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Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Sweetlemon(f): 10:19pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
jimihendrix: Only 31? WTH is wrong with Nigerians? You that is married has marriage solved all your life problems 4 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by robosky02(m): 10:20pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: kachi make this truck no jam you hmmmmmmmmmm lol |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by zeongeon: 10:20pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
GreatAgb:Yes marriage is not a cure for loneliness as you can be married and still feel lonely its happening. And being lonely in marriage doesn't mean you married the wrong person some factors could contribute to it for example your wife hasn't giving birth 5 years after marriage that is enough to cause loneliness, you loss your job and are going through financial crisis. Marriage is not a means of escape. Bible said its not good for man to be alone BUT didn't say its bad for man to be alone. even the Bible says one mustn't get married : 1 Corinthians 7:8 Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 1 Like |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by AreaFada2: 10:21pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
a2space: OP, I get your drift. I was discussing this "right time" issue with a friend recently. Reason was an acquaintance who died this year. He was too busy with other things in life. Trying to uplift certain family members among others. He was finally engaged but died suddenly. A total shock to everyone. He was in his 40s. Had he married at age 30, he might have had kids ranging from 16 to 10 years old. Old enough to remember him. We pray for God's blessings, protection and long life. 2 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Nobody: 10:22pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Hmmmmmm |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Sleekyshuga(f): 10:25pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:Hahahahaha.. That is ehen .. That wedding go be Nairaland wedding, though my interest is on the lady.. She better be a 'beauty and brain,' if not...... Anyone expecting card from Truck in the next 3 years is sleeping on a bike .. Truckpusher:Character .. I go do you bad thing |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by delerx(m): 10:26pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Some people can't get married because they r hiv+, sickle cell patients etc |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by tuyeegal: 10:26pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
not how soon but how well,with the right person |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Kizyte(m): 10:27pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
HateU2:Lol! Thanks |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Nobody: 10:27pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Nobody: 10:29pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Spanner4:search no more |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by misspicy(f): 10:29pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
danbrowndmf:I can't see nothing,maybe my other account |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by moriarity(m): 10:30pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:. Take it easy on him God's time is the best |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
deeptesting:
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Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by menxer: 10:32pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
The reason most people of marriage-able age not married is this concept of "waiting for God's time" or "God's time is the best" forgetting that God lives in eternity. The best option is for one to create the right time and take action with the person of your choice. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Truckpusher(m): 10:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
AreaFada2:On the highlighted I beg to differ . It would be counterproductive to have kids that will remember you under agony and pains in this wicked world and country of ours where widows are treated with disdain. It was better he died without leaving kids behind - I guess you've got no idea what it means to grow up without a father in a developing economy like Nigeria where there is nothing left for them if the woman isn't working and no Govt presence to reach out to people that find themselves in that situation. One should rather die childless than leave behind kids that will pass through hell to survive. 10 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by shegxi(m): 10:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
The best decision any man can make in his lifetime is to ensure dat he does nt allow society determine his lifestyle/choices. Every problem arises as a result of deviation from dis simple sentence. 6 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by FILEBE(m): 10:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
I was expecting to see something like reasons why we should avoid marrying late. I wanted to make a point of how someone will be able to train a 20yr old "nowadays" children when he is 60yrs old since he married at 40. Back to the matter. O.P i'll advise you make more female friends. One of them will surely dig your package if not all. Just take it easy, you needn't be depressed. This same marriage wey you dey die for na im so people dey wan commot from inside. find a good partner my brother. ONE LOVE. 5 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Nobody: 10:34pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Kizyte:Uw love |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Sunymoore(m): 10:35pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
HateU2:I'm not a pastor.. Okay bring it on, Ishewu will be greatly appreciated |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by heffem(m): 10:35pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Helkayklassic:Or better still......"King of boys" |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Nobody: 10:37pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Sunymoore:Ok 1A.M Is dat okay? |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by vislabraye(m): 10:38pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
a2space: There must be a reason you are not married. Is it financial or you've not found the right person ? It depends on your personal goals. One major advantage of early marriage is having kids at young age and watch the grow. Well, take your time and look for a lady to marry who is worth it. And don't pressure yourself. People will always talk. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by blakky97(m): 10:40pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
elantraceey:the truth remains that there's an age where singlehood becomes an embarrassment. I mean picture a 40year old man still rolling with chicks when his mates have 15 years old daughters. it argues for irresponsibility on his part. 2 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by afolayangs(m): 10:41pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Spanner4:there's one lady call hammer. You fancy to be hooked up? |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Nobody: 10:42pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Once i finish my 1k to 1m project Next tyn is to get married asap Cuz i no wan pass tru wetyn op dey pass tru |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by patiencezee(f): 10:42pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
[quote author=deeptesting post=41219943]Marriage does not cure loneliness, if that is the only reason for getting married then take a chill Pepsi big bottle and relax because many are married and still lonely.. Secondly, what people say or think about you at 37 should not be your business, neither should it force you to get married... Bro i simply want you marry because you understand the purpose of the contract called marriage.. "Solitude is a gift". Words of wisdom! |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by amosade30(m): 10:42pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
MathsChic:I have a feeling u r ma missing rib,u hv same feeling? |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by blakky97(m): 10:43pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
deeptesting:bro, what are the factors that make mr A get married at 25 and mr B at 50? please dont say money because not all married people are rich. and some people get rich while married. 1 Like |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Honesty007(m): 10:43pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
a2space: Don't be Discouraged ''its better marrying in the lords time than out of desperation and getting destroyed by Satan's trap. What i mean is that satan has set a trap for the youth in Marriage to derail them from getting to the heaven. Once anybody mismarries, he is damned forever because an ungodly seal is cemented 2 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by deeptesting(m): 10:44pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
[quote author=Freemanan post=41255136][/quote] Thanks you don`t know how touching it was for me looking at that pics...We all need love and don`t let go those who share your in your pains..Thanks! Thanks!! Thanks!!! |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Sunymoore(m): 10:46pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
HateU2:1am? Choi! Well, if you'll take it with me then, if not, ah no dey wo |
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