ellacute45:
Nigeria mentality sha meeting him in his house i don't see anything wrong in it only if the guy has bad intentions

Many Nigerian girls are immature. If he invites you to his house, there so nothing wrong there. It is either you say no, am not coming or yes, I will. If he starts acting funny, it is either you scream or work out on him but no! most Nigeria girls that go, even the ones here on Nairaland end up opening their legs, so who are the girls that go to guys house, foreigners abi?
I have been to a guys house many times and If I say no to his advances it is a no, yes, I have had some rump with some of them(guys).
NB: NL boys don't believe everything you read online some of us(girls) are pretenders o! Don't be surprised that most of them typing this are presently in his house for the first time.

Cholls:
My sister ok can you come to my hotel.

lol

My friends that I visit don't stay in my community. How many of all the jekojeko girls are of good moral standard for my liking. Its d guys who can't control their sex appetite that makes them think they're worth something. Ordinary safety pin worth more than them to me. [/quote]




U dey para o o oooo o. Oo o o o My friends that I visit don't stay in my community. How many of all the jekojeko girls are of good moral standard for my liking. Its d guys who can't control their sex appetite that makes them think they're worth something. Ordinary safety pin worth more than them to me. [/quote]




U dey para o o oooo o. Oo o o o

yemmy75:
I think all these is sequel to the fact that we get to meet more people here on social media than people did back in those days. We can thus afford to do away with "people wey dey dull us", knowing we will surely meet lots more.
Girls too are guilty of this. Often times u send messages on social media and they either refuse to respond, or respond in a boring manner. If not for social media, some of these same people won't even attract glances out there on the street, not to talk of "toasters". No be their fault sha

naughtynaughty:
I mean you meet a guy newly, maybe exchange numbers because you think he is smart, he calls and the next thing is 'can you come to my house'?? Like seriously? Honestly its becoming so boring and annoying nowadays.

What's it with guys nah? Cant you guys patiently woo a lady without adding the 'come to my house' talk? Its a big turn off for me, whats there to be done in your house that we cant do elsewhere?

Is there some solution to global hunger in your house? Orishirishi. It's so common nawadays that you wonder if guys have lost their minds on dating etiquettes. My new friend has turned this come to my house talk into a daily anthem ooo..no be small thing.

The thing is..80prcnt of the men who invite ladies to come to their house at first meeting have no good intentions at heart..and y'all need a slap to reset your brain on how to properly woo a lady. Lord save guys of dis generation

Am I d only one in dis?

Same goes for girls and their "buy me this" and "gimme money" talk.

Sharoniah:
it aint good to call people names,,,yes i'm a gymnast

Where is your location?

Samsonklin:

That is how it is done in Brazil... No love making, just eating and gisting till when it's late... I drop her off @her place

infact i may go to Brazil,,don't mind these that want free and fair

kilokeys:
I invited a lady to my house...

And served her this..

Broses in the house.. Just be kind and nice.. They'll give u whatever u want in due time

#waistpain

Those are hungry girls. Eating in a guys house for the first time.. Mtcheew!

0ldirtybastard:

Where is your location?

i'm near Aso villa

It depends on the motive, I usually don't invite girls because i don't stay alone but the last time i did i was living alone in another country it was just to smoke and drink and gist about some crazy shit, some have good intentions but regardless if you feel not comfortable not going based on a certain feeling then please don't better to be safe than sorry.

Sharoniah:
i'm near Aso villa

Can I get to know you? Personally?

VivaVivre:
Over here, the reverse is the case. Men come to a lady's house instead. If you don't invite them, they will practically invite themselves.

Most Nigerian girls! For where! Them get house! Can they even pay for anything with their money? My sister!

0ldirtybastard:

Can I get to know you? Personally?

like seriously,how about i go over to your house

Cutehector:
i just the nigerian mentality of dates is so so whack! Its not bad for a guy to ask for a date at his place for christ sake!

abi oo TORI OLORUN..don't be surprised pple like dis na dem go guy awse pass

This is because some girls in their first date try to eat everything in restaurant and at d end walk out

Sharoniah:

like seriously,how about i go over to your house

Lol. I ain't playing. Gymnasts are cool. Why don't you make a first move? Follow me back.

eatwell423:
You are absolutely right. Vast majority of the girls all follow this bandwagon of eatery. Can't we meet at a park and talk? If I take you out I expect we split the bills. Even couples split bill here in US. Most guys don't have the finance to take a lady out and spend that much money trying to impress them. I'm such a lucky idiot not being in such situation where I'll have to start inviting a girl out just to impress her. I'm not inviting her to my house either. We will meet at the park since they lack the wisdom of bill splitting

That's US not Nigeria. She go split bill.... Most Nigeria are self centered.

naughtynaughty:
I mean you meet a guy newly, maybe exchange numbers because you think he is smart, he calls and the next thing is 'can you come to my house'?? Like seriously? Honestly its becoming so boring and annoying nowadays.

