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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 6:25am On Dec 04, 2015
Lizabeth25:
Was busy with more important things than dating guys.


Like setting up myself first! undecided


quote author=EZEIGBO1OFIMO post=40668039]What were you doing between age 20-29 ; don't give me that sh*t that "you were waiting for the right guy".
well, I dont believe you. Truth is , if you really set up your life during those golden years, you should be dating men in your age bracket, and not groveling at the feet of a 41 year old overgrown baby.

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 6:25am On Dec 04, 2015
Kingzy4pep:
I love this.
lol,i gat no time for shitssss!! grin
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by 4stylz: 6:29am On Dec 04, 2015
Some girls will advice you to leave but sometimes it might just be that your guy loves you too much, there are some people who can't handle arguments for too long and they tend to use every means and push for a makeup. He might just be that guy, just tell him to stop it, you guys will work it out.

If you are looking for a perfect relationship, there is nothing like that

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by AVRecruit: 6:34am On Dec 04, 2015
all these girls pursuing career first....
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 6:36am On Dec 04, 2015
IsaacBuchi:
To keep it simple, he is a fair weather friend.

Prov 17:17 states: “A true companion is loving all the time, and is a brother that is born for when there is distress .”


My bro here said it all!


Add immaturity to fair weather friend, then u have a combo u should run away from!

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by cruzita(f): 6:37am On Dec 04, 2015
OP sorry to say but u are dating a boy.How can u settle down with someone that will delete u from his social networks at the slightest provocation .that's childish na .if u want to settle down with him FINE but be ready to have ur ass kicked out of the door at any small argument.I'M SAILING OFF TO ANOTHER POST

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 6:39am On Dec 04, 2015
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:

well, I dont believe you. Truth is , if you really set up your life during those golden years, you should be dating men in your age bracket, and not groveling at the feet of a 41 year old overgrown baby.


So does ur comment solve the issue at hand? She's passed the "golden years", she's passed it. So how does reminding her about it, help the issue?

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by firstking01(m): 6:49am On Dec 04, 2015
Lizabeth25:
Thank you.

well, my folks above yaf said it all, abi u wan marry a fooL @40?, oh, d boy/man is 41, sorry.
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by tuk2ato(m): 7:16am On Dec 04, 2015
Ladies usually date/marry older men because they are usually more matured, but i dont see any reason why you want to marry a 41 year old with the mentality of a teenager!

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 7:18am On Dec 04, 2015
oga o...girls b forming hard to get btw 18 &23... desperate btw 25 &28... at 29 upward, gels fit marry anything, any man..



will u break up wit him? u will b 30 next yr

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 7:21am On Dec 04, 2015
They wud not use thier common sense now o. When he happen they wud come bk nd blame all men. Sister u know wat to do bt seems no other option dey. U want to stick with him. Man wey never settle down at 41 get issues abeg

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 7:25am On Dec 04, 2015
Chai, wicked post
Pheals:
Sorry 41 or 14 yrs U made a typographical error there

If U marry that baby boy, he will delete U from home when mad
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 7:25am On Dec 04, 2015
AVRecruit:
all these girls pursuing career first....
95% are regretting it. Dey don reach 30. All the guys dem dey date wud later dump dem to marry 23 year old babe jst going for NYSC
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by oglalasioux(m): 7:34am On Dec 04, 2015
He's been hurt before. Talk to him. He'll definitely change. Assure him you'll not be like his ex. Best of luck.

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by IamLEGEND1: 7:36am On Dec 04, 2015
nónsense everywhere!

just 5 months una don dey quarrel upandan with una selves but you still wan marry am.

16yr olds handle relationships better these days.
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by 211Observer(m): 7:39am On Dec 04, 2015
I was like that 15yrs ago, now that am in my 28, I dnt do that shit again.
well give him more time like 6yrs, he'd sure grow up.
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Odunharry(m): 7:47am On Dec 04, 2015
Lizabeth25:
Nope....my upbringing didn't allow me to mingle much! And d little time I had was to concentrate on Education I didn't want to disappoint myself and other family members!

If you are the only girl among 5 boys, you will understand what I mean!

Thanks though for the insult.

u get time de answer all ur mentions o

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by ghost08(m): 7:54am On Dec 04, 2015
Rival:
You've quarelled 5 times in 5 months? What kind of relationship is that?
U took d question right outta my mouth.
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Tallesty1(m): 7:57am On Dec 04, 2015
A child at 40 is a child forever
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by tartarus(m): 8:00am On Dec 04, 2015
AVRecruit:
all these girls pursuing career first....

So a girl should pursue marriage first? undecided

Your mentality is quite shallow. When u have a daughter don't let her pursue a career give her out to become a baby factory instead. Cave man

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Burger01(m): 8:41am On Dec 04, 2015
That guy is a 'baby boy' cheesy

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by bumi10(m): 8:41am On Dec 04, 2015
delete am back now






that one na trouble?
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by confamgist237: 8:41am On Dec 04, 2015
your boyfriend rep ENDTIME guy... grin grin grin

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 04, 2015
I am back from a day ban, I don't advice Nigerians, they because they can't reason like normal human being.
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by ademega(m): 8:44am On Dec 04, 2015
he is a small boy no matter the age
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Lilimax(f): 8:44am On Dec 04, 2015
ok nah!
Delete him first and run for your life else you may be deleted later in his life embarassed
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by kaboninc(m): 8:44am On Dec 04, 2015
Lizabeth25:
Been awake since 3am....trying to figure this out. Throwing it here might give me an answer to my disturbing questions. I hope the topic catches attention because I really need to read other people's opinion on this.

