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How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Nobody: 8:00pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
I thought I had waited enough, so when it
was time to go for my NYSC, I made up my
mind to date any cute guy that comes my
way,afterall I was mature and ripe for marriage.
Though I never believed in dating,
but so many things just appeared to be
wrong with my life, even when they were not.
I had been a virgin since birth, never dated,
this was due to what my mum taught me. Her
words, ”never wake up love when it is
not time, and when it is time, don’t fall for it,
stand with your eyes open, then walk into
it.” I bounded those words to my heart all
through my university days, but as soon as it
was time for my NYSC, I felt they should be
thrown away as trash.
I was now a big girl, who should be
approached for marriage. My new believe
was that, if a lady does not get her man on
camp, then she is likely going to settle a
single lady, or with any kind of man outside her
desires. I was losing my faith and trust in
God, which had led me thus far, I was now
following the way of the world.
Just three days at the camp, he came to tell
me he was interested in me. His words, ”I
love the way you carry yourself, your Christianity,
and simplicity. You will surely be
a wonderful wife to your husband when you
get married. So who is the lucky guy, I mean
your fiance?”
His question threw me off balance that I
didn’t know when I told him I was still single and
available. Foolish me, was I supposed to
advertize my singleness and availability to a
man whom God has not revealed anything
about me to? He only admired my beauty,
liked my character and simplicity, not that he
heard from God that I was the lady for him. But I
have already revealed to him how
desperate I was towards having a man in my
life.
Anything done outside the leading of the
spirit, is indeed carnal. He was handsome and
intelligent, but still he was not the right man. Did
I care? Did I even seek the face of God
concerning him? I do hear from God quite
alright, but I was desperate to have a ”Him”
by my side.
When he heard my reply about being single
and available, that day he began his chase after
me. Like a He-goat, he kept coming, and
like a She-goat on heat period, I gave him a
try. The door of my heart opened, and then
we began dating. My emotions and feelings
clouded my spiritual eyes and ear, that all I
see in my dreams was his image and his voice.
On one ocassion, I saw both of us
purchasing wedding gown and other wedding
items. All that made me to believe I was
already in the will of God concerning a life
partner.
So my feelings and love for him increased, I was
now visiting uncontrollably, and was hanging out
with him. Hmm, the devil must
have said, ”the ‘all her life virgin’ has found a
lover, let’s see how she will control herself.”
Was it easy? Could my legs still be crossed? I
was losing my mind, and the urge for sex
would not spare me. Day by day, this urge
increased, it was burning like fire. I wish
water could quench it… No way, it was
beyond a physical fire.
Then that night came, the night of becoming
one flesh. It was his saliva into my saliva, his
body into my body, and his blood into my blood. I
was deflowered, my twenty-six
years of virginity gone in five minutes. Did I
plan to break it that way? Without walking
down the aisle? I was ashamed of myself,
naked before a man who has not visited my
parents, let alone pay my dowry. ”Is this me?” I
asked myself. ”What went wrong?”
Uncontrolled tears quietly escaped from my
eyes.
When he stool up to dress up, a shining object
mistakenly left the pocket of his trouser, and
made its way to the ground. When I glanced at it,
I was shocked to discover the obvious,
it was his wedding ring. ”Are you married?” I
quickly asked. He didn’t say a word, he only
nodded, thereafter, he appologized and left
the room as if nothing happened.
Picking up my dress was something I found
difficult to do, until I heard a voice, ”Come de
go make I arrrange my room,” the voice of
the owner of the room whom he paid just to
exploit me. Hmm, my dignity was buried
alive. Before the stranger, I dressed up, still
thinking he was outside, I came out, but he was
no where to be found. Since I left camp, I
have never set my eyes on him, who even
know if he was a true corper.
All my dreams and revelations were mere
imaginations. I threw away my mother’s
advice and the grace of God that kept me all
through my campus years only to get all that,
now in tears I’m picking them up after the
mistake has been made….
Dear corper and readers, are you also going
to make such mistake? The grace of God and
the godly counsel that has kept you going, will
you treat them like trash, even at this
point of your youth service? Many sisters and
brothers get defiled at camp, they lost their
self control immediately they see someone
who is likely to be their life partner.
