charlsecy:
Do you think he should marry her on account of her help towrds him?


Do you any other reason why you think you cannot or shouldn't marry her?

He shouldn't marry her on account of her help towards him and he shouldn't have accepted those things either, when he knows he wont marry her

Jacko1:
If you truly do not love her dont marry her....... D ones we guys do fo gals nko dat dey dont marry us..... Evry 1 is now lookin at this as awkward because reverse is d case abeg u do not owe her any marriage unless u truly love her.

Don't let me pray for this to happen to ur daughter or sister, then we'll say the same thing for her

OP. U r drunk. Some ppl have rest of mind Bt they still for look for trouble else where. Somebody stood by you when u are nobody. Do u think ur cert is the ultimate? C plenty jobless graduate with better cert than that nonsense u hv. Sorry if it sound like an insult But u deserve it. No better reward for woman who stood by u when u r nobody than jst to love her and marry her. Dnt say she is nt ur type. See plenty of ur type for street doing prostitution, some even they for morgue chilling dead.


Use ur head.

HaneefahRN:

Don't let me pray for this to happen to ur daughter or sister, then we'll say the same thing for her

Na today abegi

If you have no intentions of marrying her ,then don't use and waste her time ,be open to her so she knows her stance. Better safe than sorry..

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

bros you are very STVPID!

When you are eating her money didn't you think that way

And now you are talking the way of an irresponsible MAN with no element of SHAME in you.

How will you just use and dump someone who is by your side and accept every poo of yours with open hands and love but yet this is how you repay her!

You should be castrated.

Jacko1:

Na today abegi

Ok. When it happens just tell her 'na today'. Ciao

op if dat gurl stand naked swear for u ehn....even tb josh no go get solution to ur case ...u beta marry ha

Because she is your age mate, suppose you met a girl who's only eating your money, you go come here day ask this one?

Sometimes some people just day use hand carry swear by themselves. You know what, don't marry her shay u hear, and watch how God in heaven will destroy your life. Since na chop and clean mouth you wan do. Anuofia.

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

My wife is older than me by a year and a half EOD. Do the right thing and stop limiting yourself.

What were you thinking

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

@oups!My bones just speak to me that the Sisi will make a very good wife for you, marry her or else the Great One"GOD"of Kibuki Land will get angry with you Shaka lalalaaa Gyarbonka..

Op if u dont want ur grave to be deeper than six feet u bera marry her

louistearer:
But brother, u knw hw women are.
1. She knows we are agemates d respect won't be there is we eventually ties d knot.
2. Because I was financially dependent on her don't u think I have lost my pride as a man to her?
She doesn't hesitate to remind me that she rented and furnished my ouse. Don't u think that's an eye-opener to what she will turn out to be when she has my ring on her finger?

I wonder why she want to marry you. A man that can't take decision for himself. Nonsense

Op i just hope ur babe doesnt hv a wicked heart if not ur own go soon done.
Ur name will just b trending in.d mouths of native docs n pastors firing dangerous prayers towards ur direction.hehehehe
Women r wicked wen dey feel dey hv bn taken for granted

Hye man,you talk like a stuipuid dick,what would u be expecting if you had done thesame to her,i feel you seeing her now as an old lady after all the digital ,and biological exploitation

Na devil go be your housemate if you no marry that lady

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

marry her

Except you are telling me that there is an agreement between 2 of you that you are not ready to marry her at the beginning of the relationship, if not you are an Id1ot. The girl should be spending her hard earned money to support because you are her incapacitated Grand Father that cannot help himself. I don't know why Code 419 should not be amended in Nigerian constitution to include cases like yours because it is a 419 case "Obtaining money by false pretence"

Hefemale:

I wonder why she want to marry you. A man that can't take decision for himself. Nonsense

Infact the lady no no say na mumu she dey feed

I blame that fish brain of a girl!

When you were accepting her help, you were enjoying it, now you don't want to dance to the piper's tune.

It is not nairalanders that will tell you to marry her or not to, it is your decision! You better decide quickly!

She has clothed you, fed you, found you an aPartment, all you could do is now notice both of you are age mates? Just Tell us you've found yourself a younger girl with your current girl's home, clothing and money. I pity you, seriously.

Go ahead if you love her.

Look at who is forming for a kind lady, I thought you are Prince charming but you're far from been charming. The young lady is in love with u

[size=26pt]But supposing the case was for a man. in the sense that a man did all these to a woman, train her in school, sponsor her in all things and finally the woman decides to marry another man nko [/size]

If u were in her shoes,wud u be hapi if u spend ur resources,tym e.t.c and at d end u get dumped,u allowed a lady to rent an apartment 4 u,clothe and feed u,she also chosed been wit u in ur state of joblessnes despite her havin a job and also seeing rich dudes wit already made cash and here u're asking questions,dnt evn dare dump her cos she doesnt need to speak a word over ur lyf,law of karma wil jst locate u by itsef and then u wil blame witches in ur village

All this mumu girls that always date their Age mates always make me wonder. Only girl from Poor home do such. If she's being supporting you without complaining, then Marry her without blinking. To get what you have this days is hard. She's a keeper.

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

Do you have deep feelings for her? If yes, you could give it a shot. If no, despite all she has done for you, you would be doing both of you a huge favour if you let her be.

Let her understand this. Never marry anyone out of pity or a sense of obligation to any creed, institution, religion, individual or society at large. Marriage is too risky a venture to go into based on just feeling obliged to.

And please stop feeling guilty over her helping you. It would only make matters worse as decisions you'd take in this state of remorse will most likely be wrong.

BrianRoss:
Y than are u dating her

If u kwn u won't like to marry her Dan u won't ve allowed her to support u to dat level na

Because he's a Yahoo boy without Laptop. He's a user

Jacko1:

God bless you guy.... Had already typed ma own stuff saw u mirrored ma mind..... Leav som hypocrite guys here..... So its only allowed fo women to chop guys money..... U owe her nuffinnjor smooth playa

No.. Its not that, what makes it bad is that he is a man, he z meant to stand on his own no matter how situation bad reach. some girls can be too lazy to do all that so that why they shamelessly waste innocent men time.

op shudnt have let it exceed 1yr sef.

look at this ingrate. shouldn't posts be screened on here ? imagine this mumu can write this nonsense and i cant create a post on nairaland #KISSMYRASCLATBEHIND

pneumaticos:


Infact the lady no no say na mumu she dey feed

take a look at his dp, he is feeling like s king. E nor get shame with him ponmo mouth