Her name is Janet,from my guess,a close friend to my girlfriend Joy,she called me one faithful day and started asking about my mum,sister and my studies,after that day,we have been communicating casually,but today Joy call me to tell me that she like me,the way i talk,the way i joke bla bla,i told her thank you,she asked me to say something better than that,and i still told her thanks,she insisted that i am a guy so i should understand whassup,and i told her in return that i love her friend that am not ready to have another relationship with anybody,talk more of a friend to my girlfriend!
Now the girl in question is begging me not to tell her friend about what transpired between me and her.Nairalanders whats your take on this matter?
Could it be a setup between my girlfriend and her friend?
Should i tell my girlfriend about it?.
Drop you suggestions pls!

Aren't you a man? It's not everything you'll start talking about or would you rather they have a fight or confrontation because of her foolhardiness?

Chuck it up bro!

U shudnt take it seriously...it cud be a set up or serious but I think,juz leave it as it is since u already told her that u love ur gf & u don't want to have any affair outside ur relationship...
Juz forget it & move on.

Maybe its a set-up,maybe its not. But I don't think its necessary that you tell Joy bout what happened. Just let things be.

Tnx all

Op...it's either you are Mad or you are Gay

Set up gini?? B'ko all i see i extra pcssy to you doorstep and you are here asking stupid question

If you nor like her abeg post her number come here mak we help you out..rubbish

Next please

CONFAM SETUP.... Just ignored asif it never happen

Jayjay0:
Op...it's either you are Mad or you are Gay

Set up gini?? B'ko all i see i extra pcssy to you doorstep and you are here asking stupid question

If you nor like her abeg post her number come here mak we help you out..rubbish

Next please

4ny u

Ok, something doesn't add up to moi. You sound like you barely know the girl because from your "guess", her name is Janet. Let's call her Jane Doe. How did she get your number in the 1st place? Did you give it to her or did she guess it like you're guessing her name right now ?I just find it odd that you've been chatting & calling but still unsure about the name. When she called, she never said, "Hi, it's Janet". Sounds like someone is faking amnesia

Personally, I find this whole thing a little inappropriate. No friend of mine is allowed to chat or call my man. What for? What do they want? I think you wouldn't be in this predicament have you told your GF from the start that you've been talking to Janet on the phone. I'm sure she'd have been curious to know why & shut it down immediately, long before it reached this very awkward stage. Look what mess you & your secret phone pal have created

you just lockup and watch
if na plan work u go know
and if no b plan work u go know
but dey careful

tnx 4 ur intelligent analysis but b mindful of de fact dat ur fnd hs access 2 ur phone so anytin cn happen,again i told my GF about a strange numba on mi phone,
so u c i had no intention 4 any 1.

DouchessPunkyII:
Ok, something doesn't add up to moi. You sound like you barely know the girl because from your "guess", her name is Janet. Let's call her Jane Doe. How did she get your number in the 1st place? Did you give it to her or did she guess it like you're guessing her name right now ?I just find it odd that you've been chatting & calling but still unsure about the name. When she called, she never said, "Hi, it's Janet". Sounds like someone is faking amnesia

Personally, I find this whole thing a little inappropriate. No friend of mine is allowed to chat or call my man. What for? What do they want? I think you wouldn't be in this predicament have you told your GF from the start that you've been talking to Janet on the phone.

I tud mi gal dat vry moment de numba called!

DaaChilex:

I tud mi gal dat vry moment de numba called!

And she said it was ok for y'all to be talking like that? Anyway, since you claim she's aware, then just tell her what her friend is asking you to do. Surely you want your girl to have people who aren't backstabbers in her life, don't you?

Dont do that. Allow her be.That is just what life is all about. Since she told you never to tell her friend, do not tell your lady. She will have more respect for you.Great men dont gossip.

DouchessPunkyII:


And she said it was ok for y'all to be talking like that? Anyway, since you claim she's aware, then just tell her what her friend is asking you to do. Surely you want your girl to have people who aren't backstabbers in her life, don't you?

Tnx but i already turn down her requst,so i fink dia z no need 2 mak trouble 4 de gal!

DaaChilex:

Tnx but i already turn down her requst,so i fink dia z no need 2 mak trouble 4 de gal!

You're missing the point, but ok.

DouchessPunkyII:

You're missing the point, but ok.

How pls

DaaChilex:

How pls

Like let's say if it was one of your boys hitting on your girl, wouldn't you wanna know so you could watch your back? Someone like that is not a true friend imo

DouchessPunkyII:


Like let's say if it was one of your boys hitting on your girl, wouldn't you wanna know so you could watch your back? Someone like that is not a true friend imo

De truth z dat even m GF z nt acceptin de fact dat her frnd called me,so i dont wanna force her to knw de frnd,infact to me z like it is a setup,mi gal wnt 2 hook on neck!

DaaChilex:

De truth z dat even m GF z nt acceptin de fact dat her frnd called me,so i dont wanna force her to knw de frnd,infact to me z like it is a setup,mi gal wnt 2 hook on neck!

Perhaps. But you're also not blameless here because as you admit, your GF doesn't like it, so why did you continue taking her calls? I think you don't wanna come out & tell her because you're trying to save your own skin. Catch 22

DouchessPunkyII:


Perhaps. But you're also not blameless here because as you admit, your GF doesn't like it, so why did you continue taking her calls? I think you don't wanna come out & tell her because you're trying to save your own skin. Catch 22

4ny u,z nt lik dat,i just wnt de mata 2 die off

DaaChilex:

4ny u,z nt lik dat,i just wnt de mata 2 die off

Well, ok then.

DaaChilex:

4ny u,z nt lik dat,i just wnt de mata 2 die off

Watch it though, desperate gurls can go to any length to spoil d Brut for u.

Let's say she cooks up a story against u for ur woman?
Most likely, they were frnds b4 u came into d picture, who do u think ur gurl wud bliv?
She can break u guys apart gee... I'm not saying u shld tell ur gurl, prob her to see How much she knows about her frnd.

DouchessPunkyII:

Like let's say if it was one of your boys hitting on your girl, wouldn't you wanna know so you could watch your back? Someone like that is not a true friend imo

This has happened to Urs truly alota times.
The only savin coin is the fact that d ladies Where heart n head into him. They told him.
N like a learned fox, he had to beware of those fakefriends

Hannysmilez:
Maybe its a set-up,maybe its not. But I don't think its necessary that you tell Joy bout what happened. Just let things be.

ga shi nan

Alhaja yakike,

Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year in Advance

I G N O R E !

DaaChilex:

Tnx but i already turn down her requst,so i fink dia z no need 2 mak trouble 4 de gal!

pls make trouble ooo, such a friend is not worth been in d life of your gf(i.e if you truly love her), coz she can do anything to hurt or harm your gf in future, so its better now for your gf to be weary of her......and if its a set up, your gf would still appreciate u telling her, coz with that d love n trust she has for u would increase.

misspicy:

ga shi nan

Alhaja yakike,

Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year in Advance

Haha. Ga shi nan kuwa! This your Hausa isn't well cooked. Thanks a lot muffin. Wishing you same.

@ op it on that FATEFUL day and not FAITHFULL day

yemmynoni:
@ op it on that FATEFUL day and not FAITHFULL day

Tnx but z dat ur contribution

Op are you dating a teenager

Better go and tell your girls oo, na confirm set up!