favoredgal:


It is o! Infact it was easier for me when I started working than when I was a stay at home mom with one child (not to talk of 2)

It's also the most underpaid and under appreciated job in history

Correct,

Laeroy:

TANX dear, but she had a warm bath few hours ago and she's calmer now.....hope...that wont affect the vaccine?

No it won't affect him cos the nurse said if I want to bath him I should be very careful with the laps, so I just avoided it. How is she doing today?

Keji3:


I buy from big stores here in lag o

I'm not in lag.
And it seems they do not use it much in the states but already made arrangement of it being sent down here.
Thanks

favoredgal:


At 11 months no need for infant car seat, just buy the convertible (forward facing). Graco and Chico are good brands but expensive, just buy anyone that looks ok to you, as long as the child is belted in he will be fine

Thanks ma, please how expensive are they cos the prices I dey see for jumia are beyond my budget o!

joyousf:


Thanks ma, please how expensive are they cos the prices I dey see for jumia are beyond my budget o!

Bought mine abroad but Jumia and konga are usually good indication of the cost

Curious...visitin your bar,wen yu are not around(what cud be the cause?

ayobarmy:
I can't really say exactly the reason for the dryness maybe she's been visiting my bar when am out ot the house. ... But please the two formula u mentioned, which one is the best. .?

Eminya:

No it won't affect him cos the nurse said if I want to bath him I should be very careful with the laps, so I just avoided it. How is she doing today?

She's doing very well...pains gone, vomitting stopped, swollen legs back to normal...TANX FOR UR CONCERN MA......MERRY CHRITSMAS

ahnie:
Curious...visitin your bar,wen yu are not around(what cud be the cause?

I LOVE IT WHEN LADY'S GET CURIOUS, BUT SHE DOES THAT BEHIND ME BECAUSE I DON'T LIKE HER TAKING LIQUOR ESPECIALLY NOW THAT SHE'S A NURSING MUM, AND SHE KNEW I WILL NOT ALLOW HER NEAR THAT CONNER WHEN AM AROUND. ...

favoredgal:


It is o! Infact it was easier for me when I started working than when I was a stay at home mom with one child (not to talk of 2)

It's also the most underpaid and under appreciated job in history

Ur complain is noted ma'am. ..

Are you puttin her under duress?if we may know...why?because something must hav occured btw you boths.pardon my asking.still curious#

ayobarmy:
I LOVE IT WHEN LADY'S GET CURIOUS, BUT SHE DOES THAT BEHIND ME BECAUSE I DON'T LIKE HER TAKING LIQUOR ESPECIALLY NOW THAT SHE'S A NURSING MUM, AND SHE KNEW I WILL NOT ALLOW HER NEAR THAT CONNER WHEN AM AROUND. ...

ayobarmy:

Ur complain is noted ma'am. ..

Na real 'complain'

ahnie:
Are you puttin her under duress?if we may know...why?because something must hav occured btw you boths.pardon my asking.still curious#

Duress ke? Oti oooooo it's just a gentle man agreement between us but breaks it anytime am away.. ... I guess she just love it hot... Like the Isoko mamas Lol.. ..

ahnie:
@ma'am stadora,pls if you are residin in aba,i can direct you to a school(montessori) that pays well,aldoe manageable..they will also accomodate n feed you.royalties int'l christain schools,around ekenwa avenue,G.R.A,aba.they wil giv you automatic employment,as non academic staff or teacher,even if you've not taught before,they wil train and brush your teachin skills n make you a success.just ask of pst/deaconez charity amosu.i once taught in dia branch that z in asaba.Nne i wish yu luck,if you need dia contacts,i'll send it to you.they also hav anoda sister school in owerri n onitsha.

Ahnie dearie, you are a strong woman and I really admire your courage . As Lovinam said, my respect for you has tripled. keep up the good work.
God bless you!

Ahnie !!! Behave yasef!! Lmao!

ahnie:
Are you puttin her under duress?if we may know...why?because something must hav occured btw you boths.pardon my asking.still curious#

lovinam:
Ahnie !!! Behave yasef!! Lmao!

You really need to call her to order o. Madam Curious

(sighs),wish we have a milk bank where I can donate cos my breast runs lyk a tap.I've tripled breast pads,worn small towels,visited my gynae even starved but no success.I don't know wot to do.
@Ayobarmy hope she isn't in pain ,stress or worryof any sort cos that was my case initially until I healed.

