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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:38pm On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
. Why did you say so?
Don't worry.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by yakamata(m): 12:39pm On Dec 12, 2015
ikbnice:
The worst part is that the guy would have sucked the juiciest from her oranges, squeezed them till they defy gravity and also dug her well way past beyond water level point.


Bottomline: Only few guys shall make heaven

and much more less women
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:42pm On Dec 12, 2015
Abbykem:
I disagree. Guys are polygamous in nature
Are you saying you don't have boyfriends and sugardaddies?
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by datigbogirl: 12:43pm On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

lmao @ "6yrs of his life"
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ifeomaekol(f): 12:43pm On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
I like hw u wrote six yrs of his life, nt urs. God punish devil.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by akinladejo: 12:43pm On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

since is NOT your 6 years he wasted, nothing concerns u now.
and u should not bother.

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Opzy94(m): 12:43pm On Dec 12, 2015
ikbnice:
The worst part is that the guy would have sucked the juiciest from her oranges, squeezed them till they defy gravity and also dug her well way past beyond water level point.


Bottomline: Only few guys shall make heaven
You funny o but na true sha
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Armstrong34(m): 12:47pm On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
d smart dude don enjoy even wetin ur upcoming hubby no go even c.......guys, smarter Dan lady smart since 1844BC grin
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 12, 2015
Odunharry:

I agree with you... many of them claim to be who they are not and atimes act like lion on here but the truth is they are cats if you get close to them..

I don't evn take what many of them say seriously cos some of them lie Jus to feel among or better.

Many here need a man but due to their pride and they can never admit that
Spot on! I for begin they mention monickers make you know the ones dying in silence. You set a date, they form which is normal and when you begin they see wetin I dey see, they are a sharp contrast of what they claim to be online.

Go to the meet up and date section, don't open thread just go down to see those viewing, select a girl of your choice and make out time to go on a date, then you go ki gani wetin I dey yarn. A few are just truth to themselves. My guy we have girls on this forum that are 31, 32, and 33 nobody is saying sending or toasting them, the ones within 26-28 are holding unto the guy even if his cheating, beating or not forthcoming about marriage because them no know which of them(guys) go for date them at that age. The other ones in the age bracket of 21-25 are still forming Agbani Darego!

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ifeomaekol(f): 12:48pm On Dec 12, 2015
Bisjosh:
A lady should always go for someone that is at least 4years older and ahead of her not age mates because truly the economy isnt friendly so guys are shying away from responsibility of marriage.

That been said, i don't agree with more than one year dating/courtship.
If a guy is really serious about you, he would have taken some steps.

It doesn't make sense when someone says "i cant know him or her in a year" BS! You cant know someone completely unless you start living together undecided
so correct
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:52pm On Dec 12, 2015
which step should a guy take
Bisjosh:
A lady should always go for someone that is at least 4years older and ahead of her not age mates because truly the economy isnt friendly so guys are shying away from responsibility of marriage.

That been said, i don't agree with more than one year dating/courtship.
If a guy is really serious about you, he would have taken some steps.

It doesn't make sense when someone says "i cant know him or her in a year" BS! You cant know someone completely unless you start living together undecided
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:53pm On Dec 12, 2015
Love Machine:
Is marriage a trophy that you ladies cherish about it?
Its a do or die affair for them.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by realjennyTuz: 12:53pm On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
. Yes very cunny. You will ask them to take you to their parent. They will be telling you one story or the other.
are you for real? U mean wen u date a guy for 3mnths and he is yet to intrduce you to his parents u wil personally tell him to do so? Abeg borrow me your morale I guess I need it. Also
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Pelumih(m): 12:54pm On Dec 12, 2015
Odunharry:

I agree with you... many of them claim to be who they are not and atimes act like lion on here but the truth is they are cats if you get close to them..

I don't evn take what many of them say seriously cos some of them lie Jus to feel among or better.

Many here need a man but due to their pride and they can never admit that

seriously u re talking the truth.

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:54pm On Dec 12, 2015
you ladies Dnt think of good abt we guys, all ur thot towards us are nothing but evil

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Pelumih(m): 12:56pm On Dec 12, 2015
Armstrong34:
d smart dude don enjoy even wetin ur upcoming hubby no go even c.......guys, smarter Dan lady smart since 1844BC grin

Lol
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by dachaste(f): 12:57pm On Dec 12, 2015
LexMacquin:

Ramsey Noah! You never jam some baddos!



