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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 9:41am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Even IF I'm the cause of the problem, I still see no reason why he will keep deleting me! I've always respect the fact that he's older n That is d more reason I don't take quick decisions like that! But he always do me d honor of deleting me pro noblegrex: |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Samsonklin(m): 9:42am On Dec 04, 2015 |
adewumiopeyemi:Yeah... Try me! |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Samsonklin(m): 9:43am On Dec 04, 2015 |
AsherStorm:Read them or not.., I won't delete her, nah! |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Boyooosa(m): 9:44am On Dec 04, 2015 |
I know say u just dey catch ur fun wit our TWEETS but notwithstanding; advise the fake guy(41) to delete ur ID permanently and do the same on your own syd so dat ur REAL guy can add you @ his own syd. Ur REAL guy might be following (watching silently in anticipation to show up immediately he notices a permanent deletion from both syds) d childish trend btw u and d fake guy(41) and might be discouraged if u dont make ur decision sharply (olewu o!). Meanwhile, u r too old for all these BEN 10 cartoon, be more focused, ur future is already here 1 Like |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by koboko69: 9:46am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Infinitikoncept: Lol..you think every one is exposed the way u are. You have not read of a man refusing to eat because his wofe refused to dish the food already placed on the table. Or you didnt see the other one that had a caring husbad...that is complaining. ..so women should keep dumpi g me for siilly fimpsy excuses like social media? Damn!!! Mr man free this hoes...... This world is really going crazy... |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 9:48am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lol....! I'm not among those girls who feels marriage completes them! If I was desperate, I would have finished having kids self by this age! The last thing I will do is to force on ANY man! You need to listen to some counseling tape And the reason is still single is not d bone of contention here! Vig86: |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by noblegrex: 9:50am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:Even if you're?well,I reserve my comment on that. Another one is; is that the only problem you're having with him? |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 04, 2015 |
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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by 400billionman: 9:51am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Chommieblaq: Yes, i am putting myself in her shoes.. My Gf told me the other day that i shouldnt call her again or even reply her last text. I was like, okay, since you rate what i have above my personality. BYE. Her next reaction was so sordid. She felt i was dumping her. I now calmed her. Truth is she is just showing her annoyance by asking me not to contact her again and she actually DID NOT MEAN IT. Is that enough for me to leave her ? IS YOUR PARTNER'S ANGRY REACTIONS ENOUGH TO QUIT A REALTIONSHIP ? There will only be a problem if her partner is violent when angry or refuses talking to her for a week after quarrels. If they quarrel today and they are laughing tomorrow, there is no problem.. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by koboko69: 9:51am On Dec 04, 2015 |
ilyas26: Not even because of a foolish reason like he deletes me from social media... DAMN!!!! This world is going crazy! |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by amiskurie(m): 9:52am On Dec 04, 2015 |
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:Lol... Hw much be bride price for ur area? E no easy o! |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by kalebsky: 9:52am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Highcuerayte: [color=#770077][/color] only last paragraph make sense... |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 9:53am On Dec 04, 2015 |
EZEIGBO1OFIMO: This is a silly response, it has nothing to do with the issue at hand. You need to realize that people are not married at an old age due to unforseen circumstances you think this is a perfect world where everything works the way it should. 4 Likes |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 9:54am On Dec 04, 2015 |
You called this foolish? Well, you won't understand until you experience how it feels! koboko69: |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Jalinco: 9:54am On Dec 04, 2015 |
If you have just dated for 5 months and have 5 "misunderstandings" That means 1misunderstanding per month. I don't want to say you are not compatible till you marry each other |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 9:55am On Dec 04, 2015 |
pcguru1:And you just had to call my response a silly one, what makes you think you dont sound like dümb illiterate motherfücker |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by abimic(m): 9:56am On Dec 04, 2015 |
He can't keep deleting u hoping u would add him when he says so, don't be fooled dear! A fool at 40 is a fool forever. Unless he adds you, don't try add him again and what sort of man results to deleting his partner to press home his demands? Come to think of it, have u told him to not do that again? Have u told him it Hurts u more each time he does that, it might really be his habit and one he doesn't consider offensive. Try talk to him about it after he adds you though. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:Good one. With that attitude of yours, you have solved half of the problem. I said half because I value PRAYERS. Prayer does wonders. I just uploaded one funny picture in response to one guy that accused you of pursuing career first. You will see the pic at the last page or just after where you quote me. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 04, 2015 |
