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Re: Upside Down Marriage by cunlay007(m): 12:09am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Hmmmm I sincerely feel ur pain brother,if I may suggest Fast for 3days and tell God 2 forgive her and urslf and lead u right for your next action which is run as fast as u can broooo |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 26, 2015 |
na was ooo.as my aunty will always tell me *my baby I pray that a bad hubby will Neva be ur portion buh if d bad hubby insists on coming to marry u let d car he will come with spoil on the road to ur house* @op ur wife really needs deliverance cos d devil is def using her to frustrate u. as for we singles I implore everyone of us to do underground questioning of his or her spouse to be to avoid did type of ish even if is ur long time bf/gf still ask cos human beings are deceitful esp wen it comes to marriage. becos though we are in 21st century yet dia are things that are old fashioned that we still need now esp in marriage. @op seek God more now and forget friend this pastor that cos u are the person wearing d shoe and knows where it pinches. #blessings 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by emzila(m): 12:10am On Dec 26, 2015 |
EVEN THE BIBLE UPON WHICH THE CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE STANDS IS NOT AS STRICT AS YOU ARE. THE BIBLE ALLOW FOR DIVORCE IN D EVENT OF ADULTERY WHICH YOUR WOMAN IS ALREADY INTO. SECONDLY, IN ALL YOUR WRITE UP, THERE WAS NO TIME YOU MENTIONED THAT THE LADY WAS REMORSEFUL OF HER ACT, IT HAD ALWAYS BEEN THE PASTOR AND PARENTS BEGGING ON HER BEHALF. HOWEVER, I WILL NOT BE THE ONE TO TELL YOU TO LEAVE YOUR LOVELY WIFE BUT I WILL ADVICE YOUR SEARCH THROUGH THE BIBLE AND READ EVERYTHING THAT HAS TO DO WITH MARRIAGE THEREAFTER, YOU CAN ADVICE YOURSELF ON THE NEXT STEP. SUCCESS 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by KAYD007(m): 12:10am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Chrisbenogor: Which other side of the story do you want hear from a married runs woman eh....e be like say na this kind of woman you dey like self 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by RedCapChief(m): 12:10am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Honestly, I think the op's wife has an undiagnosed mental health condition and it looks like one of the subsets of schizophrenia. All her crazy attitude may require professional help to solve. Not every mentally ill person is eating dust on the street, some of them have jobs and homes and families. It is possible that past drug use has damaged her sanity You already have a daughter with her, so you can't just pack up and leave. If it is clear to her family members that something is wrong with her, then you should consider get a psychiatric evaluation. If she is still violent to you, then you shouldn't be in that environment for your own sanity and safety. 3 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by poshestmina(f): 12:10am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Check if she is not into drugs ..Run from Karashika brother..Your life has no duplicate and be VERY prayerful, this kind will kill you without looking back.My prayers are with you |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Nobody: 12:12am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Tallesty1:don't mind the brother, u better run for ur life, u have just enter one chance. |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Nobody: 12:14am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oboy.hmmm.i bin wan marry in 3yrs o but e be like na to shift am go 5yrs 6 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by ajuwarhodes(f): 12:16am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Mine hasn't turned to beating yet.but the manner at which he uses bad languages at my person is so heart breaking, op leave her Na!Abi u wan die young ni? |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by macaranta(m): 12:16am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Read everything...OP leaving self won't be the solution ,that thing you call your wife must have done some "insurance" be it black magic or otherwise since she must have anticipated you trying to leave her.If you watch well,you are always caught in a web,a vicious cycle of wanting to leave her and reconsidering every sane decision you're supposed to have made since 2011. Leave her,sanctify your house cus there is obviously some element of darkness in your abode.Shalom. 3 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Flameneo(m): 12:16am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Op. If all what you have said is really true,you need no waste time again. sharply go nullify the marriage the way INEC nullify wike's election. |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by oneal10: 12:16am On Dec 26, 2015 |
The only condition for divorce in the bible is If your spouse is adulterous. If she is guilty of this, then you can leave her. But I think you need to intercede for her because the relationship she had with her ex. Boy friend who is a cult leader is tomenting her and causing most of this issue. Couple with other men she is sleeping with. Please for the sake of your life, stay away from Her for now. I mean separate from her and planning your life with prayers. Intercede for her prayerfully so that God will deliver her and restore |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by bobkezel(m): 12:17am On Dec 26, 2015 |