Lolz

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 12, 2015
Engrcharlesid:
true .......
My brother I can mention 12 monickers (m) that are struggling, hustling and bustling their ass of just to make a better future for their better half and children but most of this girls just see them as nothing because they don't have a few cash to throw around.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 12, 2015
Love Machine:
Are you saying you don't have boyfriends and sugardaddies?
Honestly, I don't. U hav a prob wit dat?
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
. No I was very faithful to him.
Una no dey ever admit.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ifeomaekol(f): 12:57pm On Dec 12, 2015
D truth is dt a man dt will marry a gal wnt wait until d r/shp is 2,3-------yrs old. r/ships dt last dt long these days dnt end in marriage. And long r/ships doesn't mean u kw dt person, no one cn eva say I kw anoda to d nines cos pple ll always change-----i do nt believe nor ll I accept all these unnecessary long courtships and wen u see a guy nt ready for marriage u wuld kw, it wnt show on he's forehead bt something abt him ll always tell u to watch out, thus every gal in a r/ship shuld n must be watchful.

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:58pm On Dec 12, 2015
Abbykem:
Honestly, I don't. U hav a prob wit dat?
Na until person catch you redhanded before you go gree na.Una no dey ever talk true.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 12, 2015
Odunharry:

so who do you think should be blamed or the solution?
I really don't believe in apportioning blames in matters like this. Some men are just naturally selfish and users. They can't be changed. So, it's left to the woman to be smart and put her sixth sense to good use. If a lady doesn't know her boundaries in a relationship, how she should be treated by her man and when to take a walk, then it's such a pity.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Engrcharlesid(m): 12:59pm On Dec 12, 2015
artisticallyart:

My brother I can mention 12 monickers (m) that are struggling, hustling and bustling their ass of just to make a better future for their better half and children but most of this girls just see them as nothing because they don't have a few cash to throw around.
lol
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by politicalpastor: 1:00pm On Dec 12, 2015
ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.
What were u doing for 6yrs . Is it a domestic partnership
You must also be a fool too. That ur pussy cat is gone. What will your future husband enjoy again?

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 1:00pm On Dec 12, 2015
Love Machine:
Na until person catch you redhanded before you go gree na.Una no dey ever talk true.
Sorry, a sugar dad must have snatch dat Bae 4rm u.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Odunharry(m): 1:01pm On Dec 12, 2015
artisticallyart:

Spot on! I for begin they mention monickers make you know the ones dying in silence. You set a date, they form which is normal and when you begin they see wetin I dey see, they are a sharp contrast of what they claim to be online.
Go to the meet up and date section, don't open thread just go down to see those viewing, select a girl of your choice and make out time to go on a date, then you go ki gani wetin I dey yarn. A few a just truth to themselves. My guy we have girls on this forum that are 31, 32, and 33 nobody is saying sendind or toasting them. The other ones in the age bracket of 21-25 are still forming Agbani Darego!
lol.. very true..
some on here lack courtesy or rude etc
I hardly keep female friends from here just a few and it only recently..And I love the few I have as friends so far.
Hav you sent a message and the reply you get is can I help you?
You send greetings and Atimes the way some reply you go just shake head..

I noticed the older ones are nicer and accomodating while the younger ones still de do shakara..
The earlier young ones start treating people well and be decisive the better.

The older a woman gets, the more her mkt value starts dropping.. This many don't know.


I like the few I hv as friends so far and I know there are still many who are nice too

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 1:02pm On Dec 12, 2015
Love Machine:
Una no dey ever admit.
Leave that girl! She was talking to one of my guy about coming g to Lagos that she is currently on leave! Rubbish.

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by ladycomfort(f): 1:02pm On Dec 12, 2015
politicalpastor:

What were u doing for 6yrs . Is it a domestic partnership
You must also be a fool too. That ur pussy cat is gone. What will your future husband enjoy again?
. Your mother is a fool. Seriously you are very stupid
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 1:04pm On Dec 12, 2015
Abbykem:
Sorry, a sugar dad must have snatch dat Bae 4rm u.
I don't trust a lady i am in a relationship with because i know she is only mine when she visits.When she leaves my side she is no longer mine.

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Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 1:05pm On Dec 12, 2015
ifeomaekol:
D truth is dt a man dt will marry a gal wnt wait until d r/shp is 2,3-------yrs old. r/ships dt last dt long these days dnt end in marriage. And long r/ships doesn't mean u kw dt person, no one cn eva say I kw anoda to d nines cos pple ll always change-----i do nt believe nor ll I accept all these unnecessary long courtships and wen u see a guy nt ready for marriage u wuld kw, it wnt show on he's forehead bt something abt him ll always tell u to watch out, thus every gal in a r/ship shuld n must be watchful.
True talk! I don't have to date for years neither do I believe in long term courtship! I met my ex in the university and the moment I saw her I knew she was the one for me, we dated but did not end up in marriage beacause we were in the same dept, course mate and church.
If she is reading this I still love....and would marry her now.
Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 1:05pm On Dec 12, 2015
Love Machine:
I don't trust a lady i am in a relationship with because i know she is only mine when she visits.When she leaves my side she is no longer mine.
No wonder. I just pity d kind of girl dat dates ur type

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