I often see ladies that are ripe for marriage saying they have been dating a particular guy for up to a year now. and im like what a waste of time. "if you are a lady that is ripe for marriage and you have been dating your man for more than six months then you are a fool. yes its true, people often gives excuse that they are getting to know and understand each other better, listen in life we learn everyday, why not get married to your spouse then in marriage you can now start to know each other better, a man and woman that are ripe for marriage should not date more than three months before they start preparation for marriage, ladies if you are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend for up to a year now then im sorry you are not serious. "why not call him and tell him to get married or propose to you if he is serious. "a word is enough for the wise.

My brother it is not the end of the world.

Op, what side are you on?

obiorathesubtle:
Op, what side are you on?

the bitter truth

Cholls:
My brother it is not the end of the world.

huh?

So you think marriage is something people should just jump into?

Are you even married?

MRNipples:
I often see ladies that are ripe for marriage saying they have been dating a particular guy for up to a year now. and im like what a waste of time. "if you are a lady that is ripe for marriage and you have been dating your man for more than six months then you are a fool. yes its true, people often gives excuse that they are getting to know and understand each other better, listen in life we learn everyday, why not get married to your spouse then in marriage you can now start to know each other better, a man and woman that are ripe for marriage should not date more than three months before they start preparation for marriage, ladies if you are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend for up to a year now then im sorry you are not serious. "why not call him and tell him to get married or propose to you if he is serious. "a word is enough for the wise.

say no more or I'll pull the trigger

If only you were not jobless that shouldn't have been your problem!!

everybody with their opinion

Mr carrot what are u saying?

Not what you think

@op Advice like this coming from a person with your moniker, I'd say no thanks. 3 months is too small to get to know someone. Even people who've dated up to a year still have issues due to lack of mutual understanding. With an economy like ours how do you expect a guy who's huzzling but has honest intentions to pull off a wedding without getting broke. Please o, ladies be patient with your man especially when you know he's serious about you. Don't make any rash decisions just because you're eager to be a "Mrs" it doesn't add one day to your life span.

chisos i never knew mrnipples/sweetorgasm/softapples/targayen can have sense like this though



hmnnmm bitter truth indeed

misspicy:
chisos i never knew mrnipples/sweetorgasm/softapples/targayen can have sense like this though



hmnnmm bitter truth indeed

cheiiiii

Y dump...abeg dupe him

To be a lawyer one spends upwards of 5 years learning. To be a doctor one spends at least 6 years. To get Ordinary Diploma one spends 2 years. To learn sewing u learn for about a year.

and you say to choose a life partner should take me just 3 months just because the person is "ripe"? na mango? or na udara? so once a lady is ripe for marriage, that means they don't need to know each other? thssen if so they shd date for just 3 days and get married.


if they feel compatible within 3 months, fine. but don't place a time limit on knowing each other well enough.

I guess u shd be celebrating your 18th birthday next week.

After 3months? I will not even say 'yes'. We all pretend a lot biko. I need to know you wella. Marriage is a life contract(i don't pray for divorce). I'm going into it to enjoy not endure. That's y I'm taking my time.

Are u a learner...?

@op..... I know u must have seen posts of how to make a doyin okupe and u must have practiced it. So marriage is now a computer that you consider it a GIGO?

SirLewis:
@op Advice like this coming from a person with your moniker, I'd say no thanks. 3 months is too small to get to know someone. Even people who've dated up to a year still have issues due to lack of mutual understanding. With an economy like ours how do you expect a guy who's huzzling but has honest intentions to pull off a wedding without getting broke. Please o, ladies be patient with your man especially when you know he's serious about you. Don't make any rash decisions just because you're eager to be a "Mrs" it doesn't add one day to your life span.

you are right..most pple b focusing on wedding and not marriage..

MRNipples:
I often see ladies that are ripe for marriage saying they have been dating a particular guy for up to a year now. and im like what a waste of time. "if you are a lady that is ripe for marriage and you have been dating your man for more than six months then you are a fool. yes its true, people often gives excuse that they are getting to know and understand each other better, listen in life we learn everyday, why not get married to your spouse then in marriage you can now start to know each other better, a man and woman that are ripe for marriage should not date more than three months before they start preparation for marriage, ladies if you are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend for up to a year now then im sorry you are not serious. "why not call him and tell him to get married or propose to you if he is serious. "a word is enough for the wise.

@Op pls when is the ripe time for marriage.

MRNipples you right
if after 3months of dating you didn't see it leading to marriage no ring yet..


Dear sister dupe him and run away.

it takes 3 month to know if a gal is a wife material.. ow lawd do d needful..protect mi from such.. ahmen

optional1:
MRNipples you right

if after 3months of dating you didn't see it leading to marriage no ring yet..



Dear sister dupe him and run away.

I laugh . Dupe me, and go 10ft below. Plus your spirit and soul would be useless before God and Satan, because i will hunt them both after i am done with the body.

Desperate souls everywhere