misspicy:
well i still will not be caught making a first move or asking a guy out....i might show him i like him but it starts and ends there,i wouldnt voice it out because from things i have seen and heard it most times backfire,eg the girl lose her self worth and makes her feel less and some guys will keep reminding them they made d move on them so they should face whatever....

well forget all we see online and what few guys say,most guys will use it against the girl at some point.

Like what that gold digger guy did to you?he fired your pusssy well and left you hanging..

No No No. I can't try it o.
Men are naturally positioned to do the wooing.

misspicy:

i understand your point but my point still remains i won't start that friendliness....

seriously forget all this opinion you guys are giving online,practically most of this friendliness that leads to a relationship do backfire,i have seen alot,some guys even create threads on NL and express their disgust over it,some guys see them as desperate..to me its better to be on the safer side and act like d lady we are,if all things are normal men will come your way unless there are other factors affecting d lady

Who told you? You'll just end up coming across as a girl with a massive stick shoved up her @$$

Being friendly and still drawing lines will ensure your respect remains if you are not in interested in a relationship. You'll be surprised that most of the guys that will walk up to you are the same ones that can easily to walk away from you as well.

There is nothing wrong with a approaching the guy you like even if its as friends to start. If not you will be there forming and watching as an even better girl walks up to him and takes him away.

Adaure4ever:
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When a broke-ass girl woos you. (Snoop Dogg's voice) Run nigga...run nigga...run.

My kinda guys are usually shy and quiet. If I really like you, I don't mind making the first obvious move at all like bringing up conversations, inviting you somewhere like a show or something.

Even if we don't date, you and I have each made a friend.

If you still show disinterest and don"t get my drift, then off I go. No love lost or found.

quiinnBee:
after all this i still wont make a move on a guy.

would rather give him the green light.

if he cant catch the hint then thats his problem

..... Then be ready to sit n watch as another girl take him away without him even noticing that u care

it is a nice one

Richiy:
My kinda guys are usually shy and quiet. If I really like you, I don't mind making the first obvious move at all like bringing up conversations, inviting you somewhere like a show or something.

Even if we don't date, you and I have each made a friend.

If you still show disinterest and don"t get my drift, then off I go. No love lost or found.

...... Abi at least u don try for d guy nah

Richiy:
My kinda guys are usually shy and quiet. If I really like you, I don't mind making the first obvious move at all like bringing up conversations, inviting you somewhere like a show or something.

Even if we don't date, you and I have each made a friend.

If you still show disinterest and don"t get my drift, then off I go. No love lost or found.

...... Abi at least u don try for d guy nah

Cutehector:
Its not pride buh I dnt ask a girl twice to be my girlfrnd

Are you for real?

pride, fear of rejection etc no go allow our gals o.. only few can try it

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Richiy:
My kinda guys are usually shy and quiet. If I really like you, I don't mind making the first obvious move at all like bringing up conversations, inviting you somewhere like a show or something.

Even if we don't date, you and I have each made a friend.

If you still show disinterest and don"t get my drift, then off I go. No love lost or found.

Very nice comment

nairaland mods what's happening?? About two old topics made front page today Were they not reasonable as at when they were created??

Op is a funny guy - Women usually master these acts before they are 15 but unfortunately most of them are using it all for the wrong reasons.

You can't woo a woman naturally unless some green light no matter how faint has been sent out or established with a coded body language et al.

Any man who wants to teach a woman the act of seduction is a learner.

LaurelP:
Well I've dated like 7 girls all my life and I never walked up to any of them to start the usual "toasting"! Usually we just become friends and from there, things take off!

My advice to ladies is they should tone down their egos and attitude a bit. Men are very simple creatures, we are easy to manipulate if I can use that word. All a lady needs is to be different and be friendly and you see guys dying to have you.
If you keep acting hard to get you attract players who would want to prove that they can and will get you at all cost.


My 2 cents.

true

tosyne2much:
This write-up is awesome and thoroughly researched


OP, abeg send me your bank account details

Lmao!

on point though but that doesnt mean every girl should be all over every guy na

Adaure4ever:
No No No. I can't try it o. Men are naturally positioned to do the wooing.

nobody is asking you to woo him.. simple green light

Richiy:
My kinda guys are usually shy and quiet. If I really like you, I don't mind making the first obvious move at all like bringing up conversations, inviting you somewhere like a show or something.

Even if we don't date, you and I have each made a friend.

If you still show disinterest and don"t get my drift, then off I go. No love lost or found.

Good one..win win

Raalsalghul:
And besides, I think I fall under point number 3. I am so worried about my future and being successful that I tend to push ladies to the hidden chasm of my mind.

you are not alone bro #team money first

If u agree to a guy d first time he woos u, u wud seem weak... Wher in Gods green earth do ladies get dis dia philosophies sef... ladies nd dia fish brain

Richiy:
My kinda guys are usually shy and quiet. If I really like you, I don't mind making the first obvious move at all like bringing up conversations, inviting you somewhere like a show or something.

Even if we don't date, you and I have each made a friend.

If you still show disinterest and don"t get my drift, then off I go. No love lost or found.

Players will have a field day on your puccy then.
Trust me ,making the first move on a player wouldn't pan out well.

quiinnBee:
after all this i still wont make a move on a guy.

would rather give him the green light.

if he cant catch the hint then thats his problem

....and your pain

Omotayor123:
Nice post.
But I think a man should be Man enough to make a move on the woman he loves. If he's too shy to do just that, I don't see how he intends to live forever as her husband.! *my view*

Fact...

But humans are distinct. Men of the above stated nature are likely to be the best. Reasons; i'm 22 now and i've never had a girlfriend in my lifetime. Not that i'm not handsome atlist i've seen so many greenlight and hype of my body position and facial look. But then... How i should get on someone i love is really becoming a pain in the ass.

I have an ardent and that's my real-time career. Definitely, such is what many are hustling to meetup for and yet i can't even ask a girl out, because of shame and fear.

There's this girl working for me. I swear i love her like mad, but can't even express my feeling to her. The worst of it, my heart beats when i see her.

Please... You girls should a bit lower your standard, so i can make up to it.

Thanks.

misspicy:
well i still will not be caught making a first move or asking a guy out....i might show him i like him but it starts and ends there,i wouldnt voice it out because from things i have seen and heard it most times backfire,eg the girl lose her self worth and makes her feel less and some guys will keep reminding them they made d move on them so they should face whatever....

well forget all we see online and what few guys say,most guys will use it against the girl at some point.

I will differ with u on this Missy. I don't think any reasonable guy will bring himself to use that against a girl in a relationship except he is not yet a man, maybe a teen

Cutehector:
Its not pride buh I dnt ask a girl twice to be my girlfrnd

Thought i was alone in this