Toks2008:


This is why i don't do casuals and funny enough will never use a condom because

1.It does not guaranty real pleasure

2.It does not really prevent HIV

So i would rather stick to one hot partner and hope that she does not bring me one.

Use it to prevent unwanted pregnancy..at least

dasparrow:
@Post

Abstinence is the only way one will not catch STDs. That is why the bible said that it is better to be single because those who marry will face many troubles. Do you know that:

"More than half of all people will have an STD/STI at some point in their lifetime" according to Koutsky L. (1997). Epidemiology of genital human papillomavirus infection. American Journal of Medicine, 102(5A), 3-8.

"Over 14 million people acquire human papillomavirus (HPV) each year, and by age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have acquired genital HPV infection. Most people with HPV do not develop symptoms" according to Myers ER, McCrory DC, Nanda K, Bastian L, Matchar DB. Mathematical model for the natural history of human papillomavirus infection and cervical carcinogenesis. Am J Epidemiol. 2000;151:1158-1170.

Culled from: http://www.ashasexualhealth.org/stdsstis/statistics/



Too many people are carrying one or more STD/STIs in their bodies but exhibit no symptoms and don't even know it. That makes having sex in this day and age a very risky venture. I love being healthy and sex to me is over rated. Its one of those things that I can certainly do without, without much problems. The rising rate of infertility in Nigeria might also be as a result of STD/STI which many Nigerians have due to their risky sex life. Worse yet, many refuse to get tested for fear of what they might find out.

I agree but we can't abstain forever becauyse one day we will surely marry and then the risk comes up...Staying faithful to one sexual partner remains the best way to curb the spread but unfortunately,100% sexual faithfulness from both partners is very doubtful but possible.

monex:

Oga the risk is that the lady might not be as "principled" as you. so it might be wise to still do with protection until you are married.

And what is the assurance that your wife will be principled?

Abeg lets just try our best to be as decent as possible and leave the rest to GOD.

in my life time I've only had unprotected sex once and that was a long time ago.......


I use condoms even if you are my girl friend.......
I'll only have raw skin to skin sex when I get married

@ Toks2008 you said you have never used condom for intercourse

please can you highlight how you have been able to avoid pregnancy or do you have children already?if so how many kids have you birthed?

from a confused me





catlova weldone o

missyadorable the faithful, meek,submissive traditional woman what is your opinion

Toks2008:
I know this topic will shock many people who believe in the propaganda that the use of condom is a formidable prevention against HIV but unfortunately,using a condom does not prevent you from contracting HIV but only reduces the chance of contracting it.

Now read this and i doubt if you will ever read this anywhere else because the condom industry is a huge one and facts like this may not be widely disseminated but here i give it to you to ponder over.


-Human immunodeficient Virus(HIV) is very virulent and can pass through through unnoticeable and painless skin abrasion on the penile shaft as well as the vaginal region.

-The viral load is present in cervico-vaginal fluid and of-course in the blood.

-We will agree that in most cases if not all,the condom no matter how carefully worn still exposes some part of the penile shaft and this is where the problem lies because in most cases,the vaginal secretions come in contact with this exposed region of the shaft.

-This means an automatic entry of the virus from the vaginal fluid into the man especially when there are some abrasions on the penile skin which of-course is so delicate and easily bruised.

-If the man also has the virus and he happens to have any form of abrasion on the penile shaft then the woman can easily contract the virus once the Unclad part of his shaft touches the walls of the vaginal.

This is just a simple illustration to show that condoms are no guarantee prevention against HIV.

Staying faithful to one sexual partner who is HIV negative and will not be silly enough to indulge in careless sexual act with an infected individual remains the best way to prevent HIV.

The bottom line is that no one is really safe and we all stand the risk of contracting it as the Virus has a transient period between when it is contracted and when it can be detected in the blood so you may meet someone who is tested negative today and later may test positive.

GOD HELP US.

Really God help us all. There are many ways of contacting HIV even without sex. Most of us sometimes in our life had haircut with a public clipper or a barbers clipper. Forget the burning of clipper done by the barbers, That's is jst shows or one mumu sterilizer stuff. All nah wash.


God help us all

Veeveechibs:
Tell them o!!! Because information reaching us is the rate of Sexually transmitted disease( STD) is alarming plus most girls in the higher institution are at a higher risk of transmitting it to men.

why wont they wen the average campus chick has 15 boyfriends with four sugar daddies

Staying faithful to one sexual partner who is HIV negative and will not be silly enough to indulge in careless sexual act with an infected individual remains the best way to prevent HIV.

Do you people even think before creating threads at all?

How in the world do you identify a person who wouldn't "be silly enough to indulge in careless sexx with an unprotected partner"?

Outside marriage, there is no way to be sure your partner isn't promiscuous, no matter how innocent he/she looks. Even inside marriage, you can't be 100% sure that good and loyal wife isn't hooking up with some High school first love sef, not to talk of outside marriage.


Most of these men are gullible, and that's why they always find themselves in trouble!
Kontinu endangering your life before marriage because of 'trust'

I noticed you always create every of your thread with a biased outlook.
How dare you encourage people to risk their lives on such fickle thing as trust!

misspicy2:
@ Toks2008 you said you have never used condom for intercourse

please can you highlight how you have been able to avoid pregnancy or do you have children already?if so how many kids have you birthed?

from a confused me catlova weldone o

Up to 2011 I never have never use a condom before. I was having sex up to 3 times a week Tho same girlfriend. But no abortion no pregnancy. Remove wen d cannon is coming.

