Mindfulness:

I have no religion. Religion is for those who are not sure that God exists.

Keep ducking and weaving - no one asked you about religion, but your belief system, which is proving painfully incoherent.

Mindfulness:

[size=14pt]So your Bible does not contain this passage Mr Slut / Single Mother / Divorcee Shamer? [/size]

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.

Firstly, please don't quote the bible; you simply don't know, understand or esteem it.
Second, don't quote it to prove a point to me, you don't have the wherewithal
Thirdly, you are a blasphemer, leave it.

John 7:24 Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.”
1 Corinthians 6:5 I say this to your shame. Is it so, that there is not a wise man among you, not even one, who will be able to judge between his brethren?

Again, firstly, I am a mature Christian male - ergo an elder. Not only am I able to judge, I am expected to; actions, issues, situations. That does not mean I condemn. I always give leave to repentance and redemption. Even when speaking generally, I speak of a change of heart or mindset.

Secondly, it's about being hypocritical - judging something as wrong, or an error and practising the same.

Thirdly, I am willing to be judged according to the measure I apply !

Now are you or anyone else here willing to say that promiscuity, wilful single motherhood or divorce are good things? That's all I have ever said - noting that there is typically a multi-level cost to society. Anyone that can claim there is no moral wrong or social cost, can please make themselves known to the board

Mindfulness:
And you have the audacity to speak of coherence and integrity?

Funny how all the people you are shaming are always female.

You base cunning is evident, always running or rescinding, or resorting to invective. You say an adult can do as they please, then decry age gaps. Contradictory much? You claim it's the owner of the body to do with as they please, then claim statutory rape, then that there is no set age. YOu are as muddled as your beliefs .

I've told you, I don't shame individuals. We have women do that !


TV

crackhaus:

So it's settled then, you truly are utterly confused Miss I-connect-with-God-but-I-dont-practise-religion.

My sympathies...

You feel sympathy with someone who feels extremely happy and you call me confused?

Mindfulness:


See post of someone who is complaining about moral decadence.

surely you did not believe his talk about being a virgin?

they used to say show me a virgin in a maternity ward, but now that has changed to show me a male virgin on nairaland.

Mindfulness:


You feel sympathy with someone who feels extremely happy and you call me confused?

As usual with carefreewannabe, she starts spit-balling after encountering a brick wall.

Defend yourself genius...tell us how you came to know about the existence of God and also learn how to connect with him without having a religion.

I dare you!

TV01:

Keep ducking and weaving - no one asked you about religion, but your belief system, which is proving painfully incoherent.


[size=14pt]So your Bible does not contain this passage Mr Slut / Single Mother / Divorcee Shamer? [/size]

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.

Firstly, please don't quote the bible; you simply don't know, understand or esteem it.
Second, don't quote it to prove a point to me, you don't have the wherewithal
Thirdly, you are a blasphemer, leave it.

John 7:24 [/b]Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.”
[b]1 Corinthians 6:5 I say this to your shame. Is it so, that there is not a wise man among you, not even one, who will be able to judge between his brethren?

Again, firstly, I am a mature Christian male - ergo an elder. Not only am I able to judge, I am expected to; actions, issues, situations. That does not mean I condemn. I always give leave to repentance and redemption. Even when speaking generally, I speak of a change of heart or mindset.

Secondly, it's about being hypocritical - judging something as wrong, or an error and practising the same.

Thirdly, I am willing to bne judged according to the measure I apply !

Now are you or anyone else here willing to say that promiscuity, wilful single motherhood or divorce are good things? That's all I have ever said - noting their is typically a multi-level cost to society. Anyone that can claim there is no moral wrong or social cost, can please make themselves known to the board

And you have the audacity to speak of coherence and integrity?

Funny how all the people you are shaming are always female.
You base cunning is evident, always running or rescinding, or resorting to invective. You say an adult can do as they please, then decry age gaps. Contradictory much? You claim it's the owner of the body to do with as they please, then claim statutory rape, then that there is no set age. YOu are as muddled as your beliefs .

I've told you, I don't shame individuals. We have women do that !


TV

The people you are so eagerly judging happen to be female ALL THE TIME.
At the same time you ignore any "immoral" contributions from your friends and even justify them.
Never mind, only women are responsible for the moral decadence you perceive and complain about. Men are just innocent victims. They can't help it.

crackhaus:

As usual with carefreewannabe, she starts spit-balling after encountering a brick wall.