What is he always doing on social media?! does he not work? I dont really respect men who frequent social media. that is why he always has time to go and delete/add u back everytime. pls run. this one na woman/child. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 04, 2015 |
AsherStorm: That's why you are a man, women will always get to you, its your job to prove yourself as a man. I won't delete her right just give some space. As long as you are with a woman you can't avoid fights even when you are clearly not at fault. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by SAMBARRY: 9:59am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Greekgoddess:das all.Greek has said everything I wanted to say.I hereby authorize this thread closed before wimps start flooding here as they've already started tripping in |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:00am On Dec 04, 2015 |
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:I didn't know one could denote what one sounds like from text. Whatever you think of me is obviously your opinion not mine. 1 Like |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by OLUJOSHINS(m): 10:01am On Dec 04, 2015 |
my dear, U are dating a BIG BABY |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by davechelseafan(m): 10:02am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Endtime relationship, flee for your life |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Jabioro: 10:03am On Dec 04, 2015 |
I don't need to read the entire page.my dear madam please waka far from him..he is not meant for you..I could have love to analysis more for you am in hurry.Waka another of your good bone of yours is waiting for you.thanks. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by tasceige(m): 10:07am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Am sorry to say but he must be having "anger issues" am sure it's because he doesn't wanna lay his hands on you that's why he decides to delete you off, My questions? Do you take the fight online, like updating your bbm about his actions, whatsapp, writing in his wall on Facebook? If yes change, and if No talk to him about it. Have done it before and that was when I though the relationship was nose diving, and I did that because she do update her status and write in my walls, Nonsense. We talked about it, made promises and it stopped. I believe you can talk to him about this.. Wish you the best Ma'am... Modified: wait is he that Rich? |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by greatsodade(m): 10:08am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lizabeth25: Me ooo, I still don't believe this one u wrote here, ur upbringing did not allow u to mingle even till u re 29 for that matter?...that can't be true please, on another issue, u re wasting ur time again with that kind of boy u re calling your man...*nd thirdly u need to work on yourself cos obviously u re either not telling us the full story of why at 29 u re still confuse of what that kind of man's action means Or u re hiding a lot about your own issues and yet u want candid advise...#Work on urself# my two cent advise. 1 Like |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Doortooon(m): 10:09am On Dec 04, 2015 |
[quote author=Lizabeth25 post=40668413]I believe social Media like BBM and whatsap is part of our daily communication gadgets. It's easier and cheaper to communicate with somebody that placing a call. On most cases, I hardly have time to pick called especially when I'm at work. But deleting me even when I already told him that it's childish! Haba nah! Very nicely put! |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by OLUJOSHINS(m): 10:11am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Aroboi: best advice so far 1 Like |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by koboko69: 10:11am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lizabeth25: Abeg shift... This were stuffs that happened when I was in UNI. I didnt dump her cos she deletes me from social network. Everyone one has ways they express grieviances and anger. Dumping a man cos he deletes u from "social media" is not only foolish....it is silly. Se na ontop social media you wan marry bah? Soon babes will start dumping men for not liking their pictures on instagram ... Oshiiii |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by isnovic(m): 10:13am On Dec 04, 2015 |
My dear do not listen to some of the ladies here. First, you have to analyze the cause of the quarells you are having with him. If you are the cause or not, both of you must decide to work on becoming a better you after every quarell as every person react to situations differently. If you also find out that certain actions or words irritate your man, avoid them instead of saying he should react like he is "expected" to. According to some social norm or standard which is bull crap or because you are a lady. The fact he begs you to add him, means he has a mendable personality....most guys will not until death.....you get the drift? At least he realises his mistake and ask for forgivenes for them and re-establishes communication. I do not do FB, I do not do BBM and finds those who do as childish and at best irritatting. I do not do whatsapp or twitter. Am filled with angst in the vainess of the idea except in cutting your phone bills which invariable doesn't make sense as you burn data byte. I do Linkedin until recently when i find out that the founder are trying to make it more social rather than professional networking. Stop looking at your phones, then you will begin to see the person next to you and the guy you intend to marry better. learn his personality and traits and the same for him assuming he too is a gadget person. Goodluck Remember, you can only work on yourself and determine to present a better you to make your relationship better. Arguing and expecting him to react in a particular way because you are a lady is sheer stupid as he may not share your norms or expectation. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Kosigift(f): 10:13am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Op, mbanu! That's just too childish. One Quick question, is the old baby-man on nairaland? |
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