wamenzy:who is this maggot? Go get a life. Imbec!l. 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by babanne(m): 12:18am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Do you need a soothsayer to tell you that woman is about to finish your life with juju? What kind of advice are you looking for? Get evidence of her infidelity and act quickly. I can see that her juju is working seriously on you. |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by repogirl(f): 12:18am On Dec 26, 2015 |
OP, if your story is true, your wife has serious mental issues and is a wicked woman....you better dust your slippers and leave that marriage with your daughter before she will train your children to become like she is. If she wants to change, she can change but not with you living in her house. Her mission is obviously to destroy you and make you a nobody, she has begun... Since you married her, its been negatives. She most likely has cast a badluck spell and hypnosis spell on you...is it until you die and leave your child for her that you will be a good Christian? Be wise, even Jesus Christ has given you a good reason to divorce, unfaithfulness. So what are you still waiting for? Your death certificate? You deserve better abeg. 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Chikerenwa: 12:18am On Dec 26, 2015 |
There is no reference anywhere in the bible that an unfairly treated man should remain in an insultive and violent marriage, it is your life. According to you, your wife is: 1. Devilish and diabolic 2. Given to anger and provocation 3. Flirty and prostitutive 4. Spendthrift and nagging 5. Unrepentant and polluting 6. Difficult to decipher and violent 7. Seclutionist; she is isolating and do not reveal her mind Your wife is a ticking time bomb waiting to blast. Find yourself another woman and divorce her properly. Begin life afresh. Lucky you, this is Nigeria, where the child you had by her is a girl, you may even cite the above factors and get custody of your daughter as she is from the above, not a capable mother. Stop reporting her to people. She may be sleeping with your pastor with the other woman, why they do not see eye to eye and why she is always covered by him. Be a man and learn. Do not blame your marital failure on your inability at workplace to look for a woman yourself. The signs are clear; your attitude and personality prove you as trading your male and life for marriage, this is unbiblical. If you die in the marriage unhappy and dejected, you will not make heaven. Staying forever in an abusive and life threatening marriage is no guarantee for salvation. Good luck to you! 3 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by sameagles(m): 12:20am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Your story is touching brother as i try to give it a benefit of doubt, i'm also married so i put the whole of my self in your shoes, your life is in danger in the marriage and even you decide to file for divorce, with all her terrible harbit she still dont want to face the shame of divorce this i said you may still be in danger, i will surgest you file for seperation for now, along the line she might learn the hard way, sometime in life we learn only the hard way, so this could help you to think straight without much fear, the legal process will tell how both of you could be seing your baby. your story will also help me in my marriage. Cheers. 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by DMerciful(m): 12:21am On Dec 26, 2015 |
You are lucky to be alive bro. What nonsense are you talking of making heaven by living in hell here on earth! Get out of that marriage fast! You foolishness and that of your family is legendary. Do not be overtly foolish, do you want to die before your time? 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Nobody: 12:23am On Dec 26, 2015 |
I am planning to marry in 2016 but OP is now scaring me. OP, you are a great man if what you wrote is the truth. I don't want to tell you to divorce your wife. I can imagine the trauma and drama involve. DO WHAT YOU CAN HANDLE, AND CONSIDER YOUR LIFE, CHILDREN's LIVES AND THAT OF YOUR WIFE. GET A JOB FIRST, WE ALL KNOW WHAT HAPPEN WHEN EVE FIRST PROVIDED FOR ADAM. GOD WAS ANGRY! |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by dollarlander: 12:23am On Dec 26, 2015 |
samocholi: Brother, I have not finished reading your stories but you didn't do proper check-up before you married. I will be very sincere with you, Pentecostalism has done a lot of wreck to some people when it comes to marriage. Though not in all Pentecostal churches. In those days, if anyone wants to marry, he or she could have like three suitors and wants to pick one, they will go and pray about it and usually God will tell the man of God who is right. Though, as we used to say, Marriage is not all bed of roses, their may be challenges but a battle had been won at the beginning. Now you have entered an unknown battle. You friends knows about her involvement with occultism he did not tell you. A proper spiritual check-up would have revealed such hidden secrete to you before you entered the trap and you can't come out because I don't support Divorce. You have to go and pray o. I will still write to you when I am able to read all your write ups. Sorry, but there is nothing God cannot do. |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:23am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Person you go give better beating.. 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:24am On Dec 26, 2015 |
ajuwarhodes: You sef gi am back na shuu!! |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by FBLJ(m): 12:26am On Dec 26, 2015 |
