Addicted2Women:
I did the same thing to my girlfriend.
I impregnated my girlfriend's sister.
She refused to play her role (not of your barrenness).
I will also blame you for what your husband did.
Men are easily tamed, there is only one thing you can do to a man to keep him away from cheating. Just give him the best sex, the juju no go clear for him eye, he go dey after your pusssy like a dog is after bone.

But i know this is a big lie from hell.

Are you really serious or just trying to get comical?

ojun50:
For the past 8 years no child why?

she probably don waka waka at a young age get those STI wen no de make woman get belle

Though the headline is interesting but too many paragraph.


But I'm stl reading.

greggng:
What ur husband did is not as bad as what you did in the past that resulted in you not having babies. Abortion is dangerious. Unfortunately ur husband married you without knowing ur past. Pls move on and allow the man to enjoy his fatherhood. It is wicked for a man to have a man as wife. It is true both of you ladies ve got pussies but it takes more than a pussy to be pregnant.

Do you know the woman in question personally?

A lot of comments are really cracking me up, from having a baby to fix things up, to fighting, and what men did with their sperm ... Hm.. Interesting!
Why should child bearing be a reason for matrimony when you can pay people to birth your kids and some are even willing to do it for free!
If my wife can't make me complete, then kids won't! I'm just confused, seriously, that one will think i'll marry her to bear me children! Hm.. na wa o!

JustHere2Observ:


Do you know the woman in question personally?

You asked an intelligent question. The answer is yes. Moreover a similar thing just happening to my immediate bro. In his case he has sheepishly refused to try out on another woman. He is believing God for a miracle. Ask the woman she will confirmed to u her womb is damaged. Anyone saying am ignorant is a joker am too old to talk any how

greggng:


You asked an intelligent question. The answer is yes. Moreover a similar thing just happening to my immediate bro. In his case he has sheepishly refused to try out on another woman. He is believing God for a miracle. Ask the woman she will confirmed to u her womb is damaged. Anyone saying am ignorant is a joker am too old to talk any how

Hmm funny not all D&C is harmful, in fact if done properly it can boost fertility in a woman. But even if her womb was damaged, he vowed for better or worse, in sickness and health. Did he forget those vows so quickly after meeting with a divorcee with 2 kids?
His actions are inexcusable. If he wanted a child badly, he could have divorced her and save her the stress.

Brytawon:
that woman seems to have cast a spell or used 'love charm' on him or something

LOL

JustHere2Observ:


Hmm funny not all D&C is harmful, in fact if done properly it can boost fertility in a woman. But even if her womb was damaged, he vowed for better or worse, in sickness and health. Did he forget those vows so quickly after meeting with a divorcee with 2 kids?
His actions are inexcusable. If he wanted a child badly, he could have divorced her and save her the stress.

Well ask her if what they had was a white or christian wedding that's the only place for better for worst work.

CocknBull:
A lot of comments are really cracking me up, from having a baby to fix things up, to fighting, and what men did with their sperm ... Hm.. Interesting!
Why should child bearing be a reason for matrimony when you can pay people to birth your kids and some are even willing to do it for free!
If my wife can't make me complete, then kids won't! I'm just confused, seriously, that one will think i'll marry her to bear me children! Hm.. na wa o!

pls give me skmebody's contact, I have a friend who is badly in need of this.

akinladejo:

pls give me skmebody's contact, I have a friend who is badly in need of this.

What's your friend's status?

akinladejo:

pls give me skmebody's contact, I have a friend who is badly in need of this.

Never mind. I don't want to get involved!

He who runs away from his fears, lives to quench the flame of disaster.

(1) Do not leave your life partner
(2) Stay to fight your fears and take control
(3) Due to being childless, look into other medical options (IVF, etc)
(4) Adoption could be considered for now; it allows you some room for control of your home.
(6) Do not hate your land lady for her wickedness, nor your husband for his foolishness,we as humans are bound to err in life
(6) Pray without ceasing: Sarah, Anna, even Rachael had it late in life, but they had the choice of God in children
(5) Marriage entails sacrifices, pains and gains: live through them.

