 2015
swaggprofessor:
girl all d dick wey u dey carry no reach am. my dick dey raise bag of cement as gym every morning. 1ce e enta ur puss u go get 6packs
hahahahahaha oya pm me, which city are u

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by englishmart(m): 7:31pm On Dec 01, 2015
mgbedianya:
Mazi/ Nwamazi ndaa aga imere?
odimma o. Kedu asusu ndi isuru iha?

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by swaggprofessor(m): 7:34pm On Dec 01, 2015
ihatebuhari:
hahahahahaha oya pm me, which city are u
just gv me ur bbm
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by lovelyS(m): 7:34pm On Dec 01, 2015
cutieviva69:







It baffles me really,the aims and objectives of relationships nwadays...frm d post, it's obvious it was a serious relationship that cld have led to marriage. so y d rush?
Even if she znt/wasnt a virgin, I blive she made a choice. It really doesn't mean she z smwhr playing away match.
Guys sex z nt food biko. U can do without it. All d ones una don do 4 una youth never do sef

Sex is no food ? I believe you are a married woman with atleast 3 kids.

To some men they prefer sex to food, that's how we are designed.

If any woman sex starve her husband for 3 weeks, she would be in trouble !

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by iRepNaija1: 7:39pm On Dec 01, 2015
englishmart:
no sex relationship for Paul doesn't mean she's having no sex relationship elsewhere...
Most ladies keep deceiving themselves
If by chance the guy endures till they are married, and discovers her p****y is wider than that of a woman who has 15 children, she starts lying about how uncle gambo her maths teacher in ss2 mistakenly flogged her on her p****y instead of her hand.

But aro men say.. Capping capping is meant for those who know how to cap; so too much cappings no fit full basket

I feel sorry for Nigerian women. They're damned if they do and they're damned if they don't. Don't sleep around and they're called frigid, immature, or people assume they're lying about their sexual history. If they do sleep with people, they're loose, they have no morals, they're not good enough for the men who sleep with whoever they want. Smh.

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by kaycexx(m): 7:49pm On Dec 01, 2015
englishmart:
mumu. Wet in concern me and your rubbish like.... Idiotaa
Pained, chew your cud.... goat.
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by sweetgala(m): 7:51pm On Dec 01, 2015
amiskurie:


Hello hipsy,I broke up 2days Ago when I discovered my no sex girlfriend who has been telling me she's a virgin was not a virgin.

Meanwhile,you are talking like a holy-ghost herself,why don't we...?

I'm seriously serious o. smiley


No sex relationships are a dangerous thing, I've heard real life enough stories of partners who knew of an anomaly but decided to keep mute, after the marriage the wahala would now blow with a wife/husband who can't leave.

Always test the goods before you sign a lifetime contract

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by GJames(m): 8:01pm On Dec 01, 2015
MRBrownJ:


bro dont confuse HONESTY with being childish... the guy told her his mind, and SHE also need to respect that.

.
She told him her mind and he called her a child, and she replied him by saying ''THANK YOU''. If that's not respect, then i don't know what is.
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by GJames(m): 8:02pm On Dec 01, 2015
johnomotayo:


Fine
But hope one day she won't start being him to forgive her after sleeping with another person after frustrating him like that
If she does, it's her cup of tea
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by ihatebuhari(f): 8:07pm On Dec 01, 2015
swaggprofessor:
just gv me ur bbm
pm me
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by bashydemy(m): 8:31pm On Dec 01, 2015
mizquote:
when will people learn to respect other people's opinion.

she doesn't want sex..if you ain't good with that.

#swerve right.

no one is childish in refusing to indulge in premarital sex.

whether a virgin or a prostitute.
Will she sign an undertaking that if after marriage her pu**y is as wide as a tyre she will go back to her parent house.. How will a lady tell me no sex before marriage when she's not a virgin... Most ladies who say that are those that have spoilt.

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by Skmoda(m): 8:44pm On Dec 01, 2015
Geraraheremehn:

I hate girls including laveda cheesy grin
Walai, some of them are piece of trash.

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Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by swaggprofessor(m): 8:47pm On Dec 01, 2015
ihatebuhari:
pm me
hv u seen it?
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by cutieviva69(f): 8:48pm On Dec 01, 2015
lovelyS:


Sex is no food ? I believe you are a married woman with atleast 3 kids.

To some men they prefer sex to food, that's how we are designed.

If any woman sex starve her husband for 3 weeks, she would be in trouble !


Actually I'm single nd I believe it's only jobless guys nd dose with no future dt prefer sex to food. see d nonsense ur saying sef?? Speak 4 urself darl...nt all men re wired dt way #sex z nt food#
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by cutieviva69(f): 8:51pm On Dec 01, 2015
SUPOL:
Hypocrisy everywhere, why dont u stop eating since d one u ate before satisfied u. Anything pleasurable is doin again n again. Pls lets be real dis is nl


Kindly re-read what u wrote and see if it makes sense to u.....
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by cutieviva69(f): 8:53pm On Dec 01, 2015
MRBrownJ:


bro dont confuse HONESTY with being childish... the guy told her his mind, and SHE also need to respect that.



the problem here is that you lost focus on the important word here, which is RELATIONSHIP... and the aim is for 2 people (not just one) to be content with one another. with so many fake women out there, i dont blame anyone who want to test ride the toto, OR see a woman nekkid without all her masks (brazilian hair, foundation, fake nails, fake eyelashes etc)

if that gal is NOT a virgin then she must have a pretty damn good reason why it was ok for her to have sex with some dude, but not the guy she supposedly is willing to die for and marry right now, haba! this has absolutely nothing to do with playing away matches.

the fact that you think that sex is NOT food, shows us all that you know very little about men.


I totally agreed with wat u were rytin till u wrote dt lst paragraph.....#sex z nt food# nd nt all men think dat...
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by SUPOL(m): 8:59pm On Dec 01, 2015
cutieviva69:



Kindly re-read what u wrote and see if it makes sense to u.....
U dnt understand it?
Re: Guy's Response To Lady That Demanded For A No Sex Relationship From Him by MRBrownJ: 9:00pm On Dec 01, 2015
GJames:

She told him her mind and he called her a child, and she replied him by saying ''THANK YOU''. If that's not respect, then i don't know what is.

you didnt understand what i wrote bro,
you claim that the guy was childish for having his own opinion, and that the gal said NO to sex and he needed to respect that. which is fair enough... and i simply replied to you that the gal should "also" respect the wishes of that guy (unless of course, in your world, its only about what women want in r/ship, lol)

look carefully at the initial msg and the exclamation points, to understand the "tone" she is using. there is nothing respectful about her message.

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