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Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Atom57(m): 12:39am On Dec 21, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Nobody: 12:43am On Dec 21, 2015 |
2. Takes An Extra Effort To Woo A Lady: Hmm.. Interesting! It depends on the individual! Although I can't take no for an answer [I could die] but can deal with it. The ones who battle with fear of rejections are filled with filth cause things are pure to those who are themselves pure - you don't need to cook up nothing for a babe, no! Just create or infuse the right 'scent' in the air and it will magnetize her, all you'll do is to watch her walk right in! Like I said, if the 'scent' is offensive to her senses, then you just chill! Just the way there're different fragrance of deodorant, Cologne, airfresher etc is the same with every individual. If one doesn't yield, unto the next! |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by LewisO: 12:49am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Harbosede02:That's a big lie. And you know it. ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Nobody: 12:51am On Dec 21, 2015 |
I'll give a partial pass on #3 4. who cares what's in vogue and wht's not? it's what you want that counts! Is not everyone who's keen on making friends; if you ask me, i'm one of em! You are the one who wants something and if you're unable to break me or make me bend my rules, then you don't deserve me. So i'll gladly say it's not a matter of hard to get but weak to stick around! The same applies to the rest. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by smoby(m): 12:58am On Dec 21, 2015 |
I once love this girl,I told her my mind bt instead of getting a yes or no, she said she only love me as a brother, I don sarch net tirelessly for the meanning bt I no see ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by kay29000(m): 12:59am On Dec 21, 2015 |
LaurelP: Whoa!!! You are so onpoint. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Bamz(m): 1:00am On Dec 21, 2015 |
khiaa: Thank goodness. Are you even sure you're a Nigerian? I saw some girls vehemently stating they would never make any bit of move (subtle or not)... this is 2015 and it's shocking people can still be stuck up and so red-necked. Sometime ago, a friend of mine gave me the green light, even though we couldn't take things up a notch, she respected my reason and we laughed afterwards about her whole process of giving me the green light like 10+ months after when she really did open up about it. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by khiaa(f): 1:01am On Dec 21, 2015 |
tommychow: Lmao..Give this man a cookie, I agree 100% ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Bamz(m): 1:01am On Dec 21, 2015 |
smoby: Dude move on! |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Sigo86(m): 1:01am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Estharfabian: Continue forming Old soldier, die-hard. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by ritzyvic1(m): 1:01am On Dec 21, 2015 |
I will be getting married soon and the funny thing is that it's the girls in question that made the 1st move. She simply walked up to me and commended the article I contributed in a magazine. But wooing her actually took me months afterwards. Sharp girls now know how to subtly get what they want without appearing cheap 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Sigo86(m): 1:04am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Horlertoungy: Pretty face nd beautiful body kwa ![]() ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by safo99(m): 1:06am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Omotayor123:Y wud d gurl say No wen she is still gonna say YES later.. Am wit u on this @cutehector.. Met a gurl we bcame frends for a while den I asked her out she said no..I neva asked her out again.. Afta a month she is d one showing d green light.. Always calling, buying me gifts etc.. It was too late cos I started dating someone else.. Till nw we are frends and she is still digging me.. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by politicalpastor: 1:16am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Toks2008: Who ever wrote this is a wonderful thinker and a writer. That is exactly what is happening here in america. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by khiaa(f): 1:17am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Bamz: Lol ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Bamz(m): 1:21am On Dec 21, 2015 |
khiaa: Well if it's true, no surprise afaic. I've had encounters with Guyanese and South African chicks. They're nothing close compared with our chicks here on this issue. It's a Nigerian thing I believe. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by khiaa(f): 1:38am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Bamz: It doesn't mean that you are throwing yourself at a man, you could see something you like in him and say hello to start a conversation and if he is feeling you, you both can exchange contact information and see where it goes from there. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Revolva(m): 1:40am On Dec 21, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Bamz(m): 1:42am On Dec 21, 2015 |
