There is this girl whom i have a cordial relationship with we laugh and chat sometimes and not most times but i have been in love with her for a very long time and wouldnt say it but now that i have told her my feelings she went totally cold with me. Sometimes she would just sit down alone and not talking to anyone even her friends. When i call her she would say shes coming but will not come. Please i dont understand her attitude. I remember i told her friend to talk to her for me and she said she would think about it but no it seems like shes avoiding me. What do i do

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Trust me on this... These links are gonna help!

http://datingyouths..com.ng/2015/12/things-ive-learnt-about-love.html
http://datingyouths..com.ng/2015/12/clears-signs-you-are-in-love.html

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What you need to do is stop gettn worried and thinkn abt the whole thing.. She has turned you down, dats a fact. You should forget abt it all and quit havn any conversation with her for some time.

Why not talk to her in person?

Find your square root man......

Leave her with her attitude

faith551:
Why not talk to her in person?

she said nothing is wrong

donbenedict:
What you need to do is stop gettn worried and thinkn abt the whole thing.. She has turned you down, dats a fact. You should forget abt it all and quit havn any conversation with her for some time.

i wish i could but i cant. U have no idea how i love her

Smallville10:
i wish i could but i cant. U have no idea how i love her

guy pls stop it abeg and stop falin ur hands.. She doesnt love u bak.. She neva will! I have been there and i knw wat it feels and if u continue to live in that world, u will end up hating girls.

Smallville10:
she said nothing is wrong

Give her time and space bro, ladies could be too complex to understand.

donTbone:
ok

Trust me on this... These links are gonna help!

http://datingyouths..com.ng/2015/12/things-ive-learnt-about-love.html
http://datingyouths..com.ng/2015/12/clears-signs-you-are-in-love.html

If it does help, you can quote me back

thanks so much for this. In the "clear signs you are in love" i got somethings there. She actually puts up some of those attitude especially the hard to look. But i cant read her mind and i need to be sure what shes think cus i really love her

faith551:


Give her time and space bro, ladies could be too complex to understand.

thanks

Smallville10:
thanks so much for this. In the "clear signs you are in love" i got somethings there. She actually puts up some of those attitude especially the hard to look. But i cant read her mind and i need to be sure what shes think cus i really love her

Glad that could help... Now to really know her mind.
Walk up to her, u can take her out on a lunch or dinner
date, just to talk. Then ask her what she have in mind.



Mind you, prepare your mind for a negative reaction, just
as not to ruin the date.

donTbone:
Glad that could help... Now to really know her mind. Walk up to her, u can take her out on a lunch or dinner date, just to talk. Then ask her what she have in mind.


Mind you, prepare your mind for a negative reaction, just as not to ruin the date.

yeah i like this. Thanks so much

Smallville10:
There is this girl whom i have a cordial relationship with we laugh and chat sometimes and not most times but i have been in love with her for a very long time and wouldnt say it but now that i have told her my feelings she went totally cold with me. Sometimes she would just sit down alone and not talking to anyone even her friends. When i call her she would say shes coming but will not come. Please i dont understand her attitude. I remember i told her friend to talk to her for me and she said she would think about it but no it seems like shes avoiding me. What do i do

Read the writing on the wall but if you insist you can scale down on the heavy love talks maybe it scares her.

andromida:


Read the writing on the wall but if you insist you can scale down on the heavy love talks maybe it scares her.

sorry you aint clear

u need to erase every atom of feelings in her..donbenedict is right.nothing is more toxic than d feeling of wondering if she likes u or not.she prolly doesnt,but u ll keep thinking evr little thing she does or say might be a sign she likes u,its gonna really affect u psychologically n emotionally.when u trust ur emotions r in check,go ask her why she acted that way.if u do it now,every mean word or look or scowl she gives wil prolly hurt ur soul.

erase ur feelings in her..donbenedict is right.nothing is more toxic than d feeling of wondering if she likes u or not.she prolly doesnt,but u ll keep thinking evr little thing she does or say might be a sign she likes u,its gonna really affect u psychologically n emotionally.when u trust ur emotions r in check,go ask her why she acted that way.if u do it now,every mean word or look or scowl she gives wil prolly hurt

Mzdivacious:
u need to erase every atom of feelings in her..donbenedict is right.nothing is more toxic than d feeling of wondering if she likes u or not.she prolly doesnt,but u ll keep thinking evr little thing she does or say might be a sign she likes u,its gonna really affect u psychologically n emotionally.when u trust ur emotions r in check,go ask her why she acted that way.if u do it now,every mean word or look or scowl she gives wil prolly hurt ur soul.

erm which of the pretty girls in ur dp is yhu

donbenedict:
erm which of the pretty girls in ur dp is yhu

im on green

Mzdivacious:
im on green

alright..

Mzdivacious:
erase ur feelings in her..donbenedict is right.nothing is more toxic than d feeling of wondering if she likes u or not.she prolly doesnt,but u ll keep thinking evr little thing she does or say might be a sign she likes u,its gonna really affect u psychologically n emotionally.when u trust ur emotions r in check,go ask her why she acted that way.if u do it now,every mean word or look or scowl she gives wil prolly hurt

I guess u are right