Aye!aye!! Ma'am

lovinam:
Ahnie !!! Behave yasef!! Lmao!

curiosity mode deactivated...beatin a retreat.haapi xmas

ahnie:
@ma'am stadora,pls if you are residin in aba,i can direct you to a school(montessori) that pays well,aldoe manageable..they will also accomodate n feed you.royalties int'l christain schools,around ekenwa avenue,G.R.A,aba.they wil giv you automatic employment,as non academic staff or teacher,even if you've not taught before,they wil train and brush your teachin skills n make you a success.just ask of pst/deaconez charity amosu.i once taught in dia branch that z in asaba.Nne i wish yu luck,if you need dia contacts,i'll send it to you.they also hav anoda sister school in owerri n onitsha.

biko where are they located in Onitsha?

Abiagirl777:
(sighs),wish we have a milk bank where I can donate cos my breast runs lyk a tap.I've tripled breast pads,worn small towels,visited my gynae even starved but no success.I don't know wot to do.
@Ayobarmy hope she isn't in pain ,stress or worryof any sort cos that was my case initially until I healed.

Do you know that would be so nice, especially to IDPs and hospitals where they are more likely to have newborns requiring milk. I know a lady that her milk dried up 2 weeks after birth and she was determined to give her son bm exclusive for at least 3 months. She not only got donated bm but she would ask her friend who had plenty milk to come over and nurse her son twice a week. My brother's gf tactfully suggested the same thing (her friend had oversupply and she wanted to donate to me) but my mum was already acting like a typical Naija woman (craze and all) so I didn't take the offer and supplemented with formula and cried my eyes out.

Onegai:


Do you know that would be so nice, especially to IDPs and hospitals where they are more likely to have newborns requiring milk. I know a lady that her milk dried up 2 weeks after birth and she was determined to give her son bm exclusive for at least 3 months. She not only got donated bm but she would ask her friend who had plenty milk to come over and nurse her son twice a week. My brother's gf tactfully suggested the same thing (her friend had oversupply and she wanted to donate to me) but my mum was already acting like a typical Naija woman (craze and all) so I didn't take the offer and supplemented with formula and cried my eyes out.

my milk refills so quickly itbecomes knotty and starts running by itself.my 3+ son is on Ebf already 9kg and heavy to carry and now i keep a special towel on the bed to soak it while I sleep, I dread weaning so much dunno how the pain will be.

My dear,i dunno the owerri own/onitsha name.i'l try n get back tu you.i left the school,before the onitsha own was xtablished

ayobarmy:
biko where are they located in Onitsha?

but if you can google royalties xtain int'l schools,i believe you 'll see the onitsha branch name there.asaba's own z divine touch xtain int'l school,amaechi asugwuni street,back of total fillin station,along asaba ibusa xpress road.koka

@ma'am stadora,pls put your PRIDE aside,go there...you wil b helped.google royalties xtains int'l schools,you are gonna see their fone contacts there.pst abraham amosu /ma'am charity amosu.its a nice school,with sound structure,wel grounded n xtablished.

xMrPx:
Pls, I need urgent help'. My two years old boy throws off whenever he eat' it has been like this for months, we took him to clinic, doctor said nothing is absolutely wrong with him, that he is the one forcing himself out" I am tired of beating him after every meal trying to stop him from throwing off' myself and my wife have tried different type of food, still same story'. Experience Gentlemen and Ladies! I will appreciate any possible solution' it's driving me crazy, my boy gets thinner by the day' PLS HELP

Give him food in bits hourly or every 2 hours.
Like 5 teaspoons of rice instead of a whole plate.
One slice of bread.
3 rolls of eba or any swallow food with okro or plain stew ( veggies tend to cling to their throat)
If its little he wont feel the pressure of being too full to the extent that he will force himself to vomit. He wont use the toilet as he used to.
Gradually increase the intake like every 2 weeks.

Fish/ Meat as he requests.
1 egg daily.
A glass of milk daily.
Carrots, apples, banana and other sweet and crunchy fruits. Even if its just a slice.

Does he like any food in particular?
Give him and prepare it in the most healthy way you can. With lots of protein and veggies.
Kids usually love dodo ( fried plantain)
If he has a sweet tooth then you may want to invest on healthy treats. Certain biscuits have a whole wheat or oatmeal base and loaded with vitamins and minerals. He can munch on them allday everyday.


Is your Dr a Paedatrician? If yes, you may want to seek a 2nd opinion. If No, then please see one.

Goodluck.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Merry christmas mamas, i wish you and yours the best of the season.

xMrPx:
Pls, I need urgent help'. My two years old boy throws off whenever he eat' it has been like this for months, we took him to clinic, doctor said nothing is absolutely wrong with him, that he is the one forcing himself out" I am tired of beating him after every meal trying to stop him from throwing off' myself and my wife have tried different type of food, still same story'. Experience Gentlemen and Ladies! I will appreciate any possible solution' it's driving me crazy, my boy gets thinner by the day' PLS HELP

Had this been from birth?

