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8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by wristbangle: 6:11pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
It beats my imagination when I see grown up dudes cultivating adolescence habits even though they are old enough to have set of kids they are fathering. As a result of this, ladies consider them as being unserious for marital settling down The below points indicate a guy who is not ready for marriage; 1. He keeps several girlfriends The flirtatious nature of some dudes can be likened to that of a cock that chases several hens desperately and shamelessly. They however service several kitty-cats and hold boastful thrust of discussion amongst their friends, without knowing that chasing every lady on the street is not an achievement and will never be an achievement anytime any day. This is a sign of immaturity which shows that a dude's mind is not preoccupied with marriage but bull.shit. 2. Being too dependent on parents It is a degrading and shameful habit for a grown up man to make cooked up stories just to scam his parents for money. However, they are just so dependent on their parents for ridiculous things such as recharge card, hair cut, etc. Depending on your parents for this ridiculous things does not dignify a man. 3. Uncontrolled spending I pity the life of some guys who spend as if there is no tomorrow. Once they make money, they won't even think about future hardship but will spend this money on rendezvous with these hungry ladies we see around. 4. Laziness and idleness I can't but shake my head when I see guys clustered at jedi jedi/otapiapia seller shops. These guys having nothing bothering them and can be used for political agitation and thuggery. They are always waiting for the day God will throw them money from heaven, without working for it. 5. Eating and sleeping at friend's house Some dudes don't even have caution of what they eat. They can sell their birthright just like the case of Esau. Which lady will even go on a date with this kind of a man? 6. Poor perception about Love Some guys lack purpose, mission and vision in life that planning seems to be like a mission impossible for them. Their mentality has been wired awkwardly that the perception they have about relationship is just to sex, and when a lady denies them of it, they will say she doesn't love them. 7. Being too proud to apologize Guys who blame people for their misfortune and wrongdoings are nothing but dumb skill. They feel like they are doing a lady a favour by dating her. Even when they offend their supposed girlfriend, they will always expect her to apologize to them. These kind of guys have no business being in relationship at all. 8. Poor religious life Some dudes can spend the night at club house but make dem spend ordinary one hour for church or mosque, na punishment.. That you are thinking of settling down should be a more reason why you should get closer to God and have a personal relationship with him rather than wasting your precious time at bar and clubs. 70 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 6:12pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
9. Becoming a regular Visitor of the Brothel I used to be a regular patronizer of the brothel. Wait ooooo !!! Before you tongue-lash me, I never opined that I used to bleep prostitutes oooo, I only said I used to be a regular patronizer of ashowo joint. But now that I'm thinking of settling down it wouldn't be nice bleeping prostitutes when I have a girlfriend. 10. Going for singles" programme just to meet with New Babes I think I should be awarded a gold medal for this. When I was still very much young, my friends and I used to put on our best attires at the mention of "single programmes" held in churches in our locality even though we were never invited. I could remember vividly when I joined my fellowship workforce and became a choir member just to have the attention of a lady in the choir unit whom I had been fantasizing. But now guys don grow, we don't do that bullshit again 11. Playing Nairabet, 1960Bet, Bet9ja, Baba Ijebu and the likes Truth be told, guys who are regular patronizers of the aforementioned betting companies are not even ready to marry. nobody should quote me oooo *Na joke I dey joke ooooo.. Hehehe* *Quote me to say rubb-ish and I will show you why elephant is the only mammal that cannot jump* 104 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by SINNZ(m): 6:14pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Oh! More lists.. Like we haven't had enough already 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Emodeee: 6:16pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
A 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 6:17pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
None of those 8 points is a pointer valid enough to unequivocally prove that a guy is not ready to get married. I've seen guys who possess these attributes get married time and time again. Especially guys from rich homes. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by CaroLyner(f): 6:19pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
tosyne2much:how come you and wristbangle alws comment at the same time. 6 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by obiorathesubtle: 6:19pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Hol up hol up hol up Nigga! Keeps several girlfriends So, make we no jollof again because we wan marry abi? Nigga.. If you no wan dy chop from different pot.. Keep ya opinion to yaself.. No dy spoil people market being too dependent on parents Na small pikin be that... NEXT!!! uncontrolled spending Who you be sef? Prophet?? Laziness and idleness Na you sabi wetin that one mean eating and sleeping at a friend's house You be strong Judas iscariot!! You wan tell me say you no dy do am? So.. You no fit sleep and eat for your friend house.. Wetin be birthright for there? You just dy yap! poor perception about love You just dy yap! If no be fùck.. Wetin the girl wan give you? You dy talk o.. Mtcheeew too proud to apologize Shoro Niyen? poor religious life Bro.. I dy go church.. Simple and short 41 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by CaroLyner(f): 6:21pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