God be with you.

madam...its indeed a very unfortunate incidence....I am not married and I know its not easy on the man too to be without a child for 8yrs...u are not God either.....and I have sisters I pray don't fall into such circumstances...leaving your home now....should be the least thing to do....because just like u stated that your husband loves u yet he can't wait to be a father....so he won't leave that house....he's likely to stop paying rent meaning that he has no incentive to look for another house coupled with your own admission that the landlady is prettier and richer than you......leaving the house is what will suite her most as this will give her unlimited access to your husband and he will forget you immediately.... once you join your sister then...you are a forgone conclusion...God frowns at divorce or separation.. I know its very very hard to wake up and see her tommy....she will even want you to see it to irritate you and drive you out but don't give in....don't stop praying to your God...visit a counselor, talk with a matured woman ...not your mother as she has fought with d woman already...and trust me...more dramas will unfold that may be uncomfortable but don't give in....the world has no room for quitters.....there are many men out there but to find a husband is not easy....I am not married but I believe you saw something before you said yes to him....pray for him and believe the best of God in him...and I believe he will come back to you...
adapt to the reality and forge ahead....God will open your womb too....be happy...its for your good...at the end you will have the last laugh..if you are a Christian.... see your pastor and God bless you...
lessons for married pple....be watchful....watch your so called friends more than your critics or enemies....cos wen they attack you, you may never recover....
to my single brothers/ sisters... marriage is an institution u don't graduate from...let ur love have eyes and not be blind....and be PRAYERFUL
thanks.....

Who will u blame

Who will u blame? chai is not easy 4 a man 2 marry without a child may be u can check urself well, becus u can't blame ur husband.

I felt for you. You must be in a very hard time at the moment, what will you do if only to ask God to help you. I will also remember you in my prayers. Continue to ask your husband to rethink about her behaviour, honestly, the best will be to relocate. Dont leave him at the moment, continue asking for that in a polite manner and find a better way to support him and the expected child, your own will finally come and you will give God all the glory, God never fails.

bettercreature:
Ladies are selfish! You suppose to divorce or ask your husband to marry another wife if you can not concieve for 5yrs or more, my opinion might not make sense to you tho but we all know God does not created any woman who can not concieve,their ability not to concieve is due to what they have done when they were young,i don't think i can hustle all my life, make it, then stay with a woman who can not concieve for more than 5years

who told you that inability of a woman not to conceive is because of what they hv done in the past. Have you heard of hormonal imbalance? Do you know that stress affect fertility? Anyway you sound so unenlightened. Have you ever have this thought in your mind, *how will you feel if your sister is involved?*
Sometimes we have to watch our words, because it might come back to hurt us" . Something might happen to your fertility one day and you will see your wifey bleeping around, hope you won't feel bad about it? . Remember that karma is a bitch"

Madam. Forget about that man. That ship has sailed. The only thing that can bring him back is if he finds out that the other woman's baby is not his. You better work towards trying to have your own baby. So that you won't loose all.

Zizaboni:
Hmmm. M... Na u do urself ooI.. Did u seek the









hmm. wen u no dt u were childless, did u seek the God of Shiloh 2015? the answer is No... Did u see the God of Pst Enoch Adeboye.... the answer is no..... Na u do ursef, Imagine years of barrenness and u didn't see the God of my fathers in the Lord.... na u labour, nA ur landlady eat the fruit of ur labour... Who shall eat the fruit of the fools if not the wise ones..... Glory to glory

This my friend is the dumbest thing I have read in a while.

CocknBull:
A lot of comments are really cracking me up, from having a baby to fix things up, to fighting, and what men did with their sperm ... Hm.. Interesting!
Why should child bearing be a reason for matrimony when you can pay people to birth your kids and some are even willing to do it for free!
If my wife can't make me complete, then kids won't! I'm just confused, seriously, that one will think i'll marry her to bear me children! Hm.. na wa o!

My dear,the comments are not cracking me up because they are outrageous. I can't believe grown up,educated pple think this way....
How can pple advise her to stay in that home with the man, be more loving and caring or keep praying. For crying out loud she is a human being not a robot,she has feelings,she has been scared emotionally and staying there can cause her to breakdown.
i dont even want to talk about the people saying it's her fault that she can't conceive.
seriously,I can't deal. A lot of people here dont get the point of marriage and it's unfortunate

saintkel:
Christianity gave no room for divorce bro

Really, do ask Pastor Chris Okotie, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and several men and women in the church fold that had to divorce their spouse.

