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Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by Nobody: 8:26pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
louistearer:marry her sha ni or your story is fake, better things way guyman dey look for. |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by mutombo(m): 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
louistearer:Handsome handsome Bobo, age is just a number o... Shakara oloje. Don't lose your God sent wifey |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by diamondboa(m): 8:40pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
louistearer: Bros Abeg allow small shame pass through you now .When you know say na age issue .Why you collect all the goodies from her ? If you no give am ring sharp sharp the Gbege we go punish you still dey do press up |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by ajbiggie(m): 8:44pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
its nt all relationship that must end in marriage, just take u time and see if u love her enough to marry her. check her well and decide for ur self if u can live with her till death. Follow ur her when d time comes. bless u. |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by edoziebobbyyahoocom(m): 8:50pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
louistearer:No No No i see what you want here, guilt wan kill you, so you wan come here make we tell you its alright to leave so your conscience go free you, '' Na lie muhammed you go marry am''. She give you house you say YES, she give you clothes you say YES, she still give you food ontop you say YES, Now she don gve you marriage you go say YES.#YesYouCan |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by awa(m): 9:10pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
My suggestion is don't marry out of sympathy. But based on all that you have said there's nothing wrong marrying her |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by phlemzy: 9:18pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
louistearer:She's rare in her class, and you should be happy u have her mind of a woman You just go ahead and marry her. Be optimistic, a good job might knock at ur door anytime soon. But make sure you work towards getting a source of income as soon as possible so that you can contribute to the home u build with her,before stories that touches set in, sire u know what I mean. |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by micca: 9:19pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
sammieguze:why keepin us buzy wit dis kind of thought i no dis nt true coZ EVN URSELF NO D True n if some 1 did that 2 ur 6ta wil u happi and u stil get mouth 2 talk that if u marry her she wil get mouth over u. Since u dnt meet to ur need dat is y u are complain nt d age try and meet ur daily meel and steal marry her join. Stop be lazy. Go out and and luk 4 work u wil get it evn is smal .in dis country not dat they is no work but d work dat wil meet ur qulification. Go and strt some where and tak care of ur wife. Ur here d story of our broda. Hw he strted and he made it at. |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
y not, age is number. if i love you so much, forget ur age. perhaps, young Nigerians get married to western women that are more older to them. how abt that? you better search ur heart and soul, cos if u fail her. then u better dig ur grave. but tell her never to remind u of all that she has done for u, i mean when you're both engaged. |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sameolg616(m): 9:32pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
doveda:as they say common sens aint common.....so i wld pardon ur ignorance... the best way to help in guy in need aint by been there always for him like a kid....u support him to stand by himself...yrs ago,i got my first job in dana airlines cuz my gf recommended me highly to the management and in return,i put my skills on display brightly so i dont disappoint her....thats what inspires people.... for ow long does she wan give him money.....i know ow tough the country can be but it doesnt mean we lose our dignity....women are emotional thinkers...and i know ow proud they can be esp wen u let them always take the lead... i have a friend whose husband wasnt as rich as the wife...so she proposed that he built on a land she acquired years ago..suprisingly,he said,he would build on it only if she sold the land to him....logically,u'd tink its wrong but i supported the notion too...only him can know his wife better... |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by eckersley: 9:41pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
LordAdam:Objectivity at its finest. I had fumingly said if after the 2nd page I do not see such an objective reply, I would close the thread. What a relief to see this line of thought. If the sexes were reversed, you wud hv heard comments like: Every relationship mustn't lead to marriage. You did it for love Marriage is not by force Did the sex and company she provided you not outweigh the LITTLE you've spent on her [As if the pleasures of sex aren't mutual] I hardly log on nowadays to comment due to the dense fog of prejudice over this forum. Folks don't reason their way to an answer. They FEEL their way to it. Tragic. The death of logic and reasoning 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sameolg616(m): 9:42pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
doveda:another dumb and dumber!doveda?wat kinda name is that....i guess ur one sad 40+ or approaching 40 single.... we have unlocked every secret abt gals nowadays and the accessories come cheap(food,clothes...)....so i can always help my confused brother.. when ur young,u get choosy and start waiting for mr right then wen the biological clock start ticking,u start using money to Bleep a young brothers mind up...and confuse him.. not to worry.....na OLX dem go finally post una with the tag "COME AND TAKE FOR FREE" |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sameolg616(m): 9:45pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
eckersley:oga sigmund freund... i hail o....guess we are on the same team.... ladies,now u have heard it all.... over to u>>> |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by doveda: 9:59pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
sameolg616: You are so stupid! |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sameolg616(m): 10:00pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
mutombo:prophet mutombo,was it thru u that God sent him a wifey?all that glitter aint gold |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by doveda: 10:00pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
sameolg616: You are so stupid! So men do not get emotional after doing everything for their gfs? How many men find jobs for their gfs? How would you know whether she has enough connections to get him a job? What makes you think that she does not love him? You should have rejected that employment offer because she has already taken lead!! You are indebted to her for life! |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sameolg616(m): 10:17pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
doveda:is that all u can say...dont be sad....even the bible has predicted all thats happening now..
