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Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Laeroy(f): 1:31am On Dec 23, 2015 |
deeptesting:BRILLIANT!!!!! Now give 5 Reasons why the OP needs to get married |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Fireson: 1:44am On Dec 23, 2015 |
OP! You need to pray for God's direction. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by 400billionman: 2:12am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Nigerians stigmatise single people. My experience might have been worse than yours. But thank God that every challenge has an expiry date.. They call you names, advice single lady friends to stay away from you, that you are a player, womanizer and have sworn never to marry. If a lady in the neighborhood gets pregnant outside wedlock, the busybodies will point fingers at you, yet you have never at any time dated the lady. So much gossips. To the point that i issued a warning to these gossipers that i will soon catch one of them to use as an example. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by 400billionman: 2:41am On Dec 23, 2015 |
deeptesting: Bros, was she working class when you married her ? |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by 400billionman: 2:53am On Dec 23, 2015 |
pappy2000: Toast ladies vigoriusly. Among many, you will find one. They will call you womanizer but let your purpose be paramount. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by VickyRotex(f): 2:55am On Dec 23, 2015 |
danbrowndmf: You're welcome! |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by VickyRotex(f): 2:58am On Dec 23, 2015 |
robosky02: Lol |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by 400billionman: 3:03am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Amhappy: One of them is dancing around this thread acting happy. All pretence. Attitude matters alot in this marriage stuff. Never let a supposed partner smell desperation. Its a pity for the ladies that a guy will prefer a 23 year old to a 30 year old lady. So i will advice ladies to marry when their demand is very high. B4 25. Truth is, it feels good to be married. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by diva90: 3:11am On Dec 23, 2015 |
400billionman: Feels good to be married if you marry the right person. Marrying before 25 is not advisable in this modern day. I would advice marriage at age 25 and above. I got married at 25 and I wish I had married at 27. It's not all about marrying very young ... It's maturity and ability to handle what comes within marriage that matters. Imagine marrying a 21 year old girl that can't keep a home properly |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by bennywise30(m): 3:15am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Not only you my brother ,I'm 31 year old guy and sometimes that feelings do occur to me especially when a friend is getting married. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by diva90: 3:17am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Zico5: True! I know someone who is 45 and he's still single. I can only imagine when he's 50 and he's eldest child is 4 years old ... That's if he even marries before 50 |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by henryhemon(m): 3:31am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga: Would love to meet you,am serious. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by ronald4lif(m): 3:31am On Dec 23, 2015 |
How did miss this thread when it was fully active |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by henryhemon(m): 3:34am On Dec 23, 2015 |
dumie: Change that mindset please,drama free people still get married every Saturday but you don't look like you did be drama free? |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by henryhemon(m): 3:39am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Truth is it's good to marry as early as possible and it's also good to marry the right person but anyday you wake up n say am doing this is your right time. How do you find the right person? That's entirely between you and God but get this no one is perfect,so it boils down to what you can take and what you can't take. You have to make sacrifices but never let down go of your standards cuz of someone by standards I mean moral standards....Am not going to marry a Muslim or someone who doesn't believe in God and fear God,if you find a woman that truely year God your problem is solved and that's the right person. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by henryhemon(m): 3:40am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Truth is it's good to marry as early as possible and it's also good to marry the right person but anyday you wake up n say am doing this is your right time. How do you find the right person? That's entirely between you and God but get this no one is perfect,so it boils down to what you can take and what you can't take. You have to make sacrifices but never let go of your standards cuz of someone by standards I mean moral standards....Am not going to marry a Muslim or someone who doesn't believe in God and fear God,if you find a woman that truely fear God your problem is solved and that's the right person. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by madjune(m): 3:47am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Young working class folks Sabi rush guys and girls into quick marriage with that Funny line "Bros what are you waiting for? " And, they always ask this when they come back from marriage owambe every wknd. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by movers(m): 4:35am On Dec 23, 2015 |
a2space: |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Nobody: 4:44am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Vision4God: There's no such thing as the right person, u must take a leap of faith , this talk of waiting for the right person is a ploy to delay ones wedding, people who say they re waiting for the right person aren't ready for marriage. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Fridelly(m): 5:04am On Dec 23, 2015 |
cremedelacreme:The earlier the better, cos there is no wrong person that can never be made right in marriage provided there is enough time to spend together. Have you ever thought of it that even the so called *right person* could become another thing else? Marriage is for two mature minds(not about age) that are ready to tolerate each other. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by manie(m): 5:15am On Dec 23, 2015 |
AreaFada2:Too bad, the guy died in his mid 40s without getting married nor having a child. I think the guy had issues impregnating ladies, or his family members who living on his largese did not want him to get married because once he is married and have more responsilities he may not be able to dole out money to his extended family. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Fridelly(m): 5:20am On Dec 23, 2015 |
henryhemon: There is nothing like the * right person* in marriage. You can never get what you can't give. So, if you keep saying you haven't found the right person as a reason for any form of delay then, you need to work on yourself too. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Kirinwa: 5:22am On Dec 23, 2015 |
jmoore: Good one dude. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by linearity: 5:22am On Dec 23, 2015 |
zaragal:How is getting married at 37 a rush? Life happens, no one should be scared of marriage because of divorce...there is nothing like Mr. or Mrs. right, it takes two to make any marriage work and it is not a goal or destination; it is work, constant daily work and efforts. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by blakky97(m): 5:29am On Dec 23, 2015 |
elantraceey:like I said; that is just one of the many scenarios life can offer. in the end, we all need faith In God. what if he's destined to impregnate his wife after 10years? his first child will be born when hes 53? |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by manie(m): 5:34am On Dec 23, 2015 |
SexyStrawberry:I also did shakara, till I finally settled down at age 38. Currently enjoying my marriage, but i really had fun and enjoyed myself when i was single. |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by prettyjo(f): 5:40am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Tuham:27 |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by robosky02(m): 5:50am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: so you are big enough now abi see my kachi of yesterday hmmmmmmmmm na wao |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by olalat(m): 5:51am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Can u just point out a culture where marriage is nt embraced. Marriage is sacred pls. Its divine, its commandment from God or gods wc ever u blv in. Even animals keep relationship how much more we human beings. I see many people being defensive here instead of mk e4t to correct their mistakes. The Op wasnt blaming anybody, he was narrating his experience. I shared d same veiw wt u until i get hooked up. I regret it didnt happened earlier. FisifunKododada: |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Otokpa22(m): 5:56am On Dec 23, 2015 |
#Sarching |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Otokpa22(m): 5:57am On Dec 23, 2015 |
#Searching |
Re: The Travails Of Marrying Late by olalat(m): 6:00am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Are you married? If ur answer is no. I regret to say u are disoriented. I wish to have ur profile. Coming from a broken home is one of d worst to happen to anybody in life. deeptesting: |
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