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Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by aly123: 9:37pm On Dec 26, 2015
Hello Nlanders,i need your advice as am in a confused state of mind. I have a guy who loves me so much that I wonder if I could ever get such love from anybody else again and I also love him as well but the issue I have with this guy is that I am an introvert and he is also one. Prior to meeting him,i had always wanted a guy that is outspoken, bold nd courageous but on the contrary, my guy is a very shy person (more than I am), not bold, cant face a crowd which I also can't do which makes me wonder what happens if either of us is to do something of such in future amongst other things. Please I would like to know if introvert/introvert relationships work. Please matured minds or married ones here who has been in this situation should let me know how they dealt with it.

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by falconey(m): 9:38pm On Dec 26, 2015
comment withheld ........... WTF

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by tobbie247(m): 9:40pm On Dec 26, 2015
End time relationship cheesy grin

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by osaslord500(m): 9:44pm On Dec 26, 2015
grin boring relationship

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by ynkabir(m): 9:46pm On Dec 26, 2015
You both could make it work if you really want to. My piece

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Cutehector(m): 9:50pm On Dec 26, 2015
Mchew... This is the reason why i insists ladies are very confused

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by jamex93(m): 9:51pm On Dec 26, 2015
make d two of una seat each orda down and discuss dis mata
if not .....

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by JudgementHammer: 9:52pm On Dec 26, 2015
He must be mel-phleg and perhaps u too. Well I'm not married but one thing I've noticed is that many people don't knw abt themselves and I've noticed that introverts knw abt themselves more than the extros, perhaps bcus they have more developed brain cells.

My advice is if u can't see a psychologist, then read more abt personality temperament of d opposite sex and advice him to read abt u later too especially after u've read and understood him so well. I won't say u shd see a pastor cuz no matter how u pray it doesn't change his person except ure d extreme xtain, then d holy sprt can refine ur personality-not change it

U also need to consider d weakness of extros wch u say u like, they may not be able to give u dat very close n intimate attention u desire cus of their loud nature and they're every ladies' men. As for ur guy, u shd knw he must have had some brutality in his growing stage for him to have such a nature so do what will boost his battered psychy/ego, don't compare urself with other ladies. Funny enough, respect from a woman for him may be best defined by kneeling b4 him but he might nt be able to tell u cus u would think afterall many women don't do that in this modern age.

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by hungryboy(m): 9:54pm On Dec 26, 2015
Just stick with him for a while,

He might just turn out being an extrovert pretending to be an introvert to impress you,

I still remember few years back when i was enrolled at a secondary newly,
I pretended to be shy, didn't talk much, didn't get into fights,
After a few months in school, after i had made a few friends,

I started showing them my true colours

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by theMusicNerd(m): 9:55pm On Dec 26, 2015
U guys can handle it, if U really wanna

I'm an ambivert... Both intro and extroverted.
U guys should find common things u guys like, books, games, argument topics - philosophy, politics and etc movies... And thrive on 'em to bond more

Get outta ur fvcking shell! u guys should task urselves to do something new... Maybe visit a cinema or park with time, u'd get used to it

U guys should go all crazy in the house!!! When home alone, pillow fights, cook 2geda, sex on the kitchen floor

When u're out, maybe do an analysis of everyting u see! 'Hey babe, see that nigga's head like a watermelon' hahahah.... Just yab ppl and say crap.. A lil' alchohol too.. U guys 'll go haywire

Make ur indoors ur outdoor, intellectially stimulate each other... Puzzles riddles quests adventures

Basically, u guys should get extroverted with each other, let others see u guys as introverted, buh u guys are extroverted insider each others mind


Life's too short!

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by ibrams(m): 9:56pm On Dec 26, 2015
he will definitely come over it.....
he is a man..... and he has to stand out for the both of you.......
how did he toast you sef..... not even my business

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Shortyy(f): 9:57pm On Dec 26, 2015
If you love him that much, stick with him

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by obiorathesubtle: 9:59pm On Dec 26, 2015
Oya shake it.. Took your mama 9 months to make it!!

