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Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Edigrows: 8:43am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Is there any day I will come Naira land and not see topic about sex, at least one f**king day ![]() |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Femisco29(m): 8:45am On Dec 06, 2015 |
[color=#000099][/color] VampireeM:Fu****g wankers, why use toys when we have each oda, if dis toys stuff continues, well we'll see how many times we'll decide to have sex in a year. (Anticipating artificial p***y) ![]() VampireeM:Fu****g wankers, why use toys when we have each oda, if dis toys stuff continues, well we'll see how many times we'll decide to have sex in a year. (Anticipating artificial p***y) |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by eniolaamoda: 8:47am On Dec 06, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: Cc yourmain Now let's say if the guy and girl are boyfriends And d guy loves sex obviously all guys love sex and dat is an apex reward all guys thinks a lady should gv them for any favours or gift they gv a lady out of their way. Now yourmain understand what I and neonapacalypce are talking aboutabout It is okay to buy gifts from ur Gf if she does not ask for it. Now let's not forget that this bf in question is d type that likes sex but because of his respect for ur no-sex relationship thingy he does not request sex from you. Now is it not wrong to DEMAND things from him while u don't gv him what he will most likely DEMAND from you. If such is d case then I suggest nobody DEMANDS from each other except both parties are willing just to gv something to each other on freewill. If u will demand money from me without me not free willing giving it to u,den I shall demand sex from u without u not wanting to free willing give me, And please your main don't come here and bore us with the lecture of "so is it sex you want as a reward or sex should not b ur reward u r worth more than that,pls we r guys and hell yeah sex is our reward" Now back to the reason why I quoted u both Let's say the boy has been giving the girl what she demands without asking for sex yet the guy is a sexfreak but bcus he respects the lady he does not ask of sex but yet he gives her gift from his willingly mind and he also goes out of his way to give the lady whatever she DEMANDS for. Now let's say they are now married then the guy now wants a no-sex relationship marriage after they have given birth to a child or 2children. And d lady wants sex but the guy sees no reason or for some emotion reason or some good reason best known to him wants a no-sex marriage relationship till they both die Will u then call the guy selfish or wicked for not giving sex in d marriage? |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 8:49am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Estharfabian:For how many ladies. Sex is the spice of life. The world revolves round it. All human activities and desires revolve round it. It makes the world what it is and the bed-rock of all successful marriages. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by beila05(m): 8:51am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Which toys? Then it automatically means u've had selfish lovers.....if u've had hard core explicit sucking,teasing and thrilling action u wud know that a toy isn't a near substitute to the real thing....i bet no toy in d world can compare to me....and for those who wud quote me, yes am bragging... ![]() |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 8:53am On Dec 06, 2015 |
MzPecs:Most people's opinion except sister Mzpecs. ![]() |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 8:57am On Dec 06, 2015 |
misspicy:Lol. Take it easy girl, y'know I gathcu ![]() I wasn't accusing you personally, I was reacting to the topic and your stance on it (which you've explained). I know you don't need no nigga's money cuz you got your own ![]() The problem is that many people in relationships get it twisted. When you like a girl, buying stuff to please her comes naturally. But cuz most people come together out of convoluted reasons (the guy just wants sex and the girl needs someone to take care of her), everything becomes forced. Caring for her becomes forced and sex which ought to come willingly also becomes forced. That's why I always advise guys to wait for someone they actually care about. It won't make anyone less of a man if he decides to stay single for a while. Note that you don't have to empty your bank account to show you care. Girls are highly emotional beings, thus having a physical manifestation of your professed love gives them something to remember you by. That's why ladies that aren't money hungry are actually delighted when they receive gifts like teddy bears, scarves and even romantic cards. So paying for sex doesn't even factor in on any level in an ideal relationship. Morning dear [size=1pt]I chose to reply you too, cuz of our common ground and what not ![]() |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 8:58am On Dec 06, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: It actually would've been unrealistic of her to think that someone she didn't know very well would help her in such a way without cause. Most people wouldn't. But, still, was she unable get a job? If you look at it from another angle, she was helping her and her BF out financially without compromising herself with you. It was win/lose, an obvious win for her, but a lose for you in that you were being cheated in multiple ways. I think this has strong economic undertones to it, though. People are capable of doing anything when they're desperate, and that obviously shines through in her response to you after you confronted her. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 8:58am On Dec 06, 2015 |
eniolaamoda: Very simple. And if I refuse don't call me broke a55 nigga |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 9:07am On Dec 06, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: And we come back to the same point , I really would have helped her without cause but she was using the relationship as a bargaining chip which is very wrong , I value honesty more than love , I would rather date a girl who is completely honest with me and doesn't love me rather than one who loves me but lies through her teeth to me. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by TimothyNkenu: 9:23am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Estharfabian: Yea, I'm actually younger. Read this about me: http://www.myafricanow.com/timothy-nkenu-woma-poet And I'll sure mention you. Happy Sunday. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by stonecoldcafe: 9:27am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Rapmoney: My problem with what you have up there is that it gives the impression that any lady who indulges in such and says no has no right. Now that is wrong! Please don't give the impression that a man can/must have sex with certain types of women cos those women have no choice. THAT WOULD BE RAPE BROTHER! Anytime a woman says no, she must be respected! Good morning yall. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 9:34am On Dec 06, 2015 |
