Love Machine:
I don't trust a lady i am in a relationship with because i know she is only mine when she visits.When she leaves my side she is no longer mine.

gbam

artisticallyart:

Leave that girl! She was talking to one of my guy about coming g to Lagos that she is currently on leave! Rubbish.

I hardly take many girls serious cause they lie and pretend alot.
there are many here who will say they can't date a male nairalander but all that na wash... we know some of them scope

Love Machine:
I don't trust a lady i am in a relationship with because i know she is only mine when she visits.When she leaves my side she is no longer mine.

You have trust issues work on it. Yes, these days you hardly trust a girl. I have read here online where one of my e-buddies was dating a girl not knowing he made him an option only for her to announce to him she would getting married in a months time. Work on it(trust) and don't date a girl that you meet in a club (in fact Na she sure pass) than the regular church or street girl.

Odunharry:

I hardly take many girls serious cause they lie and pretend alot.
there are many here who will say they can't date a male nairalander but all that na wash... we know some of them scope

News flash! I have dated about four here and they said they can't date a Nairalaner....yimu! We had a great time while we were dating and it was a nondisclosure dating, two are married now.

ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

Him money wey you chop and his energy wey you waste nko? If you are not benefiting in that relationship you would have quit long ago.

ladycomfort:
. Your mother is a fool. Seriously you are very stupid

Here we go! Odunharry!

artisticallyart:

True talk! I don't have to date for years neither do I believe in long term courtship! I met my ex in the university and the moment I saw her I knew she was the one for me, we dated but did not end up in marriage beacause we were in the same dept, course mate and church.
If she is reading this I still love....and would marry her now.

ehyah, try n get her contact frm frds in d dept u still keep in touch wt or u try fb, search her name if dt doesn't wrk, ask ur colleagues dt r ur fb frds. Or beta still I hope she gets to read ds on NL.

obiorathesubtle:
lol.. 2-3 months and you want to get married, women.. Your lives are so easy!

I don't mean getting married after 2-3 months. Get me well I meant I should know where I stand and whre his priorities lies afta 2 months. U grab?

artisticallyart:

You have trust issues work on it. Yes, these days you hardly trust a girl. I have read here online where one of my e-buddies was dating a girl not knowing he made him an option only for her to announce to him she would getting married in a months time. Work on it(trust) and don't date a girl that you meet in a club (in fact Na she sure pass) than the regular church or street girl.

It will hurt a guy who trust a girl and he later find out that that girl is a hypocrite.Why do you think most guyz beat their woman to stupor?It's this same trust issues that they are having on her that he later find out they are not near tru---st

ladycomfort:
. Lucky ke. We are talking of two different things here. A guy with a big long and fat diick and a guy that refuse to take you home 6yrs into a relationship.

I Jus Passed Your Criteria Excellently!
Cnt Phuck U For 6yrs N Not Take U To Mama..

ifeomaekol:
ehyah, try n get her contact frm frds in d dept u still keep in touch wt or u try fb, search her name if dt doesn't wrk, ask ur colleagues dt r ur fb frds. Or beta still I hope she gets to read ds on NL.

She is not responding on Facebook plus she is far from me and I dont do long distance relationship. She is on my Facebook but when a girl does not give you attention, you know what I mean.

dachaste:




I don't mean getting married after 2-3 months. Get me well I meant I should know where I stand and whre his priorities lies afta 2 months. U grab?

we said the same thing.. You just didn't see it because you know I'm not a woman just like you.. And you're wired to act that way.

Oliviaarims:

She's still professing love... Hmmmm... That's sth. U'd better not indulge her, before sb becomes an adulterous wife. She's married now. There shouldn't be any love talks anymore.

Just saying.

No We Are Far From That, She Told Me That She Is Praying Earnestly For Me To Get A Good Wife And She Will Love To Be Friends With My Wife Even, So She Can Even Help Lecture Her How She Will Understand To Cope And Be Happy With Me, (we both laughed at this ), She Is Now Like My Blood Sister We Discuss Maturely Now Cos I Know She Is Wise, That's Why I Love Her, And I am Wise Too That's Why She Loves Me, So We Don't Think On That Angle, We Only Call And Not See !!!

To ur first statement,he's gone trust me he's never gonna come back. And if he does ,I'll be lik dat lady who put a thread abt wantin to commit murder(I might probably jus stab him to death,lol)but na joke o!
Got som chic pregnant shortly afta we parted,and she moved in wit him,case closed.
Then to ur second part,I dnt tink I implied dat anywere dat I wil jus marry o. Why will he not love me evn small,and I too,him? If I go ahead and marry,dat will b out of desperation and d marriage might sooner or later,crash.
But u know wat? Let God hav His way jare

MORNDEW:

Madam, he might not have gone truly he might still come Back. Besides so any man that comes ur way now weda he loves you or not but so long he is ready, u will marry?

artisticallyart:

She is not responding on Facebook plus she is far from me and I dont do long distance relationship. She is on my Facebook but when a girl does not give you attention, you know what I mean.

depends on ur appraoch, bt if dts d case then u hv to move on. Some oda gal wuld give u d attention u need.

Doesn't show on the forehead you know?

It doesn't need to show on the forehead,women are blessed with what is called foresight. They are not seers but they can perceive how the relationship will end...unfortunately many women choose to ignore their intuition

Abbykem:
No wonder. I just pity d kind of girl dat dates ur type

There is one girl that was dating my friend before.I usually see her with guys in a love zone corner.And each time i caught her she.would tell me that guy was her brothers friends.I know her brothers and those guyz i saw her with were not the same levels with her brothers.I don't even see those guyz with her brothers.This girl think say i be Mr ibu.