But nt anymore

Toks2008:

lol! i for put the real thing?

ok the banana na fake thing? Kkkkk

Toks2008:

lol! i for put the real thing?

ok the banana na fake thing? Kkkkk

Nicepoker:
u don't ave problem be that. U only contact HIV when u use condom.

abeg shut up there! hooligan!

nwadiuko1:
in my life time I've only had unprotected sex once and that was a long time ago.......


I use condoms even if you are my girl friend.......
I'll only have raw skin to skin sex when I get married

This is one sensible human being here!

alatbaba1:



Up to 2011 I never have never use a condom before. I was having sex up to 3 times a week Tho same girlfriend. But no abortion no pregnancy. Remove wen d cannon is coming.

But nt anymore

are you sure you are not sterile?/ have low sperm count, go for fertility test on time,because i know someone like that,who eventually found out he is sterile

Nonsense.
For the fact that a lot of people believed this supertitious thinkers says a lot about our education.

Quick one,
A marriage bettween a hiv positive woman and hiv negative men,how are they surviving? Remenber they are advised to use condo.

Also,the virus can penetrate the body through the opening @ d tip of the penis.

The virus does not survive outside the host not even @ the topmost opening of the vigina.

Pls back up wat u av with proof,this is an intellectual arguement.

Chimdiebere:
This is one sensible human being here!

thanks man! Compliments of the season

Thank God am single dating my negative status bae. Pls I advice we all to be faithful.

Op! I don't know the research you have done that makes you reach this conclusion. As far as am concerned condom is out rightly safer than engaging in unprotected seX. The risk of hiv contraction is negligible low when you use condom because there most be adequate fluid for the virus to be transmitted. It is even difficult for a male to contract HIV virus from unprotected sex.it's like 1 in 3000. But let alone using condom. U can say with condom other STDs like gonorrhoea etc can be transmitted in worst scenario and not HIV. Please Op stop misleading because u will never be there for them when it happens

end time virus

somebody should pls help me translate this important news for vickyrotex,funjosh,eleko1 and rokiatu for proper understanding

Thank God am single dating my negative status bae. Pls I advice we all to be faithful.

This guy always chats shittt..

misspicy2:
@ Toks2008 you said you have never used condom for intercourse

please can you highlight how you have been able to avoid pregnancy or do you have children already?if so how many kids have you birthed?

from a confused me





catlova weldone o

Send me a PM and i will tell you how i did it...Atuni si ita bi ono ojo mejo.

misspicy2:

are you sure you are not sterile?/ have low sperm count, go for fertility test on time,because i know someone like that,who eventually found out he is sterile

100% I'm nt. It's jst being careful. That's all

we should learn to find out truths from experienced people and not by theories u were told in one quack Nigerian University. i went for HIV test this year at the Gen Hospital and the advice i got was that i stick to my condoms.

i have had sex with over 400 girls/ladies but with my condoms throughout my lifetime, yea the results always come out negative .

i can be reckless when it comes to sex but i still stick to my Condoms. condoms are never a guarantee because on several occasions they tear off or burst during intercourse

have u ever seen/watch a Nigerian girl lie before, most especially when u ask them about sex. ok consider this before u decide to entrust your life into their hands by going raw during sex

condoms are still better but abstinence is the best

Toks2008:


And what is the assurance that your wife will be principled?

Abeg lets just try our best to be as decent as possible and leave the rest to GOD.

My points. You will be taking a risk on your wife too. Well normally you are bounded by oath and you are already taking even worse risks with her than sleeping without a condom unlike the scenario with a girlfriend.

I am interested in the moral card peeps play about sticking to one partner. I say if we want to play the moral/religous card then we shouldnt even be sleeping with anyone till we get married.

All dis one na heavy story I de use my condomm de enjoy....my bangin witmany bitches all girls na ashewo never trust demm even ur girlfriend sef someone de nak her raw in this our naija wey money na d ultimate....as for me I will keep using condom abi una want stop me from bangin.......story for d godz

misspicy:

Yes....and u would be shocked that many still dont use condom at all,some men be feeling like,kingkong....

How did you know this?

Toks2008:


I think you should go to google to corroborate your assertion dude.

I have a Bachelor's degree in Microbiology and for you to say the embolden is even a reason for me not to reply you.

Oga at the top, sir, where did you go to school?

Peruse these links for your own enlightenment:

http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Q177398.html

http://www.catie.ca/en/pif/fall-2011/exposure-infection-biology-hiv-transmission

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Protected-sex-with-fresh-cut-on-testicles/show/1405059

Toks2008:




In-fact i don't use condom to make love as i prefer to remain faithful to one woman and hopes she no go out go carry am come.

"Wise man"

Toks2008:


This is why i say condom use is only a way of reducing but not eliminating the risk.

And even if you marry an HIV negative partner,what is the probability that he/she wont go out to be reckless?

This is why even as individuals,we can only reduce the chance of contracting it by staying faithful to one sexual partner and hope he/she does not bring the virus home.

i agreed with u naa. Dont be defensive and too serious naa, i wasnt attacking ur comment, i honestly meant my comment on a light mood and in a humourous way ... Was only expressing my occassional thoughts and fear of how easily one culd also still get this evil virus even wen faithful to a partner, cos it only takes one careless day of falling into temptation by the other party to bring it home. I was like thank God u said 'hope ooo' cos na hope all of us (the faithful ones) the hope o say our partner will also remain faithful.