louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

trendyprettygir:


Mhen who taught you this? So you mean all your single nieces, sisters, cousin and female folks that are single are still single because there are not good enough for a wife?

This is why we have mass failure in WAEC and JAMB.

Clap for yourself.

louistearer:
But brother, u knw hw women are.
1. She knows we are agemates d respect won't be there is we eventually ties d knot.
2. Because I was financially dependent on her don't u think I have lost my pride as a man to her?
She doesn't hesitate to remind me that she rented and furnished my ouse. Don't u think that's an eye-opener to what she will turn out to be when she has my ring on her finger?

andromida:


You marry her because you gladly want to not because you want to repay her for her generosity. If you don't want to marry her there is no need to use her age as an excuse just be honest with yourself and take the required action if you don't see her as your wife walk away from her money you will not only survive you will find your feet without the feeling of owing someone your life.

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

Highcuerayte:
You are a dead meat if you don't marry her.

Hardeybohwarley:

@Op so you came here to report my sister despite all what she has done for you...you are de

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

sameolg616:

pele another single gal....from ur tone,u highlighted the part that best describes u...i have been doing this business for 30+ yrs now....and neva a 1gal guy...so u can get to know me..if ur sexy enuf.?

tunnamania11:
See them , they keep telling him to marry her because of financial benefits he gets from her without considering the implications of marrying her.
Give the type of advise u can follow when given.

Op, u started dating before she got her job, so I can't say u started the relationship solely on potential financial benefits.

This is where u made mistake: u came here to narrate the negative impacts of marrying the lady, agreed, they are good points.
But didn't u know that you guys are age mate when u started dating?
First,Considering the points u listed, she will never accord u respect when married , good u know already .
You are like an Associate with significant influence while she is like the parent coy because she has the Controlling interest of the entity (your relationship).

Since u came here for advise, the best thing to do is to sit her down and explain to her calmly reasons y the marriage will never happen.
Don't expect her to agree easily, because you too can't if u were her.
No matter what happens, don't ever marry her.
If u have collateral securities, go get a loan and refund all her expenses with interest if you don't want her to destabilize you or your future for not marrying her.

To readers, no need to pretend, at first sight, we all can tell if we can marry the person or not as we all have imaginary potentials he/she must possess.
So, if u know that it's probable that u won't marry him/her, no need to waste each other's precious time.
If u know u can't marry him/her, make it clear you want friendship with benefit, if he/she is okay with it, congratulations.
Don't ever start what you are so sure u can't finish.

bigass123:
Epic response
It was a big mistake allowing her to rent an apartment and even cloth him but then it shouldn't lead to a bigger and even deadlier mistake of marrying her.. Pay her back and walk out fast.
It's in your own best interest.. That kind of girl will certainly make life miserable for you if you wife her.
#my2kobo

Atmmachine:


I wish i know that your girlfriend so i can take her away from you.
You don't deserve her.
Where in this world would you see that kind of caring and lovely girl ??

How old are you ??
You sound like a kid.
I'm ready to marry and i haven't seen anyone as your girlfriend, but you have the privilege to have her and yet you're fucking up

sickstars:
Guys only want love if it's torture

zenar:


rubbish man, u re just looking 4 excuse to discard her even if u marry someone younger she would disrespect u.. its not all about the age...what is ur excuse not to marry her self dont annoy me this evening

front247:
if u dt want to marry her pay her money to her times two or else she go swear for u

louistearer:
But brother, u knw hw women are.
1. She knows we are agemates d respect won't be there is we eventually ties d knot.
2. Because I was financially dependent on her don't u think I have lost my pride as a man to her?
She doesn't hesitate to remind me that she rented and furnished my ouse. Don't u think that's an eye-opener to what she will turn out to be when she has my ring on her finger?