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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by tomdon(m): 3:25pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
if this woman married the husband as a v then she has a right to be annoyed but if she has done abortion before and she has not ascertained that the abortion is not the medical reason behind her inability to conceive, then she's very stiupid and wicked for blaming the husband for any wrongdoing but the story sef get k leg; -your landlady is young lives alone -you happen to be married for 8 years no child -your wife is away at work all day while you are home most times haba this coincidences are too much nao abi na Nigerian movie?? 1 Like |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:25pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
M4gunners: It is very possible if both see marriage as more than an avenue for procreation but companionship. Every marriage doesn't have to end up with child bearing, but it should end up in a lasting friendship. Couples with children still have problems where the man or woman cheats and have kids outside 2 Likes |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by victorazy(m): 3:26pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by JrizzyJosh(m): 3:26pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
JustHere2Observ:I'm not a goat. ..I know what you are saying. ..In Nigeria you have to believe 2 things spiritual and science problem. ..madam go to church and see for yourself. . |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:29pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
JrizzyJosh: Oga relax, I'm not calling you a goat neither am I disputing that people believe such. No need to go defensive on me. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by victorazy(m): 3:30pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
tomdon: ![]() When u tell them to takam easy them no go gree |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Emmiee28(m): 3:32pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Ur hubby no wan pay rent again.. 2 Likes |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by adebrightayo(f): 3:35pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Pls, stay with ur husband and be fervently prayerful, go to mountain & pray d@ God should break d chain among them. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by obiorathesubtle: 3:35pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
ajuwarhodes:no. It's wrong for the woman to do it |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Mandyjosh: 3:35pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
my advice b say don't try to leave ur husband,may b na u get d conception problem.if u leave ,d lady WL b happy n she WL b reapi where she Neva sowed.therefore I go advice u Neva to go;Bt if he however drive u out,it is entirely anoda issue.pls,while u stay wit ur hubby,b prayerful, cos d lady might b planning to use diabolical means of sending u packing from ur matrimonial home.be watchful,prayerful,loving and patient.God WL make u happy too.peace. 1 Like |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Ayd007: 3:36pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
bettercreature: U are such an irresponsible fellow. Lemme ask u a question: if dat lady is ur younger or elder sister would you have given that kind of advice to her husband? Do unto others what you want them to do unto u. As per d lady in question, I ll give my piece of advice when am done. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Vickygirk: The man is infertile and yet the landlady is pregnant for him? Are u with your senses? |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by JrizzyJosh(m): 3:37pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
JustHere2Observ:Respect anyway |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by M4gunners: 3:40pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
JustHere2Observ:Preacher thanks, but you and i know our culture. To tell the truth, i would only blame the man if the job is not well done. But as you can see, the job is already well done. I can't imagine me marrying after 3 years no Child, the lady will be on long thing.That bring us to the earlier thread of abortion. If the Lady is the problem here, She should be ready to compete with a second wife or She forget about me. What is marriage without kids,i be Oyibo? |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by tomdon(m): 3:41pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Ayd007: YES, everyone should bear the consequence of their actions, very wicked, stiupid girls doing abortion anyhow |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by shumuel(m): 3:42pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Mtcheeew! ![]() From what have read, its possible the hetty isn't after taking the man(CJ) from her, she is now a rich single mother and human, she only need that feeling only a man can give and from what has been said about the landlady i believe she is comfortable and ladies in such positions only need tender loving and not a man to come play Lord over them,, what am i trying to say, i believe hetty is not trying to take Cj away, so why can't the lady in question be patient enough and wait to see the end rather than feeling guilty of not being able to bare a child and feeling hetty's pregnancy is a torment to her, this could be an oppotunity of she having a child of her own, who knows, i'll advice her not to leave the house as that may now draw CJ closer to hetty, which will now make hetty have the total attention of him, and thats when she,hetty will start thinking of taking him away from her, she should stay and face her fears, they both, CJ and her could collect the child from Hetty and live happily ever after, they could even elope with the child if hetty won't give them the right to the child, but only God can help because now that CJ knows he can father a child he will want another one, and hetty is the only chioce his head will think of, sad. But there is nothing pray can't do, they say. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:43pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
M4gunners:
