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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 10:49pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
tearoses:Damn, Well, it was inevitable. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 7:44am On Dec 04, 2015 |
tearoses: Which war are you talking about? Who is at war? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by A40(m): 9:39am On Dec 04, 2015 |
5minsmadness:This is also my stand. Girls really need to start talking to each other. The older ones to the younger ones. While there are exceptions I do believe at 17 that girl was not too young to make better choices. Why was she so adamant on being in said relationship at the time and a toxic one at that? You mean she had no toaster who would have treated her far better than the accused? Would she have tolerated such behavior from a younger significantly broker boy. Lol your guess is as good as mine. I remember my first years in Uni where girls from nearby QC would come to nightclubs with 300level and final year boys. They wanted nothing to do with Jambites never mind boys still in secondary school At that stage you are likelier to be in an abusive relationship and that is simply the truth. No one really knows what went down between those two. Women will always defend their fellow women and vice versa. I detest r@pe and I do believe no real man should be caught in such vile acts however y'all women also need to protect yourselves where you can 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by A40(m): 9:48am On Dec 04, 2015 |
freecocoa:Girls at 17 more often than not desire an older guy. Most likely he has a car, a place, is more 'mature' forgetting what they hold dear s€x, virginity e.t.c they would trivialize and trample all over them for it. I'm not saying guys their age wouldn't do that either but it would be easier for her to put a halt to things and it would be a lot harder for her to get manipulated by a guy her age |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 04, 2015 |
There's no saving a girl that's determined to chop life. The topic is a non-issue sef. Women will always flip the script, but who gives a blind fùck about some party girl's self esteem at twenty five? Really. Fun and games at that age fellas. And she was lucky to be invited. 2 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 11:56am On Dec 04, 2015 |
A40: You mean the older ones that regret not sampling a million men before getting married? The older ones that advise the younger ones to date as many as they can so that they can get it out of their system? The older ones that are distributing kpomo as we speak? Bros abeg. 3 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 12:33pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 4nobody4every1: 12:40pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1:if l hear, l choose to be happy |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 12:50pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
4nobody4every1: Don't worry be happy LOL .. shows you word placement is important I like eating kids and sleeping I like eating, kids and sleeping 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 4nobody4every1: 12:52pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1:. Hahahahah 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 4nobody4every1: 12:54pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou:....kpomo, shaki, liver and round about...... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 12:58pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
4nobody4every1:SHAKI ti Babies Where is crackhaus I remember when he quoted lines from Bobo.. It made me look for the song 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 12:58pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Truth is, the world has become more immoral. Christianity as a standard would have imbibed a lot of good morals but unfortunately morality has gone to the dogs. It's a pity. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 4nobody4every1: 1:00pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1:.........Shaki babes.lol |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:01pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
4nobody4every1: Don't forget bokoto. 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 4nobody4every1: 1:04pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou:. hahahahahahahaha, your head correct, you can imagine bokoto, shaki, kpomo, liver, round about + gbegiri+ amala |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by A40(m): 1:06pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Well if all the talk of girl power is genuine and not a marketing ploy. And ladies do have the real and not oju aye kind of love for the younger ones then they should be able to give them some game and help them avoid some of the same mistakes they made |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
4nobody4every1: smh. Your belle go big. Pickbaba, nice twist with the shakiti babes. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:28pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
A40:If I hear. Every older woman hates the guts of the young supple ones. With their smooth tight bodies in sheer clothing, catwalking up and down like say na their papa get the complex. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:35pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
5minsmadness: The more I read, the more I realise it's really nothing new. Moral decadence all preceded the collapse all through history. Civilisations that had been built with the stringent moral codes. Even in the bible, na when the Israelites believe say dem done conquer all dem go relax begin do anyhow, one Babylonian or the other go come enslave them. After dem go loyal again. . You go begin hear sackcloth and ashes up and down. All through history. It's the lack of suffering and loss of morals. The world will get back to the beginning when this current format is unsustainable and then after centuries it will still get to this same point again. Na wash-rinse-repeat format. 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:42pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Lol.... Kanda sellers |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:47pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
A40: Do you think they think they made mistakes? Perhaps, mistakes in not being looser when they were younger, nothing more. Let's take a poll in this section on women who would go back and spend a year in spinsterhood if they'd like to do anything differently. Only a minute percentage would enter marriage chaste. Did you not read the Intending Wives thread? Btw, girl power is exactly this. Power and freedom to do as girls please. What they failed to put into account is that someone with power and freedom also has responsibilities. It's interesting to note that cultures the world over placed a premium on women being virgins before marriage and the men had to be responsible. But that was archaic. Funny thing is they don't realise that nothing is new under the sun. Njokusboy, confirm kanda. Reminds me of when i went to ask for kpomo at one Abakaliki market, the woman was like war is kpomo? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 2:03pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
BoboYekini: True! |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:09pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Where's the thread abeg? Make I read some salacious sturvs 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:14pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
BoboYekini: just type intending wives in the search bar. Most stuff isn't blatant confession, just a glimpse into how our sisters reason really. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:30pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Seen it. Boorish. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by A40(m): 2:38pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
BoboYekini:Exactly. Its mostly eye service. Even within friends, everyone sees the other as a threat. Married women shut out their single friends and vice versa. Apart from the faux outrage when these cases come up not much else changes. Some men no dey try but a few of these ladies are not doing their part. I might sound misogynistic but a girl at that age dating a guy significantly older than her in a Nigerian setting is begging for that kind of abuse. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by itstpia8: 2:39pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
BoboYekini: jakumo. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by A40(m): 3:08pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou:I agree to an extent in the sense that it would be less of a mistake if they were the ones calling the shots and in control of the situation, however I feel like a lot of them usually wish they made better choices, aimoye awon tan ti je wan lobo jibiti (apologies if you don't understand yoruba) do they genuinely not want the ones behind them to not make the same mistakes that they did and maintain a perceived higher moral ground than them. I personally don't care if a woman I'm marrying was chaste before we met. It will not make her a better wife or mother The second part of your post I concur with and believe women should go into a relationship with a level of responsibility, certain things you simply shouldn't accept from any man. You enable him by not finding your square root and turnaround to label men monsters. Smh See this story for example, why and to what end did she expect a relationship with a 25 year old dude to lead to? Assuming she wanted a chaste relationship what would have been the odds of that happening with someone who probably has 10yrs plus experience of watching mojo and has a list of things he wants to do before he dies. A girl cannot date someone at that point and expect things to end well I'd rather people shifted focus to the truly vulnerable ones. Not that Suga person 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 3:09pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
itstpia8:Pardon? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 3:30pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
If you guys have a problem with s.ex before marriage, then lead by example and stop blee.ping girls before you marry them. Or were you all virgins before you got married? Moral decadence? I guess you are all innocent. 3 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 3:40pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Mindfulness:I thought your mantra was a persons first responsibility is to make themselves happy? On that basis, if "bleeping girls" - before they marry another girl - makes them happy, your pronouncement here is contradictory. And nice shaming effort, but it never works against confident men. E get as e be ! TV |
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