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Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:15am On Dec 21, 2015 |
I often see people fall inlove with someone they are yet to see, maybe through one social network or the other.some relationships even leads to marriage & some fail. Some date for 2years online even before meeting up with each other. My question is how possible is this? Is it lust or true love? How do people get to cope? I wan try am o . cc Vikiz misspicy Estharfabian(please don't come here to say nonsense o.) Mhizkel. Sinizia naijaboiy. Mathschic prettythicksme Laveda ishiamu. SFUareyouGod. pinkycute. |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by donTbone(m): 10:17am On Dec 21, 2015 |
As far as am concerned, the feelings is not really TRUE LOVE. There are some basic things that actually back up online dating... From sincerity to identity...and so on like that. But falling in love with someone you've not met; i'd say we don't really fall in love with the person per-say but with the identity and character portrayed! I actually wrote some article relating to this... http://datingyouths..com.ng/2015/11/can-true-love-be-found-online.html and http://datingyouths..com.ng/2015/11/5-ways-to-know-if-someone-you-met.html Am sure, those link will make it undersatandable what is expected of us when it comes to online dating and the likes. |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:18am On Dec 21, 2015 |
donTbone:bros waten b dis? |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by midehi2(f): 10:19am On Dec 21, 2015 |
love |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:20am On Dec 21, 2015 |
That one na social media love. buh on a serious note, its possible. buh very few last. |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by donTbone(m): 10:20am On Dec 21, 2015 |
danbrowndmf:Wetin e resemble |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by decatalyst(m): 10:22am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Lemme goan do press up first... |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by talktonase(m): 10:22am On Dec 21, 2015 |
I can imagine a person in a wheel chair in another part of the world scamming me in the name of love...hmm some times nah people wey like that pepsi long throat dey end up for such dilemma |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by ivyT(f): 10:23am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Yes its very possible..u get attracted to persöns personality even without physical attraction. |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by fromnigeria(m): 10:23am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Its Love and Lust |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:25am On Dec 21, 2015 |
It very possible op provided the hookup is arranged fast. Just that the irony is somewhat disheartning. Imagine meeting a caring guy online just to discover he is not even near caring ofline. Prefer them offline toasters. 1 Like |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by vizkiz: 10:25am On Dec 21, 2015 |
depending on what made him fall in love with him/her. But it's mostly just infatuation. You will get over it very soon |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by misspicy(f): 10:26am On Dec 21, 2015 |
talktonase:pray tell me what is wrong with someone in a wheel chair,are they less human 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:27am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Dan...shey U know Thunder wee faya You??! nyways...To answer Your question...It depends... If What drew You to her Was her Picture (Boob n Ass)..Then, It's Pure lust! If it's her personality, Intellects, Humor And all...I'd call it Admiration/infatuation.. Buh definitely Not "LOVE"... Love is Unconditional, Rare n it grows with Time(U have to see, feel, Know eachother) Love is actually When U know the person You're having feelings for is probably in a "Wheelchair" n You still feel the same way... |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by 20bc(m): 10:27am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Emmm, it is love, lust, hope, faith and stupidity |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by ronald4lif(m): 10:30am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Hallucination it is. Mostly stemmed from extreme loneliness, poor social life and their inability to attract an opposite sex in the real world so they settle for an online affair in a bid to feel wanted and appreciated. But deep down they know it's a ruse. |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by grad2012(f): 10:30am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Its love cos u are inlove with the persons personality and its possible that when you fall inlove with the persons personality u will hardly mind d persons physical appearance. |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:32am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy: Lol |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:32am On Dec 21, 2015 |
sickstars:half baby whatsap na |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:33am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy: I dey u? |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 21, 2015 |
It is love op cos i met my boo on and we r cool till date!!#sweet love |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:38am On Dec 21, 2015 |
midehi2:love? Been there b4? Asin been into such relationship b4? |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by citydove(m): 10:38am On Dec 21, 2015 |
I am all for meeting up sooner than layer. You never know if you truly conect with someone without meeting them. Thats why i think face to face interaction is important because some things cant take the place of voice inflection, body language and touch |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:38am On Dec 21, 2015 |
EroticAngelina:yeah Very few i guess. Hows ur fashion blog? |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:39am On Dec 21, 2015 |
talktonase:LMAOOO! This guy na clown. |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by Nobody: 10:40am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy: Nothing ma u? |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by SexyCeline(f): 10:41am On Dec 21, 2015 |
It almost happened to me though. Met this dude on Fb, he was always showering me with airtime even though i hardly ever ask him. At some point i started developing feelings for him buh too bad i found out he was married and had to let. |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:41am On Dec 21, 2015 |
ivyT:wow! Been into such relationship be4? |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:42am On Dec 21, 2015 |
fromnigeria:how? Explain? |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:44am On Dec 21, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy:You prefer offline toasters? The offline people are still the same people online na...why u dy do like say online people na robot.? 1 Like |
Re: Falling In Love With Someone You'v Not Seen.love Or Lust? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:45am On Dec 21, 2015 |
vizkiz:i'm not sure if it infatuation sha...but lets see how it goes |
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