RickRichards:

Lol...hadn't ever seen you yab anyone until tonight, when you yabbed Mr. RickRichards. Don't worry, I'll look for the perfect moment to 'return the favour'.

mentorandfriend:
but it's better to lose a relationship than to lose a marriage.

so we must take our time.

Michellla:

you cant be that mean

mentorandfriend:
For further self development for everyone that clicks on this thread, I did a screen-grab from the blog of one of my topmost influencers, Stephenie Obi. Find her on Facebook as Steph Obi and like her page. Same on instagram. We owe ourselves a duty to prepare ourselves adequately for the exploits, breakthroughs, and better visibility of our brands ahead.

Opetech:


I sent you a pm, I need your help on an issue. Thank you.

Opetech:


Thank you. I haven't seen the reply. This is my no if you don't mind connecting on Whatsapp.
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mentorandfriend:
I Have An Eye Opener For You. What If You Don't Find Love?

Every lady I've met wants to be loved; likewise the guys around me. We discuss it, and go to sleep still thinking on it. Love is such an important need in our lives such that we don't like a break up. A break up leaves us reflective, withdrawn, sullen, and quiet. We may try to mask it all by going out to party with the guys, or flooding our social media timeline with words such as 'I have no regrets'. Deep down, all of us want to be loved by the RIGHT person.

But here is the revelation. Most of us will give up time, money, family, etc in order to find love, yet not everyone will be loved truly and sincerely. Not everyone who gives all will receive all in return. Not everyone who deserves love will find it.

Sad right? Deeply so!

You can, at this moment cast your mind to some people in your Email, BBM, WhatsApp, or Facebook Messenger contact list who don't give a toss about your Hi. But you have deep feelings for them right? I know you do! I've been there.

All these happen because the world is not fair. The person you're crazy about is busy loving someone else who doesn't even look at him/her twice. We invest our time, financial resources, ideas/intelligence and emotions on them, but we can never have them. Never ever.

It pains. For sure!

For all our busy-body and efforts, not all of us will be rewarded with true love. It's all messed up ladies and gentlemen, but we must not give up on love because it is a universal need. Truth is that you need to receive love in order to reach your highest potential. You need to feel loved in order to have spring in your footsteps and feel confident enough to take on the world.

To that end, you have to find someone who loves you and who you feel same way for.

So how can you find that one person among the over 7 billion other people on earth? All you need is to find someone that your heart beats for the same things... VALUES!

What are VALUES? They are the guiding principles which form a person's moral compass in life. Every person always makes decision based on his value system. Nothing will ever work out between two people of different value systems. You'll be forcing it all the days of your life together.

However, you will feel at home in the midst of people who share same value system with you. You can literally jump out of your skin and still not feel odd in the midst of these people. They appeal deeply to your spirit; they place a high demand on your potential and help to call it forth. It is in the midst of these people that you can find love.

Summary:

If you're still freaking out about curves, boobs, height, his deep voice, her career or his money in the bank over values, you'll miss the spine of the relationship. First of all, try to know what is important to him or her through close observation and asking of questions when you're confused. If you discover that both of you are not headed same way, politely excuse yourself. This is called assessment of values.

Some Quotes For Your Upliftment:

1) A lack of patience will always position you beneath the PROMISE. Don't settle for less.

2) Impatience will cause you to manufacture a blessing instead of waiting for the PROMISE. Beware, lest you forget.

3) You will never regret setting your standards, elevating your expectations, and waiting for God's best.

Thanks for reading.

mentorandfriend:
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