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Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by AsherStorm(m): 10:14am On Dec 04, 2015 |
pcguru1: guess you dont use social media much with your spouse. if you do, you will understand |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by OLUJOSHINS(m): 10:14am On Dec 04, 2015 |
prettythicksme: OP now U ve seen someone that has been in Ur shoes. I will advice U to try her solution. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by umehmj(m): 10:16am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Greekgoddess: and he is 41 Greekgoddess: and he is 41 |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:16am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:Lol. YOU ARE INDEED FUNNY. SO, U INTEND TO QUIT SIMPLY because OF THESE FLIMSY SAGA. IS THERE A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIAGE DEVOID OF HULLABULO ? MY OWN ADVICE IS JUST FOR YOU TO HOLD ON TO HIM. LADY, KINDLY ASK ALL THESE LADIES ADVICING YOU TO LEAVE HIM IF THERE BF / HUS HAVE NEVER DONE WORSE TO THEM BEFORE, BUT ,GUESS WHAT , THEY HELD ON TO HIM. AND TO THOSE GUYS ADVICING YOU TO QUIT AS WELL, MOST OF THEM THEY QUARREL WITH THERE GIRL DAY IN DAY OUT . 0 ITS HIGH TIME FOR U TO SETTLE DOWN . PRAY AND COMMIT EVERY THING INTO GODs HAND . IT IS WELL . |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by justmi1: 10:17am On Dec 04, 2015 |
No wonder he is still single at 41, he is a kid and very emotional i guess, kind of guys that get mad when he sees you with another guy, only to realise he is your cousin, advise him and proceed........... |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by bummyla(m): 10:17am On Dec 04, 2015 |
The Guy Is Childish and insecure! But That does not mean he does not love you, but he is only emotionally immature! Don't add him back on and see how it goes. Maybe that will bring out his true colours! For Good or for bad! Love Ya! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:18am On Dec 04, 2015 |
There are more but when he deletes me n even block my calls, how do we agree? noblegrex: |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by adedayor08(m): 10:20am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Highcuerayte: guy Na which kind igbo u smoke b4 u type this comment simple advice u turn to hon. Patrick . .. people Sha!! |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by niyidenrele: 10:20am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Hmmmmm....very easy to say especially when you are not in the shoe,...I can beat ma chest,that of all the men that have commented ,and that v bn in relationships,must have at one time or the other,done worse,and if also given the chance ,they will still do more worse...y d u jest judge ,listening to only a side of the story ?..y not ask what coz d brouhaha ?well ,anger they say ,is like fires that never knows it's master ,......if it can happen to,an old man of 70,y not to a more younger 41 brother?..everybody level of temperament is quite different... |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Richy4(m): 10:21am On Dec 04, 2015 |
OP there is no healthy relationship that has no misunderstanding on it. the ability to resolve that issue is what makes a good relationship. Do not listen to people that left the issue at hand and was busy asking question on why you were single. whatever happens, it is your choice. have it in mind that there is no particular age meant for love and marriage. some still find love at 60 In my humble opinion, I suggest you tell him to keep your phone number. he can reach or get hold of you with that. he can call or SMS you. do not add him on any social media again. if he insist, tell him you do not appreciate his attitude when ever you two have a misunderstanding. that you understand that individuals have different ways of registering their displeasure but this one you do not like it. stand on your ground and do not let one round of sex with him make you add him again. Remember every one here do not know your man, you are the one that know him very well. and they are judging based on what you wrote. Also remember men are not the same and they operate in a different way to register their displeasure. >>>>>> some beat up their girl friend during misunderstanding to register their displeasure >>>>>> >>>>>>some reject food served to them when an issue arises>>>>>>> >>>>>>some pack their bags and walk out of the family or house to cool off when there was an argument>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>Deleting of individuals on social media is new to every one here including me. and that is the way he chose to register his own displeasure>>>>> Do not let them make you leave your man. 4 Likes |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by saintkel(m): 10:23am On Dec 04, 2015 |
olumide81:U r d only guy with d best advice for me |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:23am On Dec 04, 2015 |
AsherStorm: Lol dude I understand what you mean but you see my setting is special then when I was in a relationship I set her not to see my updates and I muted her on Twitter. Like I said women will always get to you. I remember she almost took my head off when her friend tweeted at me to buy her gift and me and I said OK. Women will always find ways to test your anger I just make sure on social media we don't cross paths virtually except regular happy bday and likes. Update your settings |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by miqos02(m): 10:24am On Dec 04, 2015 |
this man no dey mature oh |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:24am On Dec 04, 2015 |
You don't get it! Social media is not the cause of our issues....and I don't think I've done anything that will make him jealous even if he places accusations! A lot has happened and I just don't like his attitudes on deletion n even blocking my calls! Don't judge me until you get d clear picture! koboko69: 1 Like |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by starwar(m): 10:24am On Dec 04, 2015 |
That might be the only way he pours out his aggression..... and later really he hasn't done d right thing.... just social media!!!!.....mstcheew.......he didnt beat u up and later apologized..... tho he acts to childish BT u can talk to him.... Anger management could help |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by stephenqueen: 10:28am On Dec 04, 2015 |
