Kath5kouture:
Dear Readers

I am in a no s*x relationship with this amazing young man, he is cool and has everything I wanted in a man.

Apart from him, have always been in a no s*x relationship, the last man I dated, who died in the ill fated Dana Air crash was also in a no s*x relationship with me but he was more vibrant emotionally, like he will hug me tight, hold me and look into my eyes, roll his hands over me and kisses me too and sometimes I notice he will be so turn on, just that we have decided we want to wait and sometimes he will say baby i’m so turn on but I can handle it.

Now the issue I have with this one I am dating now is, he will not do any of that, all he does is look at me passionately, and if he must touch me, he will just hold my hands and play with my fingers, he can stare at me the whole day and gist with me, but I have never seen him at the point where he was turn on, whether in his face or actions, he is just there.know he is God fearing and can afford not to be turn on, but I am so scared, have slept in his house before, we were just like blood siblings, cook together eat and off he went to his room, no emotions or maybe a kiss to say good night and stuff, it was so neutral I feared he might not like s*x or romance at all or maybe he is not all right.

Sometimes I want to bring up gist like, how far did you go with your ex, what is the most naughty thing you have done in a relationship or for love, and he will go like… I came back from work, I didn’t have a car then, so I trek all the way to her house to cook for her.And I ask, what’s your most memorable s*x experience, and he replied baby good night, this is not you so don’t bring up the fake self, you’ve been talking too much to your girl friends lately I guess.

How do I get to know all these about him, have starved myself enough of s*x to please God, and to be a good girl my mother asked me to be and cannot “CANNOT” and will not be able to stand a slow or bad s*x experiences in marriage, the thought of this is driving me crazy..

Cutehector:
Now look at dem... They dnt want sex in rship buh they are craving it badly..


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Ucheosefoh:
I have read this story before na few months ago

feran15:
you are basically comparing your old boyfriend with your even if your reasons sound genuine, its not advisable.

about your bf, he might feel that way, but not show it. I'll advise you just Ask for assurance that you will "do it" well after marriage instead of asking about exes

sunkieisland:
The most profound definition of cluelessness.


I'm pretty sure your no sex before marriage is nothing but a ruse.

Grow up, if your principle is faith based and the guy's as well, you dont need advise here

Michellla:
smh.Why Are Some Girls So Confused?

Kath5kouture:

You don't have to comment to advertise your own blog. Just look and pass,u no go die!

Ishilove:
Orisirisi

Johnnoah1st:
have read dis same lame story over ten times on nairaland now.

Ucheosefoh:
Sorry to sound harsh where did you read my post advertising my blog? So I should not comment on a thread I have read a similar story somewhere because busybody like you will not mind their business

Godswillnwaoma:
This na old story naaa. How many times we go read am here for nairaland.

valdes00:
The question am yet to find an answer to...... What do they want?....... A Yoruba proverb said, what u won't eat, dont smell it with ur nose....... u said u r in a no sex relationship n u r clamouring for a kiss.... U wan dey punish d man abi, him dick go hard finish, no show.... so u expect mak him b like d first mumu abi wey dey tell u say him fit handle himself after konji hold am...... Some Girls sha

Kath5kouture:
Olodo,ur blog's name is below abi u no fit read wetin u write? Odogwu my ass!