Defend yourself genius...tell us how you came to know about the existence of God and also learn how to connect with him without having a religion.

I dare you!

First you will explain what was illogical about "God has no religion" Einstein.

Mindfulness:
The people you are so eagerly judging happen to be female ALL THE TIME.
At the same time you ignore any "immoral" contributions from your friends and even justify them.
Never mind, only women are responsible for the moral decadence you perceive and complain about. Men are just innocent victims. They can't help it.

Another baseless assertion. You made this one earlier;

Mindfulness:
Where is your integrity when you don't call out on those who tell others to abstain from premarital s.ex and in the same breath say that they themselves don't have to?

I asked you to provide evidence., you simply skipped away .

I do not ignore contributions, I respond to challenges to my own assertions. Now, provide evidence of me judging females, or shaming women or justifying immoral contributions from others. Go on, shame me publicly !


TV

TV01:

Another baseless assertion. You made this one earlier;

I asked you to provide evidence., you simply skipped away .

I do not ignore contributions, I respond to challenges to my own assertions. Now, provide evidence of me judging females, or shaming women or justifying immoral contributions from others. Go on, shame me publicly !


TV

The evidence is your post history. Very one-sided and the result of painful experience with the female folk, obviously.

Mindfulness:


See post of someone who is complaining about moral decadence.

Who's taking you seriously? That is the category you belong to?

A40:

How is that a strawman? I'm essentially telling you there is more to a woman than her virginity. I have never said not being one
makes you a better person than an actual virgin. I'm saying to me it counts for zilch.

It's a strawman because you are saying a virgin may well make a bad wife - true - but as if a non-virgin cannot be a bad wife for exactly the same reasons a virgin can. And being a non-virgin can present issues as a result of that exact reason.

I do not judge a woman according to her virginity, for all but two in the world, I don't even care . But, when it comes to taking a wife, body count is a factor and should therefore be a consideration. I'm not being prescriptive mind, just my view.

A40:
There are various medical ways to check and confirm your intended partner is A-Ok so find another story. Abi non sexual diseases no dey? Abeg make we leave story for Puff daddy.

A high body count increases risk - of both physical and non-physical issues. Fact!

A40:
What of guys who knack both good and bad girls? Abi a girl that knacks is bad by default?

You're essentially defining a girl by who she slept with. Smh

Nope, I'm saying it's a consideration when choosing a wife.


TV

Mindfulness:


The evidence is your post history. Very one-sided and the result of painful experience with the female folk, obviously.

It's been a while I posted pictures of my "too cute by far family", I'm coming


TV

Timbuktou:


And I have said men should not be chaste? Stop arguing with yourself woman. You refuse to respond to questions thrown at you.. But for some weird reason you think you can ask questions of others. You cannot railroad us to accepting your opinions, you will convince us using persuasive superior argument. If you're not here to argue but poo poo our thoughts I guarantee you're not welcome. This is no tampon thread for those with no control over their menstrual hormones.

Bros, you no know say na madam carefreewannabe you dey argue with...
Once she gets entangled or entangles herself in a thicket as is often the case, she starts asking "overhead bridge" questions..

njokusboy:


Bros, you no know say na madam carefreewannabe you dey argue with...
Once she gets entangled or entangles herself in a thicket as is often the case, she starts asking "overhead bridge" questions..

No mind me. My passion got the better of me.

A40:

This is also my stand.

Girls really need to start talking to each other. The older ones to the younger ones. While there are exceptions I do believe at 17 that girl was not too young to make better choices. Why was she so adamant on being in said relationship at the time and a toxic one at that? You mean she had no toaster who would have treated her far better than the accused? Would she have tolerated such behavior from a younger significantly broker boy. Lol your guess is as good as mine.

I remember my first years in Uni where girls from nearby QC would come to nightclubs with 300level and final year boys. They wanted nothing to do with Jambites never mind boys still in secondary school

At that stage you are likelier to be in an abusive relationship and that is simply the truth. No one really knows what went down between those two. Women will always defend their fellow women and vice versa. I detest r@pe and I do believe no real man should be caught in such vile acts however y'all women also need to protect yourselves where you can

You are absolutely right.

Gather ten 16-19yr old girls and ask them their preference of who to date None of them would mention someone in their age group, they would point to guys in their mid 20's.

There is an obvious experience gap and the more experienced would always use it to his or her advantage

Another thing you said in a post na women beef women pass.