My brother You have a serious issue, but not an impossible case. First I sense you are a religious guy but not a believer, So you felt marrying a church girl will do. Well I guess you know better. Before I continue, I want to advice all the unmarried men, if you want to marry, go to the maker of women and ask him to help you find one when u do, your hearts will click. Everyone who wants original goes to the manufacturer. Back to you, first you have to admit you have made a mistake and go to God in prayers, I will suggest you pray and tell God that you can't help yourself that he should help you and turn ur mistake to miracles, cry if you have to. Secoundly, leave the house and find a place where you can have the peace of mind to pray, I suggest your pastors house, this will help keep you from temptation, and avoid any suspicion. It will also give her the opportunity to think and make a decision that is from within. Now surrender your life to Jesus and pray, after you feel the peace only Jesus can give, you have to face your wife, talk to her and pray with and for her. ( from your write up I noticed you have not talked to her, you are just always trying to pease her). ge your pastor to pray with you on the matter. Finally wait, with your new nature love will flow feom.you naturaly and I've will break all barriers. Remember your daughter will want to have a complete home. God will guide you and I see you coming out strong. Remember what ever decision you make, be sure you have done all you can. Goodluck |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by sisisioge: 12:26am On Dec 26, 2015 |
kstadaura: The OP is playing with fire. God has tried His best to passover him the lurking evil but the guy is unrelenting. Maybe, just maybe he would one day be finally freed with only one eye missing. That's the best optimism I can surmon for him given his determination to kill or permanently injure himself in the name of marriage. Only the idiats seek advice on clear cut issues like this. That's the summary o. 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by 2sex(m): 12:26am On Dec 26, 2015 |
ideology:HE IS NOT A MAN... God knows I would have reached my breaking point within a few weeks of seeing her madness... I go let her know say, madness pass madness. That lady would have left my house long ago... that is guaranteed. 5 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by chinchum(m): 12:26am On Dec 26, 2015 |
You missed out doing the investigation at the courtship stage, the fellow who introduced her to you is also wicked by withholding vital info of her past from you. You are way too permissive, and at the least temporary separation if not divorce is the way forward. The day she took out knife to stab you, you should have either locked her up in a room for that night to be thrown out early in the morning. 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by UbiIsaac(m): 12:27am On Dec 26, 2015 |
ERONX: To add to this, pls go for test as well as divorce you have all the Biblical support to divorce her. pls make sure u dont live with her next year. her diabolic means will only work if u are around her. I'm a Rev. Priest but i ask u to divorce i'll be praying for u 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Bootybuttchic(f): 12:28am On Dec 26, 2015 |
its page four but i have to say this.....u and the pastor are the only mad people in this post...sorry to say.....how can a man like u be advicing you to stay calm with a runz girl,armed robber,cultist?and he is even saying she cant do such things?i swear shes fvcking the pastor.... and ur a very big fuul.. i dont pity u o....i hope she kills u....what rubbish,she tore ur clothes?fvcked married men and ur still her claimimng love....even after seeing the juju its still working on you....omase ooo......eternal efo riro when u die finish make she sha invite me for akara....before she continue to dey fvck around...... kaii.......i just pity u cos ur a nice person.....to a fault! 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Seamareggae(m): 12:28am On Dec 26, 2015 |
This is serious.... Well.... I have seen so many of these but this your own is a very strong case... Lose a wonderful job because of your already troublesome wife... I pray that all is well with you and you pull thru this tough time... 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by jakmankind(m): 12:30am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Op pls hope yuh wife is not on naira land or this forum cos......hmm if she find what u just post here is another problem before I comment 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Nikkyfash: 12:30am On Dec 26, 2015 |
You v to let go n let God have His way...... |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Originalsly: 12:31am On Dec 26, 2015 |
@op...your last sentence.... you are still in the marriage because you want to make heaven and you can't if you divorce. Have you ever read anywhere in the Bible where divorce is not an option? The Bible supports divorce.... and it specifies your situation....adultery. Since you are so desperate to make heaven... didn't the Bible tell you not to be unequally yoked?.....now here you are yoked with a woman of evil. Didn't the Bible warn you about wolves in sheep's clothing?...and here you are with a woman who you know is evil and be going to church like she be more holy than holy. You should've been long out of the marriage. My advice... gather your balls together and act like a man for once....get that your ranking police relative to lock her up for threatening you...hitting you...for something... two weeks in the hole where she can't carry out her juju rituals and I guarantee you she be leaving there a mad woman. You just need to be a man period 1 Like |
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