khiaa: ![]() You should hold a webinar or sth for Nigeria based female Nairalanders. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Nobody: 1:51am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Very nice post OP. Esp that No.4 There was this fine girl i saw in my neighborhood whom i tried being friendly with. I went to her and tried to start up a conversation and if you see the way she looked at me in disdain like i was something that crawled out from under a rock! She just blurted a "Please i don't have time for this now" and moved on leaving me dazed and wondering what i said wrong. Fast forward to almost a year later and this same lady is doing everything humanly and psychologically possible to get my attention (she started doing this about 7 Months ago "3 Months after i tried to woo her") and i just pretend as if she does not exist! If i enter the estate shopping mall and she sees me go in, she will remember she has to buy something and come to the same aisle where i am trying to pick stuff. If she see's me reclining in front of my house, she will pass and "re-pass" over 10 times while swinging her hips provocatively just for me to notice her. All those moves and i just act like i am Stevie Wonder. 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Heymus(m): 1:52am On Dec 21, 2015 |
misspicy:you're very right jor. You shouldn't spell it out cos eventually, you'ill lose your self worth, i will rather appreciate a green light nothing more and thats the truth. Ladies, dont say it out to guys "this is Africa" |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by MadCow1: 2:00am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Toks2008: You are a real Gee. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by HDee(m): 2:21am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Hard to get ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by tpiar: 2:26am On Dec 21, 2015 |
NAJALYN: Jesus. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Aystarz: 2:30am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Harbosede02: Those of you girls sounding like Abosede, I'm afraid, you all might never nail your dream man. This, as trivial as it looks, is one of the reason many ladies don't enjoy their marriages. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by saltoftheearth0(f): 2:39am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Ok this is not my story but its true and it happened yesterday. I went to a supermarket yesterday and walked straight to what I wanted. Saw two guys standing there and the cutest asked me how what I wanted to get tasted like.. It was the best pickup line and a very smooth one and then when I turned to respond our eyes met and we held our gaze for a while till I began explaining to him how it tasted. He became more curious and we started a conversation, it was brief though because i had to go and he was also done shopping with his friend. He asked for my name and brought out his hand for a handshake with a captivating locked gaze. As i walked away i thought of collecting his number but the typical naija babe in me had to chill, i told myself if he wanted to see more of me he would ask for my number. I hurriedly gathered the few things i came to buy and rushed to the counter to pay and i saw him at the other counter. I smiled and he smiled back but he never asked for my number. I still locked up. It was when i got to the parking lot i started looking out for him but he was nowhere to be found. Still wishing i bump into him someday and I still doubt I would ask for that number first. Don't blame me its the society we live in. The Kitchener. 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by tpiar: 2:44am On Dec 21, 2015 |
weird! |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by G8Arthur(m): 2:44am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Toks2008: U said it all. I for one can't approach a lady without green light from her. Of course I will always excuse my tots dat she may either be involved with someone so y bother or that their are still ppl as gud as her out there. Smtin like, 'love is on d way' u knw. But it's a different ball game wen d gal approach first. I first respect d fact d person took the courage to either ask me out or so bcus I knw i dnt flaunt my selling points so definitely the lady may not be materially motivated and such is just gud for me. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Nobody: 2:46am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Very well done; in addition let me just state that even though men are easy lay, I mean we will stick our kini into any available wetin call we are however highly visual creatures, you must appeal to our sight before anything else, so don't go looking like some Sikirat and trying to hook up with some Denzel, it might blow back pretty bad, everyone should know their level. Also when making the first move don't toast like man I.e. hey boy I like you, do you want to come to my place etc. this could be a major turn off and some times its just too much pressure; men still enjoy the chase, they just love to be sure of a win that's why he didn't make the first move. Instead, create opportunities e.g an accidental meeting on the stairs, or bumping into each other by mistake wink, or he knows someone you know and you both get invited coincidentally or just a flirtatious glance followed by a coy smile; or if you're more daring, get to know what he likes and happen to like it too and so the discussion is all about is silly obsession. The good thing is that once you've given him the opening, you can softly withdraw and let him take it from there. Some guys require a good kick in the behind before they get the message, but whatever you do don't get desperate, that's just unshexy, there're so many fishes in the sea. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Aystarz: 2:48am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Richiy: ^ Now that's a lady who'll have absolutely no problems settling down with the man of her dreams. You go girl! |
Re: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by tpiar: 2:48am On Dec 21, 2015 |
I don't know about you people but if I "coincidentally" keep meeting somebody too many times , that person na winchy winchy o. so no, your juju no go work. |
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