If you dey a gathering and a 19yr old chic package well catwalk pass. You would see the well defined reaction in men and women. Almost all the women would hiss and pass some bad remarks about her

Timbuktou:


Who's taking you seriously? That is the category you belong to?

I couldn't care less which category you put me in.

All I wanted to do is highlight the hypocrisy you were so eagerly participating in and you helped me.
When women open their legs, you will happily jump on top of them and later complain about moral decadence on NL. Additionally, you will claim that you are absolutely innocent because men can't help it but be weak. Well done, Tim.

TV01, are these the people that are supposed to lead families, hold power and authority?

Timbuktou:


That's a fully men's board and the nature of nairaland doesn't make that realistic. Moreover, we've been able to educate women in this section and we don't claim to know it all. However, I see your point about ignoring a troll.

Haha. Bros these women no dey educate o. All they do is argue endlessly.

Per your advice for marrying women with low body count, I swear I'm starting to agree. But how does one find such a thing? And if one straight up asks them, you know they always lie and divide the count by 3.

I have just decided to disturb you more frequently.

I had a lot of fun and I have done a great job here.

Mindfulness:


I couldn't care less which category you put me in.

All I wanted to do is highlight the hypocrisy you were so eagerly participating in and you helped me.
When women open their legs, you will happily jump on top of them and later complain about moral decadence on NL. Additionally, you will claim that you are absolutely innocent because men can't help it but be weak. Well done, Tim.

TV01, are these the people that are supposed to lead families, hold power and authority?

Abeg, hop on your broom and bounce. Wisdom is lost on you, educating you is like the proverbial basket being filled with water. You simply lack the capacity. Train your kids as you see fit. Men are wising up daily.

Tim,

Be nice...

BoboYekini:
Haha. Bros these women no dey educate o. All they do is argue endlessly.

Per your advice for marrying women with low body count, I swear I'm starting to agree. But how does one find such a thing? And if one straight up asks them, you know they always lie and divide the count by 3.

See your mouth like low body count.

Boys Night Out thread and you guys keep engaging the ladies directly here. To what end?

ApexTitan:
Boys Night Out thread and you guys keep engaging the ladies directly here. To what end?

Word is that these ladies have been house trained.

BoboYekini:
Haha. Bros these women no dey educate o. All they do is argue endlessly.

Per your advice for marrying women with low body count, I swear I'm starting to agree. But how does one find such a thing? And if one straight up asks them, you know they always lie and divide the count by 3.

Lol. You'll just have to be discreet and discerning. Check social media history, phone habits, etc. And multiply exes by 4 , remember there's the possibility of ONS, FWB situations which she will never agree to. So, even minus the 3-6 boyfriends, there are flings in between. When your girlfriend is constantly receiving calls and texts from men and she's not into business, you're most likely the 20th. . You shouldn't get married if you're not convinced you're getting good stuff.

Timbuktou:


Lol. You'll just have to be discreet and discerning. Check social media history, phone habits, etc. And multiply exes by 4 , remember there's the possibility of ONS, FWB situations which she will never agree to. So, even minus the 3-6 boyfriends, there are flings in between. When your girlfriend is constantly receiving calls and texts from men and she's not into business, you're most likely the 20th. . You shouldn't get married if you're not convinced you're getting good stuff.

Good stuff ko, like yourself is good.


Mscheww.

BoboYekini:
Word is that these ladies have been house trained.

Whether they are or not I think the purpose of this thread will be defeated by this direct engagement.

ApexTitan:


Whether they are or not I think the purpose of this thread will be defeated by this direct engagement.

Like this place won't be drier than the Sahara, if these women aren't a part of it.

@Timbuktou, mehn I got my work cut out for me then. Whew.

Freecocoa, what's your body count?

BoboYekini:

Freecocoa, what's your body count?

I've lost count.

You?

Mindfulness:


First you will explain what was illogical about "God has no religion" Einstein.

What was illogical was you using that line to defend your poorly thought-of argument.

freecocoa:
I've lost count.
You?

Our discussion is over.

Mindfulness:
I have just decided to disturb you more frequently.

I had a lot of fun and I have done a great job here.

I see you still suffer from your clinical dissociative bipolar disorder...

Shouldn't you let someone tell you that bit in bold?

freecocoa:
Good stuff ko, like yourself is good.


Mscheww.

I'm the best thing since sliced bread. Ask my girlfriend. Mami, I lie?