Can A Man Live In His Wife Parent House After Marriege! In One Of Their Flats?

A young man is having problem with his parent over the issue of him moving into his wife's parent house. They had live in his own parent house for a while before renting their own apartment but now the seems to be having problems financially and my kinded advice is that they move into the flat offered by the wife's parent till they are able to sort themselves out!

Guys what do you think.

Why not, let him move into the house, as long the parents are not living with them. Besides, let him move in while at the same time trying frantically to get an alternative accommodation because anything can happen at any time.

Of course he can move in. As long as it's not a room in the flat of his wife's parent. if it's a whole flat, sure!!

Afterall, they are his inlaws and they are helping him

Of course he can move in. As long as it's not a room in the flat of his wife's parent. if it's a whole flat, sure!!

Afterall, they are his inlaws and they are helping him

What a pity!!! Thoughts of an Infantile girl!!

he is a "MAN"

thats a tough and risky thing to do!!

i dont advice that it may bring up problems no matter what
the man should try and rent a house of his own because definitely
he will not feel comfortable in dat houz no matter wat
that my own advice for a Nigerian man no try am oooo

He can go ahead and live with his in-laws if they are:
1) White
2) Educated abroad
3) Phd Holders
4) Liberals

If not, then there will definitely be problems. You cannot have two arrogant African gorrillas in the same territory!

Seun:

He can go ahead and live with his in-laws if they are:
1) White
2) Educated abroad
3) Phd Holders
4) Liberals

If not, then there will definitely be problems. You cannot have two arrogant African gorrillas in the same territory!

Lol, you'll be surprised that whites (and people educated abroad) are even the most intolerant about living with extended family members.

To be realistic the issue is getting more confusing! The lady in question is my sister. They live at the moment in her parents in-law house in the same flat and there has being one problems or the other. To the point that the husband's mum seized the marriage certificate and and the children's birth certificates, saying in case the lady wants to divorce her son. But, the couple are doing well together not even thinking about seperation.
The were living fine on their own before he had a problem that drove them to that house.
My suggestion is! There is an open flat in our own house. My dad is late, and I live abroad though my mum and my brother her in another flat in the same compund, but, I don't think there is a problem becuase my brother is most time in school (Uni) outside LAgos and my mum is sometimes outside the countries to take care of her grand children too.
I told them to move in and use the money we all can raise for them to start something of their own on their own aquired land.

@poster!! i really don't see anything wrong in it if the parents are the understanding type, why not. but the couple shoud try as much as possible to vacate the apartment for them to have their own privacy. best of luck to them both.

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They are newlyweds and are already running to in-lawas for accomodation?
Oga rekpete .

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If push comes to shove he should do it, i believe is temporary or would he rather stay under oshodi bridge? Its neater now tho

whatever the situation is, a man living in his in law's house is not A MAN for as long as he lives under their shelter (even if they charge rents). Though not as bad as it may seem, but He(they) is sitting on a time bomb.

Some people and their ego problems. So it is better for him to be a MAN while his family to be homeless?

The move is only temporary and the couple would use the time and peace of mind to better plan their future.

But you should all remember is not is also is wish what i think is that since he has no option he should still be their for now but as soon as possible he should work as if he wont work again to get his ass out of their with his wife because! because! because!

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Can A Man Live In His Wife Parent House After Marriege! In One Of Their Flats?

A young man is having problem with his parent over the issue of him moving into his wife's parent house. They had live in his own parent house for a while before renting their own apartment but now the seems to be having problems financially and my kinded advice is that they move into the flat offered by the wife's parent till they are able to sort themselves out!

Guys what do you think.

If he's paying the rent for the flat, he can move in. But if they're inviting him to stay there for free, I won't advice him to accept such offer.

One has to be very wise when dealing with in-laws so as to maintain the respect they have for you.