1. He keeps several girlfriendsthey still flirt,married or not married. 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 6:22pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
CaroLyner:I don't think I have an answer to that question 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by TheSonOfMark(m): 6:24pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Poor religious life? Really? I beg to differ. Spirituality or religiousness isn't exactly a requisite for falling in love. Even hippies who hop from caravan to caravan get and stay married. 'Civility' or, if you like, 'humaneness ' would be more like it. Heck, there are countless atheists who double as good, long-term spouses. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by zyzx(m): 6:24pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by 20bc(m): 6:25pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Una with this 8 & 10 things thread done start again..... 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by eleko1: 6:28pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
u wristbangle nd tosyn2much abi wetin bi his name,have something in common.Kudos to both 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by wristbangle: 6:29pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: I think I will agree with you on this because I have seen religious people who maltreat their partners meanwhile an atheist who plays his/her role well. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by wristbangle: 6:32pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
20bc: LOL. The essence of 8/10 things is to create awareness to stop people who engage in wrong doings. |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by misspicy(f): 6:33pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Lovely Cold weather over here and it is so nice of Mr Wristbangle on his birthday to give us this wonderful piece with his twin bro Tosyne2much giving us a break from talks about women to talks about irresponsible guys Now down to my comment i'd like to opine that inasmuch as some of the points listed are characteristics irresponsible guys that are not ready to settle down for marriage exhibit I will like to say it is not the main pointer because I have seen some guys who were still been fed by there parents and depending on them get married and lived in their parent's house with the bride in fact there is this guy on my street that you will see very early in the morning drinking that "agbo" the guy married Sikira just last month... this reminds me of "brother general giver" in my area,this dude is believed to have sampled almost all the teenagers for area but he still married omo iya elewa was it not in july? my point is that been an irresponsible guy that shows some characters does not necessarily means he is shying away from marriage....thank you drops mike 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nickymezor(f): 6:35pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by 20bc(m): 6:37pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
wristbangle:OK but must there be 8 or 10 make it 11 or 12.. |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by wristbangle: 6:48pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
tosyne2much: LMAO |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by lirusehn(m): 6:49pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
AmALilgodSoDontQuoteMe: 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 6:50pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Some guys do this shit sometimes but............ Bitches be crazy. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by firstking01(m): 6:51pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
tosyne2much:seems u dnt play nairabet? 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 6:56pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
firstking01:I dey play am oooo Baba abeg no forget send games to me dis weekend oooo 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by wristbangle: 6:59pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
misspicy: Lovely piece miss misspicy. You will also agree with me that some guys use the opportunity of still being spoon fed by their parents to become complacent about achieving their set goals and vision. I feel guys who are still under their parent's roof should not become comfortable with it. |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 7:04pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Maybe I'm not ready |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by firstking01(m): 7:28pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
tosyne2much:i don't play nairabet |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 8:24pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
misspicy:*Picks mic up and konks her with it* Balderdash, rubbish, trash, garbage, nonsense, gibberish.....ehm, biro, wheelbarrow, house, danfo, molue 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Ha! Rubbish Oya show me |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 8:53pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
JimiCoker:Baba, as u be my personal person, make I just bone |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by AlienStar: 9:05pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
ok |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by ClassCaptain(m): 9:10pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Am here |
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 9:47pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Hehehehehe. Paddy mi, oya coman take one grilled fish before I leave. Orijin or alomo?? |
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