pinceprinz:


you're a hero.

hedonistic:
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There's a hero in every man who has enough common sense and who isn't a slave to his passions.

misspicy:
That number two is erroneous and annoying....why do you guys equate sex with financial gratification......


sex in exchange for money is prostitution so if you put a law that no sex no money you are making it look like she is a prostitute inshort not look like self you have made her a compulsory prostitute......money for hand back for ground......

that means if you apply the number two or you believe it,you are purely oko ashewo

pinceprinz:


Maybe or maybe not.

Really, experience has been the teacher lol... good gene that translates to good looks too .

tunnamania11:
Op, that your point number two deserves 100 likes .

misspicy:
That number two is erroneous and annoying....why do you guys equate sex with financial gratification......


sex in exchange for money is prostitution so if you put a law that no sex no money you are making it look like she is a prostitute inshort not look like self you have made her a compulsory prostitute......money for hand back for ground......



that means if you apply the number two or you believe it,you are purely oko ashewo

VampireeM:
Sex is just overrated! Esp in this century when you can enjoy yourself with toys

Estharfabian:
Really overrated...

YourMain:


In my opinion, if she doesn't want to have sex she doesn't have to. You as her husband should respect that.

MzPecs:
OP is so on point!

Yes, sex is overrated buh some girls would want a no-sex relationship and still do these things as mentioned by the OP.

Smh..

misspicy:
That number two is erroneous and annoying....why do you guys equate sex with financial gratification......
sex in exchange for money is prostitution so if you put a law that no sex no money you are making it look like she is a prostitute inshort not look like self you have made her a compulsory prostitute......money for hand back for ground......
that means if you apply the number two or you believe it,you are purely oko ashewo

YourMain:
No means no! If she doesn't want a no sex relationship and you do, and you don't want think she's worth it, then leave her.

You can't put women into categories of what they can do with their body ?

Rapmoney:
I don't even know what to say to whoever that's behind that moniker!

misspicy:
mtchw

JimiCoker:

Ah, I see. So its your birthright to demand for cash from a guy and offer him nothing in return. Where on earth do ladies get this notion that they have a right to demand for money from guys, like they're being cheated if they don't?
Lol! A relationship is not a money-making venture, in fact a successful relationship actually requires sacrifice (the exact opposite) from both parties.
So you want to have a relationship with a guy devoid of sex, YES! Demand for money and all its guises (recharge card, gifts, shopping, weave-on, Mr. Biggs etc) NO!!!!

VampireeM:
Sex is just overrated! Esp in this century when you can enjoy yourself with toys

neoapocalypse:



Then she can go fvck herself , oops! she already is , and I'll keep my dough to myself

YourMain:


I'm fine thank you. You ?

PopsiAde:


My question is, will a lady ever open her thighs to a boyfriend who does not spend a dime on her? If she has more than one, what are the chances the guy who embarks on a "No Spending" will ever get to taste her honey pot?

Rapmoney:

YourMain:


I'm fine thank you. You ?

MzPecs:

Don't get the OP wrong at that number 2 point.

You'll hardly find that man who will do things for you without asking for sex. On the other hand, demanding unnecessarily from a guy actually makes girl vulnerable to sex! After all, we sometimes do demand for things from our male friends buh making it an everyday thing for that guy thinking that you've caught a maga will make him demand for sex.

So your equating sex for financial gratification ain't applicable to the OP's point number 2.

Rapmoney:
I have never debated before, online or offline, on whether relationships should be free of love-making or not; I am not a moral teacher and I believe whoever that is 18 years and above, living in Nigeria is an adult by the laws of the land. This implies that I cannot judge whoever is of the opinion that relationships should go with love-making; in the same sense, I cannot give names to people who feel that love-making should never be part of relationships too! To each, his or her opinion!

At this point, it is important to note that it is very annoying to see how some ladies campaign for No-sex relationships without considering the level of the authority they use in campaigning for this. The truth is that you cannot be in Moscow and expect not to feel cold!!! Below are the categories of ladies that do not deserve a No-sex relationship:

1) Ladies who cohabit: How can you be staying with a guy and all of a sudden, you wake one morning to tell him that you want the relationship to be free of sex? Did you smoke grass? So what have you been thinking all these months/years? You think you can just convince him to lose what he has been 'eating' all these years just like that? Except you are breaking up if he disagrees; don't cohabit while thinking of No-sex relationship!

2) Ladies who depend on men for their daily resources: You want a No-sexie but you want to chop his cash? Demanding unnecessarily from guys surely makes you vulnerable to sex. You can ask sometimes from male friends when in need; after all, what are friends for? But you should not make it a favourite hobby! Ladies who do this do not deserve a No-sexie!!! There's no difference between the one that stands in brothels and you!!!

3) Ladies who do multiple dating: Don't you think it is very unfair to deny Akporode sex while giving that same stuff to Emeka? Most often than not, when some girls tell you that they want a No-sexie, it doesn't mean they are out of it. It could mean that they have stopped it with you and started it with someone else!!! A lady must prove herself worthy of it. Anything far from this should sincerely be seen as counterfeit! . If you have not been faithful in the past, how do we tell whether you would be faithful to the guy if he eventually agrees to the No-sex situation? You surely lack the authority to campaign for this. Trust is earned, it can never be commanded!!!

Sex is an important issue in a relationship which must be seen as one! Don't be too emotionally carried away that you would outrightly condemn it when you in person lack the authority or platform to do that! In law, they say 'He who comes to equity must come with clean hands'. In romance, they say 'He who comes to No-sexie must come with a good stand or authority to back it up'!!!

Let's call a spade a spade! Let's not call it 'that instrument that is used to dig the soil'!!!

Good evening everyone!

YourMain:
No means no! If she doesn't want a no sex relationship and you do, and you don't want think she's worth it, then leave her.

You can't put women into categories of what they can do with their body ?