princeshijman:
when we started dating it was like we were chosen for each other. It was love in Tokyo, we played a game to tell ourselves about our pasts which she agreed. she told me she has dated only 4 guys, no abortion, sex with only those she dated, it was okay to me.
but later I discover she has dated more than 8 guys and done abortion before which I pressured her to confess about. I forgave her but now she treats me like she doesn't care, she always lie that I started doubting her.
but I love this girl no matter how she treats me but I want to let go of her, anytime i try to forget about her it's always like an impossible task for me.who can help out on how to clear my mind and just move on.
this is d first time i'm in love because the former me will just leave after the sex, but in this case its like I'm glued. help a bro pls

donholy28:
Help a bro do what exactly?

donholy28:
Help a bro do what exactly?

ronald4lif:
Why do you want to quit? Coz of her body count and abortion? How certain are you the next girl you'd find hasn't had worse body counts and D&C? No be by who fvck holy pass o.

I understand you feel cheated by her lies but the question wasn't necessary in the first place. What's the point asking a woman if she has had abortion and how many men she had laid with in the first place when it's obvious they'd lied.

ronald4lif:
Why do you want to quit? Coz of her body count and abortion? How certain are you the next girl you'd find hasn't had worse body counts and D&C? No be by who fvck holy pass o.

I understand you feel cheated by her lies but the question wasn't necessary in the first place. What's the point asking a woman if she has had abortion and how many men she had laid with in the first place when it's obvious they'd lied.

misspicy:

help me ask the man without a sin o

misspicy:

help me ask the man without a sin o

xynerise:
I wonder how people get stuck in a relationship they ain't benefiting from? Don't tell me it is Love abeg.

If you are busy chasing a career you won't feel much or any emotional pains. This is dating not marriage.

Back to your matter, you sound twisted here. Are you the one losing interest or she is the one....?

ronald4lif:


Lol. Guys be feeling their girlfriend(s) should be 'clean' and untouched while at same time they bang the next available girl. What then becomes of the girls they've banged and what does she tell the next guy who expects her to be 'clean' as well. Hypocrisy I tell ya.

jmichlins:
I hate girls that when they are guilty of some stuff, they try to turn the dice against their partner. I didn't force you into several relationships and abortions you come lie on top that and when I found out, you accuse me of knowing too much. Thunder fire you commot from my life

princeshijman:
u don't undastnd me, i dont care abt her past bt why is she bhaving negative since d day i knew abt the past, her ways changed, she doesnt care anymore, its like i am giving 100% n she is giving 20%

princeshijman:
she has lost interest bt stil i find it hard to let her go cus i stil love her bt she feels cus i av dos secrets of her it wud b wrong to cont dating me.

misspicy:

because you might have used it against her

Airforce1:


@The bolded

What kinda guy are you?

princeshijman:
i avnt bt mayb she feels i will bt i avnt. she changed totally.

princeshijman:
thanks bro, she started the game by asking me why I broke up with my ex, how many girls I have dated. moreover I am not concerned about it anylonger but her behavior is not like before she said now that I know so much about her, I will leave her soon which I assured her it's not possible but still she behaves somehow

cruzita:
buy a new shoe and trek to otueke .u will eventually forget her.I know u want to thank me but don't bother bro.what are friends for

princeshijman:
it seems u are the only one who gets the message her..kudos bro

ronald4lif:


The emboldened lies the problem. She's aware she has broken the trust you both had by lying about her ex boyfriends and therefore see no future with you. She wanted to be seen as reserve and one with praiseworthy values and since her little secrets have been exposed then there's nothing to settle for in the affair anymore.

I don't know how you'd detach yourself from her swiftly but you can do so gradually. Perhaps by getting yourself another babe or better still overlook her past and flaws and accept her for who she is while reassuring her of your love and commitment regardless of her past. You can make her return to her real self prior to her 'dirty' secret exposure.

jmichlins:
I have such gf just bidding my time to do my own clean mouth and then give her a good advice cause even if you try to explain they get really mad

pharmroyle:
Love is not supposed to make you suffer
If its making u depressed... its not love
If its causing u chest burns nd a heavy heart.... its not love
If ur not happy being with someone... its not love
If u cant behave freely in their presence nd always have to walk on eggshells around em... its not love
OP, just try nd get a grip of urself, ur happiness is not tied to that girl or any other girl for that matter... LEAVE HER ND LIVE HAPPILY!!!

jmichlins:
I have such gf just bidding my time to do my own clean mouth and then give her a good advice cause even if you try to explain they get really mad