I'm 29 of age. I have a 41 years old guy whom I've introduce to my relatives and I've also met his.

We've been seriously dating for the past 5 to 6 months and within that period, every time we have a slight misunderstanding, he deletes me from social media starting from BBM to Whatsap then to FBK.! So whenever we settles, he begs me to re-add him.

This is the 5th time he is deleting me again and this has started giving me concern.

And I've started thinking that he's not right for me! Then what if I end up marrying him, any issues that comes up or we have slight misunderstanding, will he send me out of the house

Please, guys, is this how your react to your woman? And why do you do that?

Ladies, have you ever experienced issues like this and how did u cope?

I'm confuse and I don't understand why an adult will be thinking or behalving like a kid!

Just want to be sure that it's a normal and general reaction guys exhibits when they are not happy at their woman otherwise, I will just be on my own. Because my common sense is telling me to run away from him!

Please, don't just view, kindly type in your opinion. I will appreciate them!

[size=28pt]Next time, you better be the first to delete him![/size]

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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 04, 2015
x.x.x™
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by MhizLehwayche(f): 8:45am On Dec 04, 2015
i have had a similar experience in the past and i took a very bold step.... i deleted him from my love life. and when he later asked me to readd him... i friendzoned him. grin grin grin
Lizabeth25:
Been awake since 3am....trying to figure this out. Throwing it here might give me an answer to my disturbing questions. I hope the topic catches attention because I really need to read other people's opinion on this.

I'm 29 of age. I have a 41 years old guy whom I've introduce to my relatives and I've also met his.

We've been seriously dating for the past 5 to 6 months and within that period, every time we have a slight misunderstanding, he deletes me from social media starting from BBM to Whatsap then to FBK.! So whenever we settles, he begs me to re-add him.

This is the 5th time he is deleting me again and this has started giving me concern.

And I've started thinking that he's not right for me! Then what if I end up marrying him, any issues that comes up or we have slight misunderstanding, will he send me out of the house

Please, guys, is this how your react to your woman? And why do you do that?

Ladies, have you ever experienced issues like this and how did u cope?

I'm confuse and I don't understand why an adult will be thinking or behalving like a kid!

Just want to be sure that it's a normal and general reaction guys exhibits when they are not happy at their woman otherwise, I will just be on my own. Because my common sense is telling me to run away from him!

Please, don't just view, kindly type in your opinion. I will appreciate them!
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Taiwo20(m): 8:46am On Dec 04, 2015
Lizabeth25:
Been awake since 3am....trying to figure this out. Throwing it here might give me an answer to my disturbing questions. I hope the topic catches attention because I really need to read other people's opinion on this.

I'm 29 of age. I have a 41 years old guy whom I've introduce to my relatives and I've also met his.

We've been seriously dating for the past 5 to 6 months and within that period, every time we have a slight misunderstanding, he deletes me from social media starting from BBM to Whatsap then to FBK.! So whenever we settles, he begs me to re-add him.

This is the 5th time he is deleting me again and this has started giving me concern.

And I've started thinking that he's not right for me! Then what if I end up marrying him, any issues that comes up or we have slight misunderstanding, will he send me out of the house

Please, guys, is this how your react to your woman? And why do you do that?

Ladies, have you ever experienced issues like this and how did u cope?

I'm confuse and I don't understand why an adult will be thinking or behalving like a kid!

Just want to be sure that it's a normal and general reaction guys exhibits when they are not happy at their woman otherwise, I will just be on my own. Because my common sense is telling me to run away from him!

Please, don't just view, kindly type in your opinion. I will appreciate them!


You already know what to do!
The guy temper no good at all....

Taking that decision takes a great step...introduction doesn't mean anything.... A thousand plus engagement has been cancelled even after engagement let alone introduction....I'm not telling you to leave him...just do some serious thinking for two days
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 8:46am On Dec 04, 2015
Childish act
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Truckpusher(m): 8:46am On Dec 04, 2015
Lizabeth25:
Been awake since 3am....trying to figure this out. Throwing it here might give me an answer to my disturbing questions. I hope the topic catches attention because I really need to read other people's opinion on this.

I'm 29 of age. I have a 41 years old guy whom I've introduce to my relatives and I've also met his.

We've been seriously dating for the past 5 to 6 months and within that period, every time we have a slight misunderstanding, he deletes me from social media starting from BBM to Whatsap then to FBK.! So whenever we settles, he begs me to re-add him.

This is the 5th time he is deleting me again and this has started giving me concern.

And I've started thinking that he's not right for me! Then what if I end up marrying him, any issues that comes up or we have slight misunderstanding, will he send me out of the house

Please, guys, is this how your react to your woman? And why do you do that?

Ladies, have you ever experienced issues like this and how did u cope?

I'm confuse and I don't understand why an adult will be thinking or behalving like a kid!

Just want to be sure that it's a normal and general reaction guys exhibits when they are not happy at their woman otherwise, I will just be on my own. Because my common sense is telling me to run away from him!

Please, don't just view, kindly type in your opinion. I will appreciate them!
You have an immature man friend. tongue

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