My daughter used to too, she was diagnosed with reflux but she outgrew it around her one year birthday.

Pls see a good and qualified pediatrician, if you can afford it and you live in Lagos I recommend Reddington or premier hospital cuz those are the pediatricians I used

Else any good govt hospital should do

Merry christmas

And pls in God's name stop beating him, this may be a medical problem and you are handling it by beating him?

favoredgal:


Had this been from birth?

My daughter used to too, she was diagnosed with reflux but she outgrew it around her one year birthday.

Pls see a good and qualified pediatrician, if you can afford it and you live in Lagos I recommend Reddington or premier hospital cuz those are the pediatricians I used

Else any good govt hospital should do

Merry christmas

And pls in God's name stop beating him, this may be a medical problem and you are handling it by beating him?

thanks a million' most so called medical experts we've seen keep telling us he will outgrow it; that it's just his character' over a year/six months now. It's really given me great concern.. most time, after feeding him, he starts coughing just to stop the food from digestion, when u spank him repeatedly, he cries and forgets it after a while' that's where d beating comes to play. Do have a prosperous 2016.

zaynie:



Give him food in bits hourly or every 2 hours.
Like 5 teaspoons of rice instead of a whole plate.
One slice of bread.
3 rolls of eba or any swallow food with okro or plain stew ( veggies tend to cling to their throat)
If its little he wont feel the pressure of being too full to the extent that he will force himself to vomit. He wont use the toilet as he used to.
Gradually increase the intake like every 2 weeks.

Fish/ Meat as he requests.
1 egg daily.
A glass of milk daily.
Carrots, apples, banana and other sweet and crunchy fruits. Even if its just a slice.

Does he like any food in particular?
Give him and prepare it in the most healthy way you can. With lots of protein and veggies.
Kids usually love dodo ( fried plantain)
If he has a sweet tooth then you may want to invest on healthy treats. Certain biscuits have a whole wheat or oatmeal base and loaded with vitamins and minerals. He can munch on them allday everyday.


Is your Dr a Paedatrician? If yes, you may want to seek a 2nd opinion. If No, then please see one.

Goodluck.

Thanks, really appreciate. Funny enough, he still don't take regular/adult food, except baby food' cerelac, golden morn. We use to force adult food on him, but were advice to leave him till he so wish to start taking it. So confuse' 1st experience, not funny @all

xMrPx:
Thanks, really appreciate. Funny enough, he still don't take regular/adult food, except baby food' cerelac, golden morn. We use to force adult food on him, but were advice to leave him till he so wish to start taking it. So confuse' 1st experience, not funny @all

You may need to change 'experts' . There are plenty things that he needs food for o, not only to grow fat @ this stage. He needs it for mental and physical growth.
Go to Lifeline Children's hospital if you can afford it or Maternal and Child Centre Gbaja. They cater to only kids.
@ MCC Gbaja, insist that you want a scan to be done to check out his digestive tract abeg. Just to be on the safe side.

Also google on the likely causes.
You may also want to talk to him, why does he do it? Is sth irritating him? Would he like to give new dishes a try? If he doesnt open up to you, gt his fav adult to talk to him. They are usually talkative at this stage.

Dont stop till you find a solution.
Something is making him vomit beating him will only make him more scared of feeding time.

Goodluck.

zaynie:



You may need to change 'experts' . There are plenty things that he needs food for o, not only to grow fat @ this stage. He needs it for mental and physical growth.
Go to Lifeline Children's hospital if you can afford it or Maternal and Child Centre Gbaja. They cater to only kids.
@ MCC Gbaja, insist that you want a scan to be done to check out his digestive tract abeg. Just to be on the safe side.

Also google on the likely causes.
You may also want to talk to him, why does he do it? Is sth irritating him? Would he like to give new dishes a try? If he doesnt open up to you, gt his fav adult to talk to him. They are usually talkative at this stage.

Dont stop till you find a solution.
Something is making him vomit beating him will only make him more scared of feeding time.

Goodluck.

Thanks a million, God bless you

xMrPx:
thanks a million' most so called medical experts we've seen keep telling us he will outgrow it; that it's just his character' over a year/six months now. It's really given me great concern.. most time, after feeding him, he starts coughing just to stop the food from digestion, when u spank him repeatedly, he cries and forgets it after a while' that's where d beating comes to play. Do have a prosperous 2016.

Same to you, pls stop the beating