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by aly123: 10:01pm On Dec 26, 2015
theMusicNerd:
U guys can handle it, if U really wanna

I'm an ambivert... Both intro and extroverted.
U guys should find common things u guys like, books, games, argument topics - philosophy, politics and etc movies... And thrive on 'em to bond more

Get outta ur fvcking shell! u guys should task urselves to do something new... Maybe visit a cinema or park with time, u'd get used to it

U guys should go all crazy in the house!!! When home alone, pillow fights, cook 2geda, sex on the kitchen floor

When u're out, maybe do an analysis of everyting u see! 'Hey babe, see that nigga's head like a watermelon' hahahah.... Just yab ppl and say crap.. A lil' alchohol too.. U guys 'll go haywire

Make ur indoors ur outdoor, intellectially stimulate each other... Puzzles riddles quests adventures

Basically, u guys should get extroverted with each other, let others see u guys as introverted, buh u guys are extroverted insider each others mind


Life's too short!
we are much more than these when we are together, I luv 'us' but d problem is the way we are to other people. I mean being shy

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by tungstar(m): 10:02pm On Dec 26, 2015
Shortyy:
If you love him that much, stick with him



Yup dat says it all...... The long and short of it all

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by allytinted: 10:18pm On Dec 26, 2015
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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by theMusicNerd(m): 10:18pm On Dec 26, 2015
aly123:
we are much more than these when we are together, I luv 'us' but d problem is the way we are to other people. I mean being shy

Then u don't have a problem, as long as u guys are mad with each other..

Btw, psychologically, shyness has been linked with an inferiority complex

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 10:22pm On Dec 26, 2015
Two introverts dating...

Woman: Life has become meaningless. Nothing seems to be working. No money, no friends, no family. What's the point in living?

Man: Yea, life is meaningless. Let's die.

Woman: Nice idea, I think we should just die.




Hey, y'all should stop quoting me. I'm allowed to have fun. I haven't made any assertion, neither did I mention names. Defendants of the Universe! Lol.

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 26, 2015
Being an introvert is one.
Being outspoken and courageous is another.

I am an introvert but also voice out my opinion when the need arises without fear or favour.

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Nobody: 10:41pm On Dec 26, 2015
sad
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Naveedah(f): 10:41pm On Dec 26, 2015
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by APCcrimesHD: 10:41pm On Dec 26, 2015
Anyway, I'll just tell you to keep faith and hope he turns extrovert...


But such waits can be like waiting for bubu to make N1 = $1

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by AceRoyal: 10:42pm On Dec 26, 2015
let's ask the expert on introvert matters....
Madam Introvert where are u?ur expertise is needed here.tongue
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by BUSHHUNTER: 10:43pm On Dec 26, 2015
Hh
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by cutebobo(m): 10:43pm On Dec 26, 2015
Dear op, marriage is more than that

If is he a good guy, please no waste time or else don't come here again crying and disturbing nairalanders with ur headache after marrying someone else who is an extrovert

Baby mi, oko wonlode (husband dey scarce)

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Slimbideb: 10:43pm On Dec 26, 2015
Yes yu can but to make it sweet ehn,always prepare your breakfast with IBADAN WEED.

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Helkayklassic(m): 10:43pm On Dec 26, 2015
Introvert your attention is needed here you can bring extrovert along when coming.

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by sholay2011(m): 10:44pm On Dec 26, 2015
PushMusic:
Being an introvert is one.
Being outspoken and courageous is another.

I am an introvert but also voice out my opinion when the need arises without fear or favour.
This.
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Emodeee: 10:45pm On Dec 26, 2015
I'm sorry bt no. If u r an introvert as a guy, marry wife wey go get small craze bt dn't let her be husband over you. If she wanna trespass, take ur cue from extroverts. When normalcy returns, go bk to your normal self.

If u r an introvert as a lady, marry an extrovert. Ur relationship will be boring if you both are introverts.

Introverts are boring#facts.

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Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by tosyne2much(m): 10:46pm On Dec 26, 2015
Hmmmmm
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by babyfaceafrica: 10:46pm On Dec 26, 2015
Why not?
Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by IamDejman(m): 10:47pm On Dec 26, 2015
You can marry but expect a boring marriage

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