Yes o,u read right. I don't feel proud of it myself. Like wat d heck,ddnt I see d signs? Did I love too much and was blind to d signs? Lol

artisticallyart:

My goshgosh !!! 7 what!

Love Machine:
It will hurt a guy who trust a girl and he later find out that that girl is a hypocrite.Why do you think most guyz beat their woman to stupor?It's this same trust issues that they are having on her that he later find out they are not near tru---st

My guy! Hurt is part of love, if you have never being hurt before then you have never been in love. Yes, many are hypocrite once you find out she not trust worthy, talk to her about it if she persist....dump her sharply. A lot of reasons why guys beat a woman which I don't subscribe to, some have taken Gbanar, alcohol, fianace and perhaps work(meeting target and the woman is driving you nuts), they are ways of handling a woman-------not talking to her kills her faster, answering her is monosyllable way, not giving her attention or spending time with her.

ifeomaekol:
depends on ur appraoch, bt if dts d case then u hv to move on. Some oda gal wuld give u d attention u need.

Maybe you! Drop your mail.

Suigeneris93:
Doesn't show on the forehead you know?

It doesn't need to show on the forehead,women are blessed with what is called foresight. They are not seers but they can perceive how the relationship will end...unfortunately many women choose to ignore their intuition

Do you go into a relationship with a guy for the purpose of marriage or for companionship?It's is better to tell him how you want the relationship to go beforehand.So that he will have a rethink.

udysweet:
Yes o,u read right. I don't feel proud of it myself. Like wat d heck,ddnt I see d signs? Did I love too much and was blind to d signs? Lol

Sweetheart! Don't worry! Pick up yourself, be active in church, social gatherings and go for outing such as cinemas. Always look good, trust me you would see that man. See! We have a lot of men willingly to settle down but are finding to hard to see a responsibile girl.

artisticallyart:
Here we go! Odunharry!

na who she quote? make I check my mentions.. lol

Suigeneris93:
Doesn't show on the forehead you know?

It doesn't need to show on the forehead,women are blessed with what is called foresight. They are not seers but they can perceive how the relationship will end...unfortunately many women choose to ignore their intuition

Yes, never ignore a woman's feelings, instincts and foresight about somethings, you never go with her instinct. I forgot to add, weight it well because some of thier instincts are for selfish gains.

There is nothing wrong in a guy declaring his intention(s) months into the relationship. Atleast the lady will know her stance. Take it or leave it, every lady that desires marriage works with time. And wasting her time when you know she truly will love to settle down with you is sheer wickedness. 4-5 months is enough for you to know if she will make a good wife.

Remeber karma is a biatch. The words of a heartbroken woman can render you useless for life. Do unto her how you wish to be treated if you were to be a woman.

artisticallyart:

My guy! Hurt is part of love, if you have never being hurt before then you have never been in love. Yes, many are hypocrite once you find out she not trust worthy, talk to her about it if she persist....dump her sharply. A lot of reasons why guys beat a woman which I don't subscribe to, some have taken Gbanar, alcohol, fianace and perhaps work(meeting target and the woman is driving you nuts), they are ways of handling a woman-------not talking to her kills her faster, answering her is monosyllable way, not giving her attention or spending time with her.

Hurt no be love rara.

Love Machine:
Do you go into a relationship with a guy for the purpose of marriage or for companionship?It's is better to tell him how you want the relationship to go beforehand.So that he will have a rethink.

I concur with you. but most times we ladies are kinda shy and scared of baring our minds, so as not to be termed desperate.

ladycomfort:
. No I was very faithful to him.

If what you said is true. God will bring a prince charming you, IJN, AMEN.
Your type is hard to see, keep it up.

Love Machine:
Do you go into a relationship with a guy for the purpose of marriage or for companionship?It's is better to tell him how you want the relationship to go beforehand.So that he will have a rethink.

Every relationship should be expected to lead to smth tangible in future. Marriage cannot be seperated from Companionship if u ask me

udysweet:
To ur first statement,he's gone trust me he's never gonna come back. And if he does ,I'll be lik dat lady who put a thread abt wantin to commit murder(I might probably jus stab him to death,lol)but na joke o!
Got som chic pregnant shortly afta we parted,and she moved in wit him,case closed.
Then to ur second part,I dnt tink I implied dat anywere dat I wil jus marry o. Why will he not love me evn small,and I too,him? If I go ahead and marry,dat will b out of desperation and d marriage might sooner or later,crash.
But u know wat? Let God hav His way jare

Mz udy the come dec 6 2016, you will be part of the people testifying of miracle marriage in cannanland. Remeber pa oyedepo's teaching during impartaion service. Spirit of faith.

*smiles* tnx a lot! As for dat church part,infact I've signed convenant wit God two days ago at d shiloh prog,I need to get serios. Overshy no go kill me,mixing up wit pple in my zone is a big issue for me maybe because everyone has caucus,lol!hardly mix wit pple,most times I'm on my own save for social media life o(wat an irony)
Dat cinema own,I shd do dat dis Xmas,need to go out more often. Yeah der are gud men,wat is needed is divine connection,that thing dat will bring u pple togeda.
Merry xmas in advance!

artisticallyart:

Sweetheart! Don't worry! Pick up yourself, be active in church, social gatherings and go for outing such as cinemas. Always look good, trust me you would see that man. See! We have a lot of men willingly to settle down but are finding to hard to see a responsibile girl.

I think the guy left you because he does not have "Big, Long, and Fast dick" as stated in your signature.

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Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.