Truckpusher:
Kids that won't give a rat ass about his welfare as soon as they hit 18?

What makes you people feel that the societal norms and values of a society doesn't to an extent determine how far people are willing to sacrifice their happiness for others consciously and unconsciously?

How would you know?

Perhaps if he had been a better father, they would. There are men who got married to foreign women yet were able to move them to Nigeria and the kids have a strong sense of belonging for their father's country. He just couldn't be bothered.

daretodiffer:


How would you know?

Perhaps if he had been a better father, they would. There are men who got married to foreign women yet were able to move them to Nigeria and the kids have a strong sense of belonging for their father's country. He just couldn't be bothered.

You're making it sound so easy.

We all know how foreign women hate to come stay here while you try to make a living.

stop accusing this man wrongly. he simply featured in a Yoruba movie. this is a trado scene. amebo full every where. madam your husband of 10 years is now a movie star. be happy for him for once. i am testing how to sound like the ruling party psychos.

ya fioba.

misspicy:
kwakwakwkakwakwa.....not what you thinking

check

replied...check

Truckpusher:
You're making it sound so easy.

We all know how foreign women hate to come stay here while you try to make a living.

I make it sound easy because it is possible. It depends on the mindset of the man. He couldn't be bothered to confirm whether or not she would interested. Did he tell her his aspirations etc upfront? Nope! Now he wants to eat his cake and have it.

It is not a legal marriage but I hope the English court would be able to see it a such since traditional marriage is recognised in Nigeria.

One thing I think will be the man is tired of living in UK, and knowing that his white wife will not follow him to leave in Nigeria with their kids, he did other wise.

Orthe wife called his people black monkeys to his hearing.You never can tell

Btruth:
One thing I think will be the man is tired of living in UK, and knowing that his white wife will not follow him to leave in Nigeria with their kids, he did other wise.

Adaure4ever:
What the man did was wrong! Very unfaithful

The man is heartless and very wicked.

Nice profile picture by the way.

And how's that my problem?

BTW, why is always the fat and insecure women Nigerians love to take advantage of?

A capable African man should not be restricted to a woman as long as he can comfortably afford it. It is not something to hide and something that should be made clear to the women that cares to be involved.

Humans are polygamous in nature,including women. It should be a matter of choice,not compulsion.

Sharp guy!!!! I like yah way bro.

daretodiffer:


I make it sound easy because it is possible. It depends on the mindset of the man. He couldn't be bothered to confirm whether or not she would interested. Did he tell her his aspirations etc upfront? Nope! Now he wants to eat his cake and have it.

It is not a legal marriage but I hope the English court would be able to see it a such since traditional marriage is recognized in Nigeria.

Well, sometimes one would be already aware of your partner's disposition over a certain issue and would only amount to time wasting and kicking up dust - You just do ya thing and pray you don't get caught.

if na woman do this thing now, all these children on nairaland will attack her generation

uboma:


The man is heartless and very wicked.

Nice profile picture by the way.

oh tanx

Abeg help me tell that lady that we are africans that a man can marry as many wives as possible that no law in africa stopes you from marrying just one, who among you concur

The guy must have his reasons for marrying another wife.

Truckpusher:
Well, sometimes one would be already aware of your partner's disposition over a certain issue and would only amount to time wasting and kicking up dust - You just do ya thing and pray you don't get caught.

Then he should have moved on or considered a Nigerian woman instead!!

Ehya...Dude is not loyal

AyamConfidence:
This oyibo women will never learn that my Naija brothers will never marry them cos of love...na Green Card things them supose know say no place like home...by the way that man seems to be related to MrCork . But seriously these guys should stop giuing this country a bad name

You are so wrong! I have green card and I'm married to a oyibo. For love! And I be naija man..

Tracy, let your children and your job be your husband as david has used you and dump you. The new wife will certainly go diabolical, even david too, so let your love for him die before they make you their ATM CARD. Sorry nigerian men, tracy, 99.9 nigerian men are very deceitful. Don,t let him into your house again if you don,t want him to kill you or your children. There is nothing like it is not legal marriage, in nigeria, all form of marriage is legal marriage. Tracy, run for your life and that of your children. David is evil.

daretodiffer:


Then he should have moved on or considered a Nigerian woman instead!!

I specifically said that he probably was in it simply because it was his only means to end.


And trust women to emasculate you when they are aware, that they are just a means to your survival - Who wouldn't bail out at the slightest glimmer of hope on the other side of the horizon - Children or no children.

He got free sex for years and got himself a paper - It's time to get his dignity back.

THIS MAN IS A BIG DISGRACE, BOTH FOR NIGERIANS AND YORUBAS...AND I PITY THE NEW BRIDE IF SHE AWARE THAT DAVID HAS BEEN MARRIED WITH KIDS FOR THIS AMOUNT OF YEARS AND WENT AHEAD WITH HIM...BEFORE YOU START CELEBRATING MR DAVID,PUT YOUR OWN SISTER IN TRACYS SHOES?

uboma:



The man is heartless and very wicked.


Nice profile picture by the way.

I bet you've not heard the man's side of the story - But in your own little corner ,you've labelled him and called him unprintable names....smh

it's my life, he can do what he wants, what do u want me to do? what a cold hearted man. he knew what he was doing all along. now he got papers!! he probably never stopped talking to his ex in Nigeria all this time. maybe they even planned the thing together, at least she knew he's already married with 4 kids.

Truckpusher:
I specifically said that he probably was in it simply because it was his only means to end.


And trust women to emasculate you when they are aware, that they are just a means to your survival - Who wouldn't bail out at the slightest glimmer of hope on the other side of the horizon - Children or no children.

He got free sex for years and got himself a paper - It's time to get his dignity back.

It will amaze you the way his future is going to turn out. He is not the first neither is he going to be last.

Like I mentioned, it depends on the guy. Intelligent men have done it. They do it all the time.

TolaniLuv:


You are so wrong! I have green card and I'm married to a oyibo. For love! And I be naija man..

i might be wrong but u need to know that not all Naija men are like you but if you dint marry her for the green card then u are a classic man...i hope u are enjoying your marriage

daretodiffer:


It will amaze you the way his future is going to turn out. He is not the first neither is he going to be last

Well, you got a point but hey! you've got to plan for the future and not wait for the future to give you her own plans There might be some alterations compared to your original plans.

The man should divorce the white lady, move your brand new Nigerian wife to UK and live happily ever after.

The man used the white lady for papers, the white lady used the man to get some good loving every night for years. They both exploited each other for mutual benefits. Learn lessons and move on , no news here.

Truckpusher:
Well, you got a point but hey! you've got to plan for the future and not wait for the future to give you her own plans There might be some alterations compared to your original plans.

Yes, however I don't think this man even tried a bit.

A man who could do what he did can kill

Blizzy9ja:
Of course he needs to secure his space in Nigeria... That woman and her kids can't come back home with him

what kind of fvcked up reasoning, "that woman and her kids" aren't they his kids too? i bet you are one of those that are quick to name them Nigerians when kids likes theses do well in foreign land. With fools like you I would be scared to come live in Nigeria too, slow reasoning is probably contagious.

Not to worry Child support will teach him a lesson, even better he has four of them.

He's a stupid man! Now he has lost everything. On top a woman that doesn't know how he struggled. I trust UK government, he is in deep shi*t. I hope he saved and plans on staying in Nigeria permanently . Otherwise...