What's it with guys nah? Cant you guys patiently woo a lady without adding the 'come to my house' talk? Its a big turn off for me, whats there to be done in your house that we cant do elsewhere?

Is there some solution to global hunger in your house? Orishirishi. It's so common nawadays that you wonder if guys have lost their minds on dating etiquettes. My new friend has turned this come to my house talk into a daily anthem ooo..no be small thing.

The thing is..80prcnt of the men who invite ladies to come to their house at first meeting have no good intentions at heart..and y'all need a slap to reset your brain on how to properly woo a lady. Lord save guys of dis generation

Am I d only one in dis?

If not for the fact that the world is full of evil, I would've said it is a sign of a responsible guy.

but most of the girls can ask of money for subscription, money for cloths, for hair and phones and you expect the dude not to ask to visit you abi? because na mugu he be abi gay? make u chop and run away and you girls will also insult the dude that he is not wise

sisipelebe:
Y are u rejecting it na? Is safety pin not better than a woman? Nonsense!!

You are a wasted being. Idiiot

today is Sunday,i'm enjoying my rice & stew

0ldirtybastard:


Can I get to know you? Personally?

send MTN #1500 rechage card first,then i'll go to your house,and you'll know me personally,,,LOL

Sharoniah:

send MTN #1500 rechage card first,then i'll go to your house,and you'll know me personally,,,LOL

Lol. I'll hit you up on a more discreet plane. You're cute. Have you seen the movie "make it or break it"?

keep the comments coming,I'm having a nice time reading them.No dull moment on nairaland.

Problem Solved.

JudgementHammer:
Lolz. That's for guys who ask for it. Me..ask a girl to visit my house. Over my dead skelenton. When girls are begging to come see me at home and I keep them on good suspense. Them know me for my street. Na from work to house except church. My friends that I visit don't stay in my community. How many of all the jekojeko girls are of good moral standard for my liking. Its d guys who can't control their sex appetite that makes them think they're worth something. Ordinary safety pin worth more than them to me.

I will post this to your wife on the morning of your wedding

Why am I writing this comment




out...

Sharoniah:
today is Sunday,i'm enjoying my rice & stew

Me too...

Sharoniah:

though the most harmful guys,are the innocent-lookin ones

Now u tell me, where tha hell do u hear that from Silly

louismane:

Would u give a guy u dont rily like very much ur numba?..if yes...why?..if no..id like to knw y..

the thing is, most of them don't even give u time to like them b4 asking for ur contact. I personally barely give guys my number and most of them verbally abuse me at the end of the day. Which I'm used to. But sometimes I might just give a guy my number cos I don't want him to bother me asking over and over again. And that I give a guy my number doesn't mean I've already accepted to visit him. Most guys make the mistake of thinking that once a girl gives them her number,, it means she likes them but it's not true. Yet there are people who don't demand for numbers but merely chatting with them I get to like them as friends. I said it b4 that there are still good guys out there but they are few. Some girls like sharing their numbers to any male thing that asks for it while many don't. It is a thing of choice.

abimic:

Self respect, everybody has got that but only few put that to use. Not only runs girls demand, all of them, some for petty things while some other for genuine reasons but the petty ones overshadowed the genuine ones. If girls in need of bis or card don't hesitate asking as it please them, then guys asking girls to visit them in their homes shouldn't be an off thing. I thought girls like sharp&wise guys while the good&gentle are taken for granted.

If a girl needs bis and think she has to visit a guy for it, good for her. The guy should give it to her and get what he wants. Why should she have a that needs subscription if she knows she can't subscribe. It's a big turn off for me but it doesn't mean that people don't like it. Some people can't wait for that invitation. I don't need to visit a guy for us to be friends. I have a good number of social media friends who are good.

Samsonklin:

That is how it is done in Brazil... No love making, just eating and gisting till when it's late... I drop her off @her place

Not every guy thinks lik dat.