Why will it be said that it was during your NYSC
you got defiled? You whose orientation
is begining to change simply because you
enter a new environment, watch yourself
very well. You mustn’t meet your life
partner at the camp or in a new
environment. If you do, pray down the will of God
concerning it, before accepting the
proposal. You mustn’t date to know him/her
better, if you do, your emotions and feelings
towards them are likely to cloud your mind,
and this will make it difficult for you to hear
from God. God still speaks to us, He is ever
interested
and more interested in our marriage than we
are or think. Put Him first, and you will be
glad you did. 3 Likes |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Nobody: 8:01pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Issorai |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by vizkiz: 8:02pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
can't wait to get posted next year... Chai ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Kayoski(m): 8:02pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
ok I thought nysc and sexual immoralities were synonymous until I became a corper and I understood u still had the power to choose the way to go " either Death or Life " 4 Likes |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by adonbilivit: 8:02pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
you did not even narrate how u guys did it. kpa kpa kpa...u don go for HIV test after the show? coz u sound like u guys did not use condom. |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by obiorathesubtle: 8:03pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
![]() Chai! *sharpening my dick for take over* 5 Likes |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by eleko1: 8:05pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
As directed by Andy blaze.End of the year hot selling Naijawood |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
It is well my sister, chai! badt man... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Nobody: 8:08pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
eleko1: he/she's such a wonderful fictitious writer ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by adonbilivit: 8:10pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
vizkiz:u wan go Bleep abi? spare those secondary schools teens if not u would make nairaland front page as a child molester. no talk say I no warn u. 1 Like |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Nobody: 8:14pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
What is the moral lesson now? |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by ATMC(f): 8:15pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
@NYSC camp, you may kiss 18 men...one for each night. Lay 4 more or less (vice versa) and the good thing is that when posting is out, you may never see them till the end of your service year or life, because posting will likely separate you. But the bad news is that when your head don calm down, regret and depression will be your life companion. Selah. 5 Likes |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by eleko1: 8:15pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() pinceprinz: ![]() pinceprinz:i don 'wash'part 1,nah the 2 he just release.Go grab yo own copy,nah 5 naira per copy @Leventis/Apongbon under bridge 1 Like |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by MrLankeeee(m): 8:17pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
is alright. |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Nobody: 8:19pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
eleko1: ![]() |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by GoldenJAT(m): 8:21pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
I read evry sentence with rapt attention.. I tried getting my head around how the girl in question will be feeling..it's such a complex situation. Don't know the one that is most painful. If it's. 1.the place where d sex took place 2.the stranger 3.or how cheap the lady in question sounded. Nevertheless, the harm has been done, will she keep wallowing in self pity? Nope that won't augur well 4 her. That was a lesson learned in a very hard way... 26yrs was just wasted in 5mins(the guy sef cum fast ooo)... Bt I implore how 2 get how self 2geta,seek 4 4givness from God, then she should forgive herself. Make I no yarn 2much Jare, like say she go take my advice. 1 Like |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by vizkiz: 8:22pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
adonbilivit: secondary school girls ![]() |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by shogz89: 8:24pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Sorry o sister.. May we never see this again o ![]() |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Nobody: 9:42pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
So pathetic, na even married man self. |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by gracile(f): 10:07pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
hmmmm
WORD! |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by flokii: 10:09pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
vizkiz: you better take thingz easy.. camp is not a place to have sexx like d general belief... jst pass ur examz and get there sha you'll understand d dangers... |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Cutehector(m): 11:54pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Cc Michellla Bestdeals0 Estharfabian |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Yksoul(m): 12:11am On Dec 18, 2015 |
I PLAYED 6 - 0 DURING MY UNDERGRADUATE(THAT IS NO GIRLFRIEND AT ALL),DURING MY SERVICE,IT REPEATED ITSELF, NO GIRLFRIEND.PEOPLE NOW STARTED CALLING ME 'WOOD', 'PASTOR'! |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by citydove(m): 12:18am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Yksoul:Visit T.B Joshua for spiritual cleansing |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Nobody: 1:03am On Dec 18, 2015 |
I was the guy , I'm sorry ... We placed a bet on how many girls we will all enter.. 1 Like |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Princess4eva(f): 1:29am On Dec 18, 2015 |
While I was still in school, I read this article in a paper about "our" orientation camps becoming a sex camp, so much that randy married men even find their way there to hunt for ladies. It sounded dirty. Some ladies even do the do with army officers in camp. There and then, I made a resolve not to date anyone in camp or throughout NYSC. Of course I did. As expected many people were unto me - fellow corp members, my boss at my PPA, my Zonal Inspector, my bank officer, those randy men but my resolve was strong. You can do it if you put your mind to it. |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by citydove(m): 1:37am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Princess4eva:You broke your first resolve,still dnt bliv you're telling us d whole truth about ur 2nd resolve ![]() ![]() |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by ITbomb(m): 6:41am On Dec 18, 2015 |
For every girl like this, there were at least 3 good and sincere guys begging her for friendship or relationship and she said no only to fall, like others, for the smooth tongue |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by joe4christ(m): 7:24am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Is virginity actually something worth keeping ![]() Well, all is well! |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Sijo01(f): 7:39am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Kayoski: God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: How She Lost Her Virginity To A Stranger At NYSC Camp by Walesadeyemi(m): 8:24am On Dec 18, 2015 |
joe4christ: Thank you oooo my brother, you got married as a virgin and you have horrible character then what's the essence of the stupid virginity. Especially for people like me that hate seeing blood, can't even imagine *yuck* |
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