joliyp:
never knew I will someday be a victim of this nonsense!!! as smart and intelligent I think I am, my elder sister should be getting married next year,the problem now is this man claims to be in love with me not my sister anymore

I can't betrayed my sister for anything in this world am thinking of staying away from the family house since I got my own apartment but my fear is my sister bringing the guy to my auz !!! apart from not telling my sister what do u think I should do? cos they seems so happy but when am alone with him he cries like a baby telling me he wished he had met me before now
and I feel pity for him


before now

SINNZ:


Instead of keeping away from your house and watching ur sis end up marrying a demon why not inform your parents so they can call a fam meeting and inform your sis.

Maiconyoung:
Nice one. Anyway i thnk u shud tel ur sis nw dat d marriage is nt done, becos i dnt thnk dat man loves ur sis at all, he does nt even respct ur sis 4 teln u dat, and u can as wel tel ur mum or any reliable person to tel ur sis. Dat man is potential cheat, prevention is beta dan cure, so dat had i known wil nt b ur lot wen dat man misuse ur sis 2moro. Talk to ur sis in a polite manner dat she can understand, Except u dnt love ur sis or she dnt trust u. Anyway hapi xmas. FTC bt 2day get as e b 4 me.

naijaboiy:
The only way you can help the situation is to tell your sister. Running away from them will not stop the man from loving you.

It seems you are not ready to solve the situation.

joliyp:
won't be easy dear!!! my sis is so happy very happy don't want to spoil the whole thing

MeloGist:
Who Have you told about this incident?

drnairalov:
u ve feelings for him too?

agarawu23:
[size=20pt]don't tell your sister[/size]

The fact is, you know how to keep him off
You are just trying to play games. Assuming u gave him a dirty slap the first day he asked you out, the story won't continue.

DouchessPunkyII:
You feel pity for a louse over your own sister? Why not pity your sister who is about to make the biggest mistake of her life by marrying someone that doesn't even love her? You have the key to your sister's happiness in your hands right now, but you're busy feeling phly & pitying someone that deserves nothing but a spit on his face. It just shows where your loyalty lies here. If I was her & found out you held this info from me, I'd cut you off like a diabetic limb.

jopretty:
Pls my dear, confide in a close family member who will inturn tell your family(that's if you can't face your family with this news)if your sis doesn't know now, she might get to know after marriage and in her grave when the man would hv come to marry you after her death;God forbid sha. Such things happen you know.

SINNZ:
Oh really?? Wow! Okay then let's wait 5 years from now and see how happy she'll be married to a cheat .

joliyp:
slap? and he goes ahead to give a false story

joliyp:
I want to am just confused

Tell someone.

joliyp:
no one apart from nairaland

MeloGist:


Okay, My own advice is that you should try and explain to the guy that he should just forget about you since he has already met your sis make him see reasons and[b] if he does not i think the only solution to this problem is by telling your parent..[/b]

joliyp:
oh!!!!! I just want peace to resign i hate this whole mess

joliyp:
he knows already am always scared to be alone with cos he cries and beg me!!!!! will tell daddy

naijaboiy:

Tell someone.

joliyp:
I love my sister okay will let our dad know....am more closer to daddy

DouchessPunkyII:


Peace will only reign when this guy is out of your lives. Reason with your brain here & not whatever you're currently thinking with. Listen, this has the potential to rip your family apart & cause your sister major heartbreak if you let it continue just to play justice of peace. Can you imagine how many times she must be making a fool of herself by telling this clown that she loves him, when the joke is actually on her. Have you no pity for that? Honestly, I'd never forgive you if I was her. Don't care what your reasons are for not ratting on him, but she deserves to know the truth. End of story. Unless of course you wanna share him with her. I just don't get why you wouldnt wanna tell your sister something like that.

I'm starting to feel that this story is BS OK will let her know!!!! just don't want her to commit suicide






anyway.