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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by viktor01(m): 3:46pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Ever wondered why some men tolerate marriage amidst the suffering? Cause children have come in between. Just hold on until the baby is born then suggest to your husband to go for paternity test, if the result result turns out negative, that's hope for you but if positive, just pack your things cause you no longer have a place in that house. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Dawinlove(m): 3:51pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Every situation you find yourselve in is for the delivery of your own blessing.Dont give in to the devil's plan it may be a test of your faith in God..jes know that any mockery you overcome will take away ur challenges..dnt hate d lady..love and care for your husband the way u do..b fervent in prayer...mark my words"you will soon get pregnant" only if u overcome the shame and mockery of d devil. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by ajuwarhodes(f): 3:51pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle: But it's right for the man right? The woman can stay childless for all u care,isn't? Its her duty to stay faithful no matter what? Selfish men all around 2 Likes |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by fbtowner(m): 3:54pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
LeSulk: I still don't get it. Some of you want her to divorce d hubby. And go remarry Put it on drawing board. She would be in her late 20s or early 30s. On the instance early 30s. What is her chances of getting a single guy. Can you put it down statistically. Even the single girls in late 20s are sad because of their situation. So you want her to start all over. Its not that easy. I can only support divorce if after the landlady put to bed and d baby is about 2 to 3 and she is still not pregnant. Probably she is not meant for the man *just refill ink* as e don nack FP |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by ajuwarhodes(f): 3:55pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
[quote author=obiorathesubtle post=40966629]no. It's wrong for the woman to do it[/quot But it's right for the man?the woman can remain childless for all u care? What makes me happy is that, it's God that will judge on the last day. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by obiorathesubtle: 4:00pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
ajuwarhodes:uh, there's no need to get angry.. Women need to remain faithful, e dy bible. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by ajuwarhodes(f): 4:00pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
tomdon: The rate at which men have low sperm counts nowadays will make u wonder if they have had abortions too,once i marry and I don't get pregnant, I will devorce his ass too! Who knows how he spent his single days! Stupid messing around |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
eph12:...assaults and battery are not involved. The choice is hers,but be rest assured the man is not moving an inch. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by ajuwarhodes(f): 4:03pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle: Where in the bible was it said that can get away with been unfaithful? Quoting the bible to suit urself |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by vinceton: 4:04pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
This may not be the time for self-same, The deed has been done. U ve got two choices; forgive and stay or divorce and go. Going by what ur husbands reaction when you threatened to leave it seems he is now head over heels in love with your landlady or basking in the euphoria of a new child after many years. He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches. I wouldn't prescribe divorce cos the scriptures encourage forgiveness, just be patient and allow more time to heal ur wounds. Your husband will definitely make a u-turn |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Nobody: 4:06pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
bettercreature:bro, Remember the story of Sarah ( Abraham's wife) thou most times, infertility issues is as a result of the past life the lady engages in before getting married. I feel you should not blame her fully since you don't know the history of her past life. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by marlockj: 4:10pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Brytawon: Yes There is something the woman has that you lack!! That is a womb. To me from ur story is clear that you Hv a prblm not your husband. Also it will b wise to think,what you did as a single. The drugs u took,abortion if any. As a good husbnd as u said.I bliv your husbnd need to be happy. The happiness of ur husband to d pregnant woman,shows he has bin giving u fake smile,pretence that God time is d best. The truth is bitter,baby holds man n wife. That is to say u need a baby to cement ur marriage. Hence u r still single n dating. Baby is d pride of every woman. To me ohh,if d man cn get those kids n move out.it will b nice.Bt for you to think he will stay without a kid n play Kul u r lying. Bt I was d man,what I culd Hv done culd b to get two babies out side.then bring them home for u to take k.
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Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by fm7070: 4:11pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
This is very serious matter with simple solution. I will blame the wife most for this issue. You seems to be consumed by your work and does not have enough time for your husband, he must have been complaining softly but you didn't take it serious. How can a married woman looking for the fruit of the womb be so workaholic? Men loves regular sex, different styles, it is like water and if they don't get enough of it, yawa fit gas ooo. You seems not to press for adequate medical solution for your childlessness as well, thinking he is not worried. Now you see that he loves to see his child from any source by all means. SOLUTION: Stay in your matrimonial home. Do not leave your home for any strange woman. This is just a force to push you to wake up. Your story is going to end up like that of Hannah. People will soon say you've had enough children in Jesus Name. Forgive the woman, forgive your husband, this is not the time for hatred, take care of the child like your own, look up to God and do necessary medical checkup. It could be little infection that is causing the childlessness, but my counsel will go a long way keeping you on track. Shalom! |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by gentlestandard: 4:12pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Its quite unfortunate that this situation has happened but I must tell u it could be blessing in disguise (spiritua attachment).Lets face the facts squarelly, just calm your narves and see more of her as your wife than a landlady. Things ll normalize soonest as God ll surely answer your prayers. |
Re: 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by bigtt76(f): 4:13pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Husband don graduate from tenant to Landlady baby-daddy while Madam don add homelessness to her plenty wahala ![]() |
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