TimothyNkenu:Oh! You're Ugandan? ![]() And You're 17? woah! And Also A poet! I've always liked literature....Buh poetry seems So boring to me...(No offense tho)..... ![]() Happy Sunday! ![]() |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 9:36am On Dec 06, 2015 |
I don't have time for this, so quick answer; everybody is entitled to No sex relationship if they please, just as everyone is entitled not to agree with such and leave the relationship, no need for headache over such trivial issues. 2 Likes |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by TimothyNkenu: 9:47am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Estharfabian: I'm a Nigerian...just studying Law here (for 2 years now, I'll probably go back to Nigeria when I'm done, I be confam Naija person . Plus, I'm not a poet (anymore).. I'm a writer and a social media strategist, and add techpreneur to that ![]() No mind me, I tend to be egoistic in describing myself. Have fun dear. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Youngpo413: 9:54am On Dec 06, 2015 |
YourMain:none virgins don't deserve a "no sex relationship"after all what is there again.. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 9:54am On Dec 06, 2015 |
TimothyNkenu:LoL ![]() ![]() ***lemme do my own* ![]() ![]() ![]() PlUs---I'm A comic writer..(to myself), A Paint artiste(could draw a little), I'm An intern in a Radio station, And A tutor(A girl has to make money ![]() don't mind me, I tend to be very vainglorious whilst describing myself... ![]() Nice to meet You... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Youngpo413: 10:00am On Dec 06, 2015 |
iceberylin:there is nothing else you ladies can offer apart from sex... |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Youngpo413: 10:01am On Dec 06, 2015 |
iceberylin:there is nothing else you ladies can offer apart from sex... |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by kandiikane(m): 10:01am On Dec 06, 2015 |
I don't understand why there are so many potential rapists in nigeria? Is it something in the water or food? If she still says no to all that rapmoney mentioned, will she be forced to have sex? This should not have been on frontpage, it promotes ra.pe! Stop using money to attract women. I understand most of you don't have anything to show for yourselves when attracting a woman except the pittance you hang on a stick to pull in all these hungry girls but that does not give you the right to say what they can or cannot to do with their body. 2 Likes |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 10:09am On Dec 06, 2015 |
driand: Yes! Since you aren't in the exchange. If you've no problem with her demanding things from you then it's fine. But if you do, tell her to stop demanding things from you, not use it as some sort of blackmail. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 10:10am On Dec 06, 2015 |
pleep: Dude, you can't starve your child because it's overweight. That's child abuse. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 10:12am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Innu: I didn't mean in the whole marriage. I'm just trying to express the point that a woman can refuse sex anytime she wants. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 10:13am On Dec 06, 2015 |
FuckTheMod: My English teacher was awesome. So no thunder will strike her. Amen ![]() |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by TimothyNkenu: 10:14am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Estharfabian: ![]() ![]() Lmao...don't mind me. Alright. We'll talk some more. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 10:17am On Dec 06, 2015 |
lawnreigh: And I understand. But it's not making you a better person by acting like when she gives you sex it justifies her actions. If you're not okay with her demands just tell her. In the relationship you describe you're exchanging money for sex. You could run out of money one day, and then live in the constant fear that your girl will leave you. And the problem with women in Nigeria vs woman abroad is not only that they want a quick fix. But it's also about this ego yall men have. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by lahit14(m): 10:22am On Dec 06, 2015 |
halfrica: This is why some ladies will get beaten up oneday or raped for dat matter. Hope neva to meat a 1bar joyed dude wit this ur idea, it might not end well. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 10:23am On Dec 06, 2015 |
Fearcom: Thank you. Sigh. I understand your frustration with ladies. My point is, you're just as bad in the situation, the fact that you're willing to cheapen yourself. Aren't you more embarrassed to be with a woman you can guarantee will have sex with you because you throw her money. If that's what you wanted then get a prostitute. If you know she has other men then of course leave her. Why would you even be willing to spend money on her. Sex in a relationship should express what you feel for the other person. As intimate as possible. It's not very intimate when in both your heads you're doing it for selfish reasons. Most ladies, in my opinion, decide to go in no sex relationships for emotional reasons. Not to make the guy a folly. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 10:27am On Dec 06, 2015 |
adanny01: Yes! She is? What? Just because you have sex with someone doesn't mean you've to do it with another. It doesn't matter. If she doesn't want to have sex with you and you claim you love her. You'd let it go. And if you're not okay with then then leave her. Btw you broke up with a girl you were happy with cause she wasn't a virgin... dude. |
Re: Categories Of Ladies Who Do Not Deserve 'No-Sex Relationships' by Nobody: 10:28am On Dec 06, 2015 |
drnoel: Haha I don't even know what the messenger guy is oo. Obviously that's very rude of her. |
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