prettythicksme: Okay |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:28am On Dec 04, 2015 |
prettythicksme: |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:29am On Dec 04, 2015 |
kushma: Pls free the lady nah. Haba! If she had made a mistake in her past, should you compound it by making her regret? Can you help her erase her past? Encourage her rather, by advising her on the issue at hand and how to make the future better instead of blaming the poor lady. 1 Like |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Niceman4u(m): 10:30am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Looks lik d guy is an intolerable type. I wound nt want to pass judgement. Ve u asked y has kept deleting u each time? Ds attitude s usually associated wit ppl dat met online. Apart from deleting from social ntwk, does he exhibit any other negative traits? If no, then tink abt it |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:30am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Weather you believe it or not, it's your cup of tea! Come back and tell me your experience, when you've lived with a father thta run things like a solder n brothers who feels their sister must run same race with them! Come back and tell me when you have a mother who preaches that just "an hand shake will give you belle"! Come back and tell me when u have 2 eldest brothers who came out with first class and your father tells you that being the only girl, if there is anything bigger n better than first class, he knows his ONLY daughter can achieve! If you haven't experience this, pls keep your peace! Mtcheeeew! greatsodade: 2 Likes |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Diamondvera(f): 10:31am On Dec 04, 2015 |
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:what do you mean by that? What if she's been schooling? Must every woman get married before 29? Mtcheeeeeewwwwww 1 Like |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:33am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Thanks..! I don pray n pray! Even been praying for him self. Vig86: |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by xtervaganza(m): 10:33am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:when I saw the topic I thought he would be around mid 20s but seeing as he is 40+ he seriously needs to grow up I used to do the same when I was in my early 20s then but now I know better. I'll soon hit 30 and I'll be getting married to the same lady I used to delete back then Maybe your man is just childish (even at 40) or he's just plain stupid. But discuss it with him before you take any decision |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by JustHere2Observ(f): 10:33am On Dec 04, 2015 |
He is childish, talk to him and tell him how you feel about the issue. I believe couples should be able to settle differences with dialogue and discuss solutions not throw tantrums. 1 Like |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 04, 2015 |
4stylz:Cc: Lizabeth25 This is exactly what's happening & what You should do. Talking from experience... I've changed doe. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 10:36am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Diamondvera:as a dümb illiterate motherfücker that you are you couldn't even comprehend my post. If the miss two goody shoes was so good why arent men in their early and mid thirties asking her out, you know why; because she is a mother fücking whõre ass bitch who's prolly an overused hag at age 29. |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by dapsonlou(m): 10:36am On Dec 04, 2015 |
You have to realize that marrying a 41 year old (Boy) will not end well. Another thing you must take into account is marriage don't change relationships, it's the kind of relationship you have when dating that will continue when you are married. So seating down and think of you can deal with this man's bad habit for the next 40years then that should answer your question. Marriage is ups and downs, but more ups than Downs |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Diamondvera(f): 10:36am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Angry mood activated.. Is it totally her fault that she isn't married yet? Do you guys think she is happy with her situation? Instead of you to give her the advice she seeks, you are here playing judges.. Rubbish |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Nobody: 10:38am On Dec 04, 2015 |
[color=#770077][/color]it's nt normal ,it's a sign of rage,I used to act like dat too,unfortunately we dnt so therapy here in naija,It took a lot of inner work n readin n self reformation to get over it,even till date my bf n I r nt on fbk,first,dnt re-add him,n such a man is capable of postin ur personal issues on social media,talkin frm experience,n d root cause of dis attitude may not even be linked to u,I bet he will also b d type dats reacts over insignificant tins too,dnt rush into marryin him,cos that man has got rage In him.Sm ppl might commonlise it,in fact it's tym for I to test d limit of his anger if he cn go to d extent of sayin mean words or even hitting u,gudluck |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Diamondvera(f): 10:39am On Dec 04, 2015 |
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:I pity your condition cos you are clearly the illiterate here.. Receive sense 2 Likes |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by AsherStorm(m): 10:39am On Dec 04, 2015 |
pcguru1: well, not everyone finds time to do these settings. you already took a precaution but this man in question def didnt do so and you cant compare your case with his... lets think generally for guys who dont privatize their accounts the way you did, they need a leverage.. i dont blame the man ... i see it as his own form of late precaution... |
Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by alaskido(m): 10:41am On Dec 04, 2015 |
My dear at your age, you should be married by now. If you run you may be 35 years before you see another man. Good men are scarce. This one that you have seen, please hold him tight. Every man have a way they think and behave when they are angry. This is just his own way of expressing himself to you that he is angry. The earlier you understand him and take it like that the better for you. I wish you good luck. Please note that LOVE conquers all. If you truly love this man, you will not notice what he does to you. |
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