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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mitchyy(f): 6:22pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
asiwaju87: You've totally summed it up! Exactment! |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Analysiscorner: 6:23pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
ignis:but the car Could be a factor. You don't know. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Juliuxxxxx: 6:24pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector: |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Drfinn: 6:24pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
sonofananimal: We where engaged but things didn't go as planned. If you have the time go through my topics I shared it here on Nairaland : October 24th,my introduction date that never came through. That's the heading. It had nothing to do with material possession. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by watered(m): 6:25pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
babylawyr:Well I know it will be difficult through a courier service I would have done that. Let me request for your state of domicile. I'm waiting |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Juliuxxxxx: 6:25pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Men don run for sister LINDA finish bah? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Bollinger(m): 6:25pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
If buying a car by a woman will make men feel intimidated in Nigeria, then una no go fit marry for Europe and America oooo. The mentality in Nigeria is mind boggling i swear. I wonder how the thought process works over there. 4 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by blessedfavoured: 6:25pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by aniokwe: 6:26pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
No dear it won't wldd only mk us knw u r an asset and nt a liability. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Eddygourdo(m): 6:26pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector:hector. You alone is a bad gang |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nelgenius4me(m): 6:26pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Hello Lady, there is no law(s) that prohibit a single lady from owning a car. It's only a wrong perception borne by some who feel if a single lady owns a car she must be doing the "unusual". For a working class lady like you,. there is something to show that you possess the means to acquire a car. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Chigorkizz(m): 6:27pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Buying a car will attract play boys into ur life. They might be of same class with you but all they want is to chop and clean mouth 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by mideactive: 6:27pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Owning a car is 4ur own comfort,I don't see hw dat stops u 4rm getin a gud man.except if u'v got too much ego or bad attitude.I think d main reason y we'v got so many single guys dis day is bcus no man wants liability in his life.d truth is ladies like u is wat men of vision wants.pls don't deprive urself of ur comfort omotohdarajugbogbolo: |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by wazobiaforu(m): 6:28pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
I see it this way, Late twenties should be from 27 to 29, and you don't have a prospective husband already? If yes then something is supposed to be take care of before car, Your siblings that advised you should not get a car now might noticed kind of arrogance in you and Surely owing a car will make it fast obvious. My advise, you might turn 30 next year, it's better to hold on now because surely cars will send more Nigerian guys away from having the confidence of asking you out. But if you have a guy and his in support of this, my dear go buy a good ride and don't buy any car you see gallon on it because the stress will wash away your beauty..lol 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 6:29pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
mitchyy:What's wrong in 'flaunting' your car? And you didn't have to pretend to his friends about your ownership of the car. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 6:29pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Drfinn:wow! Always hate anything that deals with the heart! 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by blessedfavoured: 6:30pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Bollinger: This is not totally true though, my experience has been the opposite. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 6:30pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
i dont think so.... |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by blessedfavoured: 6:31pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
CFCman: I saw that and I was thinking Thank God this is coming from a guy. Real men have no problem with it. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by cowgirl9090: 6:32pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector:this is really funny. that's to say it attracts gold diggers to her? |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Nobody: 6:32pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Bollinger:Preach it. In America, girls as young as 19,20 own cars sef. Some of them drive BMWs. That means most Naija guys no go look their side |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by katoto: 6:33pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
It will attract the good,the bad n the ugly.Op you have to be careful over the choice of men you will make after buying the car. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Bollinger(m): 6:33pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
blessedfavoured: What exactly are you saying? |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by jackpot(f): 6:34pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Idrismusty97:if you are a lady in her late twenties, you will understand. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by kidsam: 6:35pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
I think what will push men away is that at this stage of your life, you cannot make a decision for yourself with respect to what you consider your need. If after working for 3 years in a multinational company with supposed multinational exposure, you reach the conclusion that you need a car, then your brother's opinion leaves you confused as to whether you should meet that need or not, then I fear that if you find the husband, most likely your brother's or family's opinion will influence your responses to whatever decisions your husband and yourself ought to take. I can promise you, this is a turnoff for any husband. So dear, reconsider what you think is your need and DECIDE whether you want to meet it or not. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Malakh: 6:35pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
it's the level of thinking and poverty in that country that makes it tough for a guy to approach a woman with ride, I wouldn't think that would be the same thing overseas, getting a car is not that hard or expensive there,even without a car I can approach any woman, when someone has their own house or apt with a stable job,I dont think not having a car should deter a man from approaching a woman or vice-versa, sometimes it might be licencing problems etc, is it the car you are after or the character |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by LaurelP(m): 6:35pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Op it's not the car that will drive men away. it's your attitude. If you allow the car to get into your head and you start feeling pompous and disrespectful, then men will be intimidated to come to you. All I can say is drive the car but don't let it drive you. still remain your humble self and men will even be more attracted to you 4 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by zemaye: 6:35pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
babylawyr: |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by musicwriter(m): 6:35pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
omotohdarajugbogbolo: This post came just on time!. I currently have a lady I used to know some time in past when she was on the street. After several years saw her again and she now have a big boutique and drive not one but 2 cars. There's nothing she have not done to make sure I marry her, but of course I'm not interested. I'm not here to say a lot just in case she's on Nairaland. Do you know what I'm thinking?. How did this lady of not more than 35 get this rich in Africa?. Could it be she's prostituting or done before?. Did she kill a man to get this rich?. I mean, last time I saw this girl in 2008 I gave her some money. Lot of thoughts rushing in my head. To those saying because you'll intimidate men, they don't know what they're talking about. Intimidation or whatever they call it will have many psychological explanations. For example; I wouldn't marry you cause I'll erroneously or rightly assume you're having an affair with a sugar daddy who bought you a car. Your family are obviously right and they care for you to give you that piece of advice. That's the kind of society we live in. However, you have your life to live. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Bollinger(m): 6:36pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
CFCman: 19 ke? Most states issue drivers license to 17 year olds. Just have a Job, decent credit and your are good to go. God help Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by yinkus204(m): 6:36pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
GoodSamaritan:best reply ever hav see in 2015 4 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by nkemdi89(f): 6:37pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
U ronald4lif:God bless you thank this is coming from a man, I got my first car at 24 and I don't regret, only insecure and envious men will run away, those with big balls will come, car isn't asset but necessity, besides even those condemning me before still enter my car and have use it to assist people both at work and other functions. |
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