What Christianity do you mean? The one hypocrites like you perverted.

Anyway, after 8 years of childlessness, it is obvious that children are of high priority than the love and marrital vows to the husband, that can be deduced from his actions and pronouncements after the concubine was discoverd pregnant. He is ready to risk the marriage to his wife in order to keep the concubine and the baby she is expecting.

She has lost her dignity and respect in that home, the love is nosediving fast and the earlier she recognize that, the better for her.

If she has a child or children for him, I wouldn't suggest divorce but they have no children, after eight years. I think she should try it with another man too. She may just be shocked that it may result to pregnancy too.

She has to move on; divorce him; make herself available for another serious man; live a happilly with another loving man and get her groove back. Come on!

After reading comments here it seems most nairaland men are sick. No conscience

greggng:


Well ask her if what they had was a white or christian wedding that's the only place for better for worst work.

A wedding is a wedding if both parties agree to it, families are there to witness it and a regulatory body is there. Documents were signed, dowry paid and vows exchanged. So yeah it is not only "Christian" wedding that is valid

JustHere2Observ:


A wedding is a wedding if both parties agree to it, families are there to witness it and a regulatory body is there. Documents were signed, dowry paid and vows exchanged. So yeah it is not only "Christian" wedding that is valid

understand me clearly it is in christian wedding conducted by men of God that they usually ask that question. ie Mr james do you accept to love ur wife for better for worst? no body ask this questions in traditional marriage and court marriages. I am only reacting to ur question abt were lies the for better for worst that they took on wedding day

greggng:



understand me clearly it is in christian wedding conducted by men of God that they usually ask that question. ie Mr james do you accept to love ur wife for better for worst? no body ask this questions in traditional marriage and court marriages. I am only reacting to ur question abt were lies the for better for worst that they took on wedding day

Still that doesn't make other forms of wedding invalid. Marriage no matter the form, should be for better or worse unless it is a forced marriage where both parties did not consent. He should stick to her, love her and care for her irrespective of her past or status. He was the one who proposed, no one forced him.

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Vickygirk:



for a woman to move around with a married woman knowing fully well that he is married is of loose manner, meaning that the husband may not be the only man she has had a thing with and YES I AM WITH MY SENSES

In PEJ's voice*** OK! Kontinue

Wallade:


Really, do ask Pastor Chris Okotie, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and several men and women in the church fold that had to divorce their spouse.

What Christianity do you mean? The one hypocrites like you perverted.

Anyway, after 8 years of childlessness, it is obvious that children are of high priority than the love and marrital vows to the husband, that can be deduced from his actions and pronouncements after the concubine was discoverd pregnant. He is ready to risk the marriage to his wife in order to keep the concubine and the baby she is expecting.

She has lost her dignity and respect in that home, the love is nosediving fast and the earlier she recognize that, the better for her.

If she has a child or children for him, I wouldn't suggest divorce but they have no children, after eight years. I think she should try it with another man too. She may just be shocked that it may result to pregnancy too.

She has to move on; divorce him; make herself available for another serious man; live a happilly with another loving man and get her groove back. Come on!

Broda Christianity is more dan those few u called, read ur Bible its d law and constitution of every child of God, u dnt remarry if ur ist wife is alive, u can seperate but u never shld marry

Freewoman:
Better tori shaaaaaaaaah, when a woman has chosen the place of man in the family,......move out early come back late, what do you expect?, Child not coming, several years has gone by no issue after marriage, who is to blame?, man and the woman getting old, .......Look the woman has to accept the faith of welcoming the second wife, is a pity but that is the ideal situation , no compromise.........finish................. this is my submission,

finally 1 sane woman .

99foxxy:
mehn ur de wisest... Ur comment was so mature n gosh dunno hw to put it, very intelligent way of advice n i go with ur point..

thank you, though coming too late.

ajuwarhodes:


The rate at which men have low sperm counts nowadays will make u wonder if they have had abortions too,once i marry and I don't get pregnant, I will devorce his ass too! Who knows how he spent his single days! Stupid messing around

till then goodluck to u, na your value de decrease.