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Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by micca: 8:28pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Estharfabian:4 christ sake wht she mean by osu mean dis type of igbo av alread been curse by the generation father of igbo so they are not allow 2 marry each order. Not d family that matter but d four father of igbo curse dat matter. My advice is tell ur father that u ar already carry his baby an either u abort d baby or not u hav already defile d law. That's, is evn 4bid 4 u 2 sleep wit each order. An two ask d guy wit a cool mine . Dat either what they tld is true. Lyk whn u are both in gud manner an if he accept dat is true z 4rm that place . Both of u wil Prepare 2 brake d curse . Whether God hav design u ppl 2 brake dat convenant u dnt knw. So u an ur husband wil take step of faith an go an see Tv joshua he wil deliver u both 4rm that curse. An d angel of d commission of that tv joshua wil begin 2 speak 4 u. U wil face true christain. If what u ar facin is generational power. Ar u tellin me they are nt ppl that 4rm that place that marry each order nd their luk 5n is depend hw they deal wih dat issue . Stnd up an fight if u die god wil find ur blood in ur hand. Coz u allow man made gods to defeat u. Thax follow dis an u wil see d result may God be wit u Amen |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by porshuch: 8:29pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude:sorry bro, my cousin bro married one, she's a medical doctor. I'm Igbo too, and my home town don't believe in such, since the coming of the missionaries, you hardly hear about OSU caste in Anambra, it is mostly practiced in Enugu state. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by rhames(m): 8:30pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude: |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Basildvalour(m): 8:31pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Spirit1:Love is far stronger than that mere word |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by greatefa1011(m): 8:32pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone: ...That is if their REASONS are congent and it came earlier. If you suggest an end to this relationship do you aswell suggest temination of the pregnancy ? This issue should be committed into GODs hands. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone:Who is the idio.t that placed pastor/spiritual leader over parents? I know...a stupid moronic pastor who owns the stu.pid article/blog. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by jidxin(m): 8:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
schumastic:just saying tho...in d elitist society or d western culture all dos Blessings re bull shit but i think marriages can be blissful without parental Blessings...just saying |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
This is not even an issue |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by rhames(m): 8:40pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
This damn dumb fetish practice should be outlawed completely. A very close neighbour of mine, a pharmacist dated his doctor girl friend for seven years and their parents objected to their marriage when they discovered the woman is an OSU. For God's sake why should this sledgehammer be the reason for their non marriage? This is the twenty first century men. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by mzvyne(f): 8:41pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse:Yes... Yes I did. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 8:45pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: neither do I do spiritual inclination like you said... all the same, them no they tell blind man say rain they fall.. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Spirit1(m): 8:46pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude: No actually I don't. I have very good and close friends who are Osu. I love them just like any other, I respect them, I eat and dine with them. We just understand that this has nothing to do with marriage. I actually don't like the caste system in Igbo land, but I respect my culture and understand the seriousness. Is it right?..NO. My problem is with those who wave away this serious Igbo culture and belief system. The same people who advise people to engage in Osu marriage. An interesting example was Chief Micheal Okpara the then Eastern Nigeria premier who passed a law against the Osu caste system, but when his kinsmen asked him to give his daughter's hand in marriage to an Osu man, he refused. My other problem is that Osu families know themselves and know that this problem exists, but they are constantly playing this game. They will never voluntarily tell a free born until it's too late. By the way, osu's are the best educated in Igbo land and are usually very good looking. They first embraced Christianity and benefited from early education from the missionaries while the rest of the free born stuck to their shrines. They know to marry themselves, but no they prefer to cause problems in families as in this case. Why pregnant this girl, when you don't have approval of her family yet and when you are not married. Isn't that bad enough? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by JuanDeDios: 8:51pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Basildvalour:This isn't about me. Ask her - although I answered your question in my post. But I think you don't get it at all. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by funkyibodude(m): 8:51pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Spirit1:good point 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by nnamdiosu(m): 9:07pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone: with all due respect.....is that the rubbish you teach people on ur blog? closet friends must give their consent before I marry? well I will like to be ur closest friend .......wen I tell u no 5 times, na only you go cone back to Nl and remove closest friends from this ur post. no offence meant..... 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Abykayi(f): 9:12pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Note this: Before getting married to anyone, those that must give you their consent are; 1. you pastor or spiritual leader 2. parents 3. siblings If any of the above shouldnt concur, see to their reason and have a rethink! |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Hustlerlomo(m): 9:13pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Make she kill herself na. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 9:32pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
She rather die than not marrying the guy,she has concluded already |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Abykayi(f): 9:35pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
When it comes to issue of marriage,i think parents concept has a lot of role to play.Reason: what an elderly person sees while lying or sitting down,a child can never see even if he climbs the tallest mountain. I advice your friend listen to her parents. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 9:38pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
kevinscore: and who told you she has concluded? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by oglalasioux(m): 9:48pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
OSU in 21st century! Pathetic. Black Africa is still far from being full human beings. We are more of animals in the dark ages. I advise the girl to go on with the marriage. Bleep archaic backward tradition. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by OlaSpeaker(m): 10:12pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone:wen God created marriage he never created "consent" he (God) alone created EVE marriage is a union between two not three my advice is that she should go on with her marriage who is osu to determine what she do with her life.......#AfricaBelieveSha 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by lyricalz: 10:16pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Please wats OSU? Who is an outcast |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by timmyblast(m): 10:18pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Rhesusmonkey:what u saying, why not say this is 21st century n then to hell with the devil |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 10:25pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: How old are you? U sound like a child born in the nineties. You children know absolutely nothing |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Arebay(m): 10:25pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude: Directed by kunle afolayan shey ? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Becalm(m): 10:27pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
The issue at hand is a sensitive one. OSU caste system is gradually disappearing in Igbo land but few communities still practice it. I come from such a place and your fiance too cos his family was easily identified on investigation, the stigma is enormous in communities where they are practiced. This is the hard truth, you will sacrifice family at expense of love cos your children i.e your family grand children have become OSU unless your family does not give a damn about what the community thinks and feels. You will face certain discrimination at your husband family place and get used them and in any case of divorce, you will face the same issue re-marrying since you have been contaminated by the first marriage. The stigma goes on and deep.... unless you live outside the shores of Nigeria or live in Nigeria but goes home once in a blue moon. My advice: if you are very sure you are walking into a marriage that will last till death do you part, let your parents understand why you have to make this decision and live the rest of your life happily with the love of your life. Secondly, take a decision you would have taken if you were not pregnant....don't let the pregnancy influence your decision. 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Akhere1: 10:30pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
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Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 10:34pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
The bible said something in Galatians 3:13,"For Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the Law".It also said a woman must leave her family and join to her husband and they shall be one flesh. Religiously speaking she can get married. Tribal discrimination must end... |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 10:42pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
addictiv: You sound like an OSU |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 10:43pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Akhere1: Pls fu*ck off with your fake idiotic church 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by adefizzy(m): 10:54pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone: Those who choose your spouse for you has the power to control your home n tell you how to treat your spouse and that has contributed to great number of broken marriages. You can get advice from the aforementioned pple bt dey shouldn't take your decision for you. Your marriage is your business! What good decision will you ever boost of in life if u can't determine the right spouse for yourself with the help of God. Even pastors, parents, siblings n friend do make bad decisions abt things that concern their personal lives not to talk of someone else. As for me, I don't need anybody's consent, ONLY God matters. 1 Like |
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