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Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sameolg616(m): 10:31pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
doveda:na u go tire o... i guess this guys post reminds u of ur past disappontments and investments in guys...pele...take heart..u shd have been patient to have had atleast a child for one of them..then ur pain wld have lessened and ur attention diverted to ur child.. there is no nothing u ladies present nowadays that dude nowadays cannot eat finish...whether u have hotbody,rich or u wan play superwoman..dem go chop am finish clean mouth... women have really lost their values to western lifestyle so lets all live with the consequences.. the ones that are single..cant find husband...instead they face their careers like linda ikeji and smile to the world during the day and cry in 250million banana island house...is that wer potential husband wld find find her...wen he is not nick cannon...(even nick don run too) and the ones that manage marry...cant even stay in it.... 1 Like |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sucobaba(m): 10:34pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Ayomax:Black magic?I see you o #confession |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sameolg616(m): 10:38pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
doveda:yes im indebted to her....she gave me an opportunity and not wanna own me...im from abeokuta,ogun state wer the all the most successful yorubas have come from...and there,its women who must bow to their man no matter ow big she is.... |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by doveda: 10:52pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
sameolg616: So the woman in question is trying to own the op? You didn't tell me you were a psychic ![]() Don't go there Your women are known as witches. I heard that they kill their husbands early so that they would become landladies! ![]() Your women sabi do juju pass devil sef! Their wickedness no get part two. God forgive me! |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by doveda: 10:54pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
sameolg616: Ode! ![]() |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by tunjidachosen(m): 11:07pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
louistearer:. You are mad for asking us that question. so you want to tell us you didn't know she was doing all that for a reason and I amb very sure you must have slept with her now you want to diss her. Remember what you sow you'll reap. Wicked man |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by CharlyNick: 11:13pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Atmmachine: Oga Abeg Na ![]() |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by Ayomax(m): 11:49pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
sucobaba:chairman mi, watin man go do. na my babe wey dey work dey try support me in her own little way. |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sucobaba(m): 11:53pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Ayomax:After all the "support",una must #connect. O 1 Like |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by Deldima(f): 12:22am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Atmmachine:lwkmd |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by Deldima(f): 12:24am On Dec 18, 2015 |
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Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by sameolg616(m): 12:34am On Dec 18, 2015 |
doveda:i guess u mean edo women.....u are definately ibo....anambra to be precise...i heard ur bride price now includes a keke marwa instead of the defunct motorcycle.....thats like N2.5m in total..no wonder even ur ibo guys dey run and now marrying our yoruba gals...we live like westerners in lagos..not to worry...kindly remember the OLX deal....wen ur over 40,ur parents can post the ad but place u on it for free price.. |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by NobleWolfXXL: 12:42am On Dec 18, 2015 |
My Guy I think its time you are honest with yourself. When you initiated the relationship did you consider marrying her as a possibility? Did you get any hint that she was only going into it for marriage sake? Try and imagine three years into the future when you are now earning your own money and independent, is she still the one you will want to be with. If any of those questions make you feel uncomfortable I will advice you not to let yourself get blackmailed into marriage simply because she provides financial support. If she is looking for marriage and you are not comfortable, stop collecting her gifts and work on supporting yourself. And for her sake end the relationship while she is still eligible enough to attract other suitors. (Modify) (Quote) (Report) (Share) |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by odaniel1(m): 1:01am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Chai, why don't I come across this kind of babes ehn instead of all ds biscuit crackers dt r comin my way God, why? This mumu u give no com know wetin to do with am. Who asks what to do when a cutlery set and a sumptuous meal is set before him? Bros, don't marry the girl o. Adopt her inugo? |
Re: She Has Helped Me A Lot But All She Wants Is Marriage by favouryemmy: 1:04am On Dec 18, 2015 |
louistearer: Bros, it's not by force to marry, but you should have thought of all these things before accepting her gift in the first place. It might also be a good thing that she's supporting you now because such women are rare. Some women if they get a job before you, they will just abandon you because you're not on their level again. About the issue of age, I think you actually don't mind, if not you wouldn't have dated her in the first place. If a woman is truly humble, she would respect you in marriage even